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Be fit, be pretty and crossdress more! Motivational thread - Like Ra - 05 Nov 2020
10 years ago I posted this https://www.likera.com/blog/wp/archives/6018 and asked you:
Like Ra Wrote:If you had a perfect figure (sporty, athletic, slim, fit) would you wear fetish clothes more often than if you were overweight?
It's a clear "yes" for me. @madjack also said "yes". And I bet it would be "yes" for many of us here.
For me aesthetics is very important, my wife is very supportive in my fetishes, but I know she is very sensitive to aesthetics, and she sees "how it looks" first, than to "how erotic it is for the wearer" (see this post: https://www.likera.com/blog/wp/archives/15131). So, I stopped crossdressing at home when I'm not alone, and since I'm usually not alone, I... stopped crossdressing 😁
Saying that. Let's use our cumulative minds together with the thoughtforms and devise ways to look good and crossdress or wear fetish clothes more.
All non-harmful ideas are welcome!
Be fit, be pretty and crossdress more! Motivational thread - Like Ra - 05 Nov 2020
(05 Nov 2020, 16:59 )Frank Wrote: some of my skirts and tops have "mysteriously shrunk" and don't fit as nicely as they once did.😂
RE: new attempt - Tinker D - 05 Nov 2020
Same here. For some reason that I don’t understand, i went from a size 16 to a whopping 20 ?????
Can’t figure out how that happened.
RE: new attempt - Like Ra - 05 Nov 2020
And I a
eady had a new thread in mind...
RE: new attempt - Tinker D - 05 Nov 2020
What are you going to call the new thread?
How fat I am ???
RE: new attempt - Frank - 05 Nov 2020
How about "Covid-19 shrunk my clothes!"
RE: new attempt - essanym - 05 Nov 2020
(05 Nov 2020, 20:16 )Frank Wrote: How about "Covid-19 shrunk my clothes!"
That has definitely happened with me. Fortunately, most of what I wear during the day is stretchy tights and leotards.
RE: Be fit, be pretty and crossdress more! Motivational thread - Like Ra - 05 Nov 2020
(05 Nov 2020, 19:38 )Tinker D Wrote: What are you going to call the new thread?It's a motivational thread, so the title should be positive 😊
RE: Be fit, be pretty and crossdress more! Motivational thread - Like Ra - 05 Nov 2020
I was the thinnest two years ago ~70kg (see https://www.likera.com/blog/wp/archives/69344 and https://www.likera.com/blog/wp/archives/69357). Now I'm 77+ with wrong curves 😁
What I noticed is I gain weight when I use food as the only dopamine source, at it happens when I overwork, an when I'm overstressed. What helps (me) is constantly being in the erotic mood, "semiaroused", listening to erotic hypno files, being plugged, caged, and dressed up. So, it's like a "positive feedback", the more I listen to hypno, the more I dress up, the more I get aroused, the less I eat (if you are plugged and/or corsetted your concentration is busy with something else, than food), the more I dress up, etc. And, correspondingly, the other way around.
On the other and, as I mentioned many times, last 5-6 years I've been trying to follow "the subconscious" - I do, what my body does, when stop any conscious efforts. I do not "blame" my SCM, I trust it, apparently there are other priorities (or lessons) 😁
RE: Be fit, be pretty and crossdress more! Motivational thread - essanym - 06 Nov 2020
(05 Nov 2020, 23:58 )Like Ra Wrote: I was the thinnest two years ago ~70kg. Now I'm 77+ with wrong curves
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I wish I was only 77kg. Back when I think I was at my best, I was probably at around 80kg. I'm 6'1" (around 185cm) so my current weight of 95 kg is closer to what I'm told my ideal weight is. I do not have a chubby appearance at all, but the belly is there. I would very much love to get rid of this excess fat and back to what I was 10 years ago.
(05 Nov 2020, 23:58 )Like Ra Wrote: What I noticed is I gain weight when I use food as the only dopamine source, at it happens when I overwork, an when I'm overstressed. What helps (me) is constantly being in the erotic mood, "semiaroused", listening to erotic hypno files, being plugged, caged, and dressed up. So, it's like a "positive feedback", the more I listen to hypno, the more I dress up, the more I get aroused, the less I eat (if you are plugged and/or corsetted your concentration is busy with something else, than food), the more I dress up, etc. And, correspondingly, the other way around.
I can vouch for that. During this whole covid thing, I've spent a lot of time doing nothing but eating. More recently however, because of my wife deciding to "force" me to wear dresses around the house, I've spent more time thinking about fetish in general and less time eating. These days I'm quite inspired to lose weight but still working on the motivational part. Motivation has always been troublesome for me. Additionally, I need to rid myself of a medication I take that makes food pass more slowly through. Retention of any kind is certainly not good for the figure.