Hi Everyone, Thankyou for letting me join this community.
Being a man I always joked to people that I had 'great legs...for a woman!'. Last couple of years I was able to find out if that was actually true! I actually do think my legs are more like female legs than mens anyway - I'm quite slim. So this is actually an advantage when wearing female clothes.
Ok, so I've always, always been massively aroused by very dark fantasies (torture, discipline, punishment) I'VE NO IDEA WHY! I'm a very gentle natured, kind sort of person in normal life. Eventually I just dived in and tied myself up at home, why is it so much fun??!! And I honestly never thought I'd say it, but the cross dressing is a blast too - why?! Don't know, but getting to the point I don't really care!
Anyway thankyou everyone, looking forward to reading all your posts!
(If I just vanish one day, apologies in advance - I sometimes have this idea that I shouldn't do any of this kind of thing)
I have found a new hypnotee. She is awfull good suggestible.
I have done some nice triggers with her till now.
Now I am looking for new ideas which I can do with her.
I list the triggers she already has:
Freeze : The classiker. She freezes to a statue. The cool part for her: the time stands still.
Slow Freeze : I like this one. This is like Freeze, but it starts at her feet and moves on, until her brain freezes
Blackout : Amazingly she is total blind! Never had before so good working!
Body lock : Almost like freeze but she stays conscious. She can look around with her eyes and can speak
"body part" lock : I can lock indivdual body parts. Like a finger, or an arm.
magnet "body part" : I can install magnets on every point on her body. With that I can pin every part on her body to something. Like pin her forehead to a wall...
Not a spoken trigger: When I put my finger on the frontside of my mobilephone, every tap, every stroke happens to her clitoris. I can intensivy this with number from 1...5
Well this is fun in public 😊
puppet : Her body has to do what ever I tell her. She is looking from behind a window and can't do anything against it.
So, I am looking for some bdsm/erotic ideas which we can realize with her.
didn't know where to put this, this is closest place I could find, Latex, selfie, in real life(atleast when I'm binding up), My new face mask has arrived and a new skirt. The mask fits great, found it on ebay, way, way over priced. Now I should be able to wear a mask all the time during my Binding sessions.
As some of you may have read I had a plan for a chair tie session and it happened earlier this week.
The kit used:
Chair secured to 30mm thick 600x600 wooden board
Eyebolts screwed into board
Leather locking cuffs (wrist, ankle, collar)
Body harness
0.6mm full latex catsuit
Ropes/padlocks/socks/ice/steel rings
7” dildo
I started the morning by locking on my steel chastity device and locking the keys in the timer kitchen safe for 6 hours, long after I expected to have finished by.
A thorough internal clean out and insert my medium plug, I used a latex thong to keep things in place while I finished preparations.
Getting things set up took a lot longer than expected as I needed to finish the board/ chair. But eventually I was good to go.
I set up my dildo into the centre on the seat using a steel ring and two luggage straps passed under the seat in a cross... it was not moving.
I put on my latex catsuit including socks, gloves and hood, fitting and locking cuffs over everything. I used my newly acquired cheap eBay body harness to snug things up a little further.
I approached the seat, slipped out the medium plug and carefully took a seat impailing myself on the dildo.
Ankles were pulled back to the eyebolts using karabiners
Nipples were suctioned into a pair of vac tubes
A small bullet vibrator was placed just above the Chasity device to make things interesting
The wrist were linked linked to the pull ropes using padlocks down to ice release in the socks and TRD as one way systems.
So I was sat and in and stuck
Until the ice let me go.... or so I thought.
There was a lot of sensation all over the place and for quite a while I was under the impression that an HFO was on the cards... certainly felt like it for quite a while... but nothing.
So there I was rocking back and forth trying to make things happen. I really wanted to try to peak but still be stuck and have to suffer... however as usual fate had other plans.
I was totally unable to lift off the Dildo, most I succeeded was about 2” separation to the seat base meaning I still had over 4” of dildo well inside me.
What worked...
The whole setup in general was a success it all felt pretty solid and secure
Will definaley be trying it again at some point
What could have gone bettter...
The body harness has the option of 4 arm loops I only used 2 ( well one actually as I forgot to slip by right arm into it before locking the padlock to the pull rope, so I had one arm more snug than the other.
Next time I would aim to cross the wrist ropes behind me to opposing corners of the board to restrict things a little further.
I’d also use the other two arm straps to secure the body harness to chair back
But the main thing that could have worked better was the TRD not slipping after 25 minutes with only about 1/2 the ice gone.
I did have a camera running but the angle is not great as I could only get the GoPro style camera to work in the space available. The camcorder would only fill the frame over a much longer range meaning it was only about 1/2 of me in shot at any point. Still I’ll have a look and take some screenshots off it at the very least.
And yep still stuck in chastity for another 2-3hrs or so, might as well start cleaning up.
The worst thing about super-tight encasement self-bondage? When you start feeling the onset of panic, despite all the calculations and plans you have made. Instinct is a powerful thing. When you are encased in several levels of spandex, and there are a number of contortionist actions between your current position and freedom - or even worse, timers - the last thing you want is to lose your cool. Both figuratively and literally. With practice, it goes away, but the first times are always the worst.
Femininity (like masculinity) is a gender "feature" (not a "sex" feature, like the terms "male" or "female"), what means both "males" and "females" can be "feminine" and/or "masculine".
But what is femininity for you? How would you define it? Any examples? Photos? Drawings? What is "utter feminine" in your opinion?
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Ok. I’ve recently got my first pair of handcuffs.
Makes things feel very much more committed when clicked in.
Only tried to get the feel for them so far and practice undoing them.
Simple enough from the front, but I’m needing to see what I’m doing still.
Not tried locking them behind my back yet as I don’t think I know where to ‘feel’ for the lock is yet.
Any tips on how to practice for behind the back unlocking without getting stuck?
