Is it wrong?

[systemisdownz10]

switching roles.

Yeah Black is good ... sort of safe. Good starting point.
So do you picture yourself as a someone's captive or maybe a self captive ?

I always picture being a captive. It's actually very frustrating because I feel like it's very far out of reach. I'm had many of fantasies about both. But usually if it's about someone else being captured it's because I would like that to be done to me.

[Marcus]

I always picture being a captive. It's actually very frustrating because I feel like it's very far out of reach.

Not really... You just have to be considerate of you partners needs and boundaries... These will change and expand over time if you both work on them. Take it slowly and enjoy the journey cos once you reach the destination you will have to think of something new to try 😊
Ooo and I have to ask ... how are you held captive ?
and how did you get that way ?

[systemisdownz10]

Not really... You just have to be considerate of you partners needs and boundaries... These will change and expand over time if you both work on them. Take it slowly and enjoy the journey cos once you reach the destination you will have to think of something new to try 😊
Ooo and I have to ask ... how are you held captive ?
and how did you get that way ?

Well I think the problem is I don't know anyone at all in real life who is even remotely interested in this at all. I guess when I do find a girl, she doesn't necessarily have to be into bondage, but I suppose it wouldn't hurt 😉

There have been many scenarios I've come up with. One is being drugged and waking up in some place completely different. Maybe by some one I know, or even someone I just met. That's actually my biggest fantasy, absolutely no control. Sometimes I picture being put into a huge tank, and having it fill up with water, with no escape. I've always wondered what E'Stim would be like to. Maybe I would be in some dungeon basement, anchored down to a wooden table, not being able to help myself at all.

when I picture it the other way around, it's usually a girl, sometimes someone I know, dressed in a blue swimsuit. I've tied her up in so many different ways. My favorite is tying her spread eagle to the bed, and licking her right through the swimsuit. Other times I'll envision a younger boy, a younger me about 14, because when I was a young teen I always wanted that to happen to me.

[Marcus]

Hmm ... Yes the young self captured by a stranger... works for me also...
Relinquishing control can be really magical...

So do you intend to wear your new item outside or to the beach ? or is it to early to think about such things?

[Like Ra]

Other times I'll envision a younger boy, a younger me about 14, because when I was a young teen I always wanted that to happen to me.

And you nailed it! Something what some people do not understand. In drawings with bound "kids" I imagine myself now or when I was a kid, not "a real kid!"

See this: http://www.likera.com/blog/wp/archives/tag/ah-gu and mostly comments to this: http://www.likera.com/blog/wp/archives/10891

[systemisdownz10]

Hmm ... Yes the young self captured by a stranger... works for me also...
Relinquishing control can be really magical...

So do you intend to wear your new item outside or to the beach ? or is it to early to think about such things?

I didn't really buy it to wear anywhere. It was mostly just something to wear while I play "tie-up" with myself. I usually just where trunks to the beach.

[Marcus]

It was mostly just something to wear while I play "tie-up" with myself. I usually just where trunks to the beach.

Hmm me... I'd definitely go for a run alone the beach in a black suit... Just put a long T-shirt on ... everyone will think your just another mad jogger...
Can I ask what’s the favourite method of restraint ? and what would you like to try if given a chance ?

[systemisdownz10]

Can I ask what’s the favourite method of restraint ? and what would you like to try if given a chance ?

I guess I really don't have a favorite, I mean I've done nothing but play with rope I got out of the basement for years. Oh but there are so many things I would love to try, especially feeling the way I do, so deprived. I would love to know what it's like to be restrained with leather straps on a large table. Meanwhile someone takes some sort of rubber balloon and wraps it around my head, cutting off all oxygen. I can't even begin to describe how many things I want to try.

[Marcus]

I can't even begin to describe how many things I want to try.

LOL you sound like kid in a candy store😊 ... Welcome....
Yeah leather straps/gear are somewhat more intoxicating than you would dream about... I think its the added smell and sound. Lycra is much more tactile. They work very well together.
Your description of the blue swimsuit got me looking at my old photos... I had the blue leotard/swimsuit thing for a while also... Mind you I used to wear lycra out in public much more and dark (male) colors usually go unnoticed.

[Like Ra]

me looking at my old photos... I had the blue leotard/swimsuit thing for a while also

photos? 😉