Family, friends, colleagues and fetish moments or Home together.

[Like Ra]

No. It is always me who inserts words like fetish, latex, lycra, bondage, bdsm into usual conversations. And mostly these words are used as allegories, or to emphasize the subject, or to add some humorous shade.

But, OTOH, I can work remotely, and I do not usually see people. The most erotic moments are to see girls in pantyhose from the car window, and watching them choosing pantyhose in shops 😁

...choosing pantyhose in shops

At the moment I don't think you can beat John Lewis's own brand 15 deniers at £4.50; STW and semi-shiny. Much higher quality than you'd expect for their price, stock up in the sales 😉

I have a female  colleague 'of a certain age'  with the classic ash-blonde dominatrix bob who's rather short and always wears knee boots or shoe-boots with at least 5" heels to compensate. Overheard the other day '...oh no, that's from where he bent me over the table...'

[Like Ra]

I've just noticed, that what I wrote can be understood incorrectly. I meant: " watching girls while they are choosing tights". I always wonder what the are thinking about. The feel? The look? The price? The sexiness? The "normal" and the "fetishists" minds are different. Think of pantyhose-haters.

At the moment I think you can't beat John Lewis 15 denier; STW and a decent shine. Much better quality than you'd expect for £4.50, stock up in the sales

Never seen them. But I think you can't beat nur Die Hüft ( http://www.likera.com/blog/wp/index.php?...+H%C3%BCft ). The price suddenly jumped up from 2.29 to 2.69 and now to 3.19 euro in one year, but they are still my favourite.

Here is a little fun. Get a key, like one of those round type keys. Put a tag on it with the message " little man's chastity Belt " on it.
Now toss it in the lady's rest room.

Now sit back with coffee and See what's happens next.

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Have any of you hear other people talk openly on what they want to do to their partners or have their partners do to themselfs?

Well ?

Much more unusual here in the states - but here and there when I've been in Europe (e.g., much more often).  Often I find it's someone looking to break the ice on the topic to see whether there's mutual interest.  Has worked well for me once 😊

The strangest thing happened yesterday... I was complimented by a woman about how good my legs looked in tights!  

Now, before you all get excited and think that I've finally 'come out' I must state that she was complementing me in my running tights, but it did get me thinking once again about the perception of 'right' and 'wrong' with respect to clothing.

My running tights are probably 99% the same as my 'fetish' tights in how they fit and the material they are made from, so it can only be the context in which they are seen that makes it ok to wear running tights in public, but somehow not ok to wear a thick pair of 'normal' tights.

hmmm...

I have to add a footnote: when I got back home from the run my vanity got the better of me and I took a look at myself in the mirror - Damn, my legs DO look good in shiny black tights!  😁 

Now I'm hunting around on eBay for some nice 60d or thicker shiny black tights... any recommendations? 

MJ

When you find them, let me know.
I'm looking for some too.

The strangest thing happened yesterday... I was complimented by a woman about how good my legs looked in tights!  

Now, before you all get excited and think that I've finally 'come out' I must state that she was complementing me in my running tights, but it did get me thinking once again about the perception of 'right' and 'wrong' with respect to clothing.

My running tights are probably 99% the same as my 'fetish' tights in how they fit and the material they are made from, so it can only be the context in which they are seen that makes it ok to wear running tights in public, but somehow not ok to wear a thick pair of 'normal' tights.

hmmm...

I have to add a footnote: when I got back home from the run my vanity got the better of me and I took a look at myself in the mirror - Damn, my legs DO look good in shiny black tights!  😁 

Now I'm hunting around on eBay for some nice 60d or thicker shiny black tights... any recommendations? 

MJ

Have you tried Luxe Fata (https://shapings.com/pantyhose/opaque/luxe-fata.html) or Uppsala (https://shapings.com/pantyhose/opaque/uppsala.html). Both are wonderfully thick, shiny black tights. Warning about the Luxe Fata, if your feet are bigger than about size 11 US Male then they are hard to put on, but ohhh sooo worth it!

A few other suggestions that I like Dynamic Sateen (https://shapings.com/pantyhose/opaque/dy...saten.html), Diabolo 50 (https://shapings.com/pantyhose/opaque/diabolo.html), and Opac Brillo (https://shapings.com/pantyhose/opaque/opac-brillo.html)

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