Although I've been around the forums for a little over a year now and have interacted with some of you, I think this subforum is the most fitting.
Do you think my username is offensive/misogynistic?
I have to admit I chose it on a whim and it caters to the submissive side I discovered around the time I joined, so I only apply it to myself. Personally I'd never refer to another woman as a "whore" (unless she explicitly asked me to during play).
I'm already middle-aged, been into bondage, self-bondage and crossdressing since I was a teenager.
I remember this site being one of the earliest resources for me when I was looking for some actual SB techniques, instead of just playing with some random piece of rope (Yes, the ever famous special ring device, cinch noose and the two hogties and a ball tie applying those š )
And lo' and behold, the next day I already got a reply from a woman in my city, 33 years old, petite but slightly athletic.Ā Inexperienced but very eager to dip her unquestionably sexy toes into the shores of bondage play.
Could it be? A unicorn?
See, I'm not an idiot. I knew that she had to be fake. A "keyboard wanker" is the colloquial term, I think.
But what if she's not? Gee. What if this is the one in a million shot hitting the bullseye?
Ask yourself, would you have pursued the opportunity?
Well, I have. And let me tell you, the ups and downs of imagining it could be real and telling myself to stop and call her out (or him, more specifically) were a fun experience. We chatted for 2-3 hours, two nights in a row.
In her mind, she was looking for a strong D/s overtone. Since she had no experience, she wanted me to take the reigns and only interject with yellow/red safewords if she felt overwhelmed. For her, the idea of bondage was inseparably linked to a heavy sexual vibe. She expected to beĀ naked and vulnerable right from the start, forced to pleasure her Master as he deems fit, receiving pleasure herself only as a reward if she followed orders properly (in the ad, I stated that the range of scenarios could go from playful damsel in distress scenes through taxing ties in fetish clothing up to complete, naked helplessness while being pounded by a fucking machine and a magic wand pushed onto her clit).
When I jerked off later that night, I came harder than I had come in quite a long time.
I told her I was already planning another meetup with my bondage buddy I met over my old classified for the first week of May and that she could contact him as a referenceĀ (I had of course asked him for permission to share his anonymous profile URL and he was also aware that she was extremely likely to be a fraud)
She asked if she could attend as well, but if she was to be naked, she expected the other bottom to be as well.
Since I had provided her with his contact, I asked her to negotiate those terms with him herself.
That was also the point where I decided to demand some sort of proof to show her commitment to the whole idea. I offered a meetup, where she could check me out from a distance and disengage discreetly if she felt like it, suggested she could send a photo of herĀ (fully clothed, no face) top, breasts bound above and below by two belts and her hand holding a piece of paper with my profile name on it.
Naturally, she became evasive. Indignant, even. The pauses in chat grew longer and longer while the cold, hard realisation set in that the dream was about to end. Then, 12 hours later, still no reply. I cheekily asked "So what is it? Are you a fake or not?" and then (here's the part of the brain clinging to hope like a mountaineer holding on to his icepick while dangling over a chasm) "If you just slightly embellished some part about being 33/petite/athletic, there's some wiggle room."
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"Nope. I'm male, 38, and I just want to be tied up, but I can't find anyone to do it to me..."
Sad trombone sound. I wasn't mad. I was just disappointed. Despite having known that this, or something similar to this, was the expected outcome right off the start. And, more importantly, I felt compassion for his situation.
Long story short, we chatted some more and all the things about bondage he told me as his alter ego were true, he's gay, has a 21x5 cock and I'm considering meeting up with him to see if we can help each other out with our fantasies.
WARNING: All files in this thread are very addictive and may cause permanent damage to your health and behaviour. If you listen long enough, the effects might be irreversible! Listen at your own risk and only if the effects are desirable! Beware of bimbofication, dollification, impotence, chastity, submissiveness, extreme self-feminization desires, and sexuality changing suggestions!
Since Tom's videos have a very distinctive style (of course, you can find influences of various hypnotists, for example, Mr Daniels).
What we know about Tom:
Age: 50
Location: Texas
Sexual Orientation: Bi-Curious
City: Austin
State: TX
A little about me... Sissy inside, masculine outside. A little shy, but nice and warm and funny. I love women so much it's hard to say, but I am so curious about sucking cock. Sorry, I'm not a hypnotist. I make the kind of videos that I want to see. In addition to videos, I also write sexy TG E-books:
I recently remembered that a friend of mine back in my early teens somehow got hold on some bondage comics and we used to hang out and read them. I don't recall it being an explicit sexual/sensual experience, I was just fascinated by the aesthetic. Something tingly going on in the nether region, sure, but I probably was too young to acknowledge what a "fetish" was.
Searching both the internet and my hazy memories (it was easily around 40 years ago), I think it might have been the works of either John Willie or, more likely, Eric Stanton. Not Bishop, I'm sure of that.
Are there any other artists that fall into that kind of style?
Does anyone here know of an online repository for their works?
Fake Edit: To answer my own question, this site looks promising, but it's not focused on vintage bondage art.
At least it has an extensive collection of Stanton's work. Looks like I have some research to do.
Real Edit: Welp, just found the Archives section in the forums. How did I miss this?
Yup, it most definetly were "Bizarre Comix" my friend had.
Unfortunately it looks like those are really hard to come by these days.
This one wants to give into satan and turn into Bambi and maybe get a lobotomy.. please make it true fprnthis slut.. this slut needs family to forget about it.. and this slut . Wants to hail satan
Came across an AI image generator (mainly cartoonifying with a hint of manga-style) and fed it some bondage images, some came out real nice. Updated my avatar with one of them, maybe anyone else finds these cute as well š
(see if you can identify the models without peeking at the filenames)
Mistress T. and I are planning a sissy slut training week from 18.04.22 until 22.04.22, it's not a direct selfbondage scenario but can be modified to oneĀ š
Due to the distance between us, it's going to be an online training with lots of possibilities for mistress to take control over her sissy. Big parts of the day and the night are going to be under the watchful eyes of Miss T. who can use multiple systems and toys, which are controllable in an App.
Here are some first thoughts and we hope you like it and invite you to maker further suggestions:
The magnetic lock is mounted at the top of the bed and there are different other fixation points at the bottom of the bed and in the middle. The laptop with a running Skype meeting is placed at the side of the bed, so the screen can be viewed, the webcam is mounted over the bed at the ceiling. The feeding machine (for pee) is placed with its container on the floor and there is a second container mounted at the wall one meter over the bed. The feeding machine, the lockbox (a lockable wooden box) and also a powerful light are connected to the webcontrol to be controlled with the App.
I will be ordered to put on the chastity cage during the day and to secure it with itās normal lock, a call with Mistress T. is established and the cage key is being put in the combination safe, the digits are changed in front of the cam and are only known by Miss, then itās closed. The latex sleeve with hose is being put on and I have to put on my sleeping outfit. This can be the latex suit, gloves and the latex mask. The leather restraints at feet and wrists and the latex suit are secured with padlocks (Padlock 1-4), between wrists and feet there runs a short 15cm chain which is also secured with padlocks (Padlock 5-8). The zippers of the catsuit are secured with padlocks (Padlock 9-10). All these keys go into the lockbox. The metal collar is secured with combination lock 1. Medicine would be collected by a latex clitty (penis) sleeve, which is connected with a container all night and the sissy can be fed when wished by Miss. The feet are connected with a chain to the bottom of the bed and the wrists are connected to the magnetic lock - Miss can use the timer so she is able to make a release schedule for the lock. For security reasons there will be a second emergency release of course. The idea behind the combination of locks is that when the magnetic lock is released in the morning, the Padlocks 1-10 are still locked and wrists and feet are still connected with a chain, free movement in the flat is possible, the slave can go to the toilet and work in the home office but for more freedom the the lockbox has to be opened first and then still the steel collar and the cage are locked by separate combinations by there locks, where only Miss T. knows the combination.
Of course there can be more toys and things added:
Plugs
Outfits
High Heeled Boots
Webcontrolled Estim
Webcontrolled Vib Egg
So please feel free to comment and we are happy to have a nice discussion about our ideasĀ Open Thread