Found a 'puppy pacifier' dog toy at the local market.
Hollow rubber toy shaped like an oversized pacifier .
The 'adult baby' thing is distinctly not me, but I have asthma and am choosy about gags. This has a definite insert limit, and seemed like a good thing. Worth a try for a few bucks.
https://www.amazon.com/Ethical-Puppy-Pac...B0002AS05A
Getting it home, it'ts great - the ball's effective at preventing speech, but even better, it's collapsible. And, hilariously, gives off an obnoxious squeak when the wearer collapses it.
I get bored with scenes where the bottom is tied up and can't really do much. Not being able to talk, but being able to make noise is hilarious. And ultimately safer I think - series of squeaks - "Is that a safeword?" vigorous nodding, it is, get them out fast.
The ball end sticks a bit far into the mouth for comfort. I sometimes gag on it. So I'm going to try cutting some washers from crafter's foam rubber to effectively shorten the distance inside the mouth a little.
They're available in hot pink and purple.
Why do I suspect the dog toy company (love that it's 'ethical pet') isn't as naive as they're letting on?
And I love a bit of humor with my sex life. Ultimately it's about loving yourself.