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(25 Jan 2012, 01:09 )culmor Wrote: Fine.
If you afford it and aren't going to upset anyone else then go ahead. I reallly don't see what the problem is.
C.
I guess I'm still at a point where I don't feel 100% comfortable yet. I'm still at a stage where I'm just now starting to reach out, but still feel held back I guess.
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Not feeling comfortable with it is a lot of the fun 😉
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(25 Jan 2012, 01:09 )culmor Wrote: Who's forbidding anything?
It does not matter. But as long as it's forbidden it's very tempting and exciting. But as soon as it becomes normal and acceptable the excitement's gone.
And no, I do not mean everybody. For example, for me tights are both a fetish and normal clothes. And rubber is both a huge fetish and usual sport/cleaning clothes.
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(25 Jan 2012, 01:15 )culmor Wrote: Not feeling comfortable with it is a lot of the fun 😉
Oh yes.
But there is another thing, when someone else is not comfortable speaking with/looking at you 😁
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(25 Jan 2012, 01:56 )Like Ra Wrote: (25 Jan 2012, 01:15 )culmor Wrote: Not feeling comfortable with it is a lot of the fun 😉
Oh yes.
But there is another thing, when someone else is not comfortable speaking with/looking at you 😁
I actually recently told a friend all of this for the first time the other week, she was actually a bit intrigued. But I doubt anyone really wants to take a peek 😟
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(25 Jan 2012, 02:04 )systemisdownz10 Wrote: But I doubt anyone really wants to take a peek
I would like to 😉
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(25 Jan 2012, 02:50 )Like Ra Wrote: (25 Jan 2012, 02:04 )systemisdownz10 Wrote: But I doubt anyone really wants to take a peek
I would like to 😉
One day perhaps. When I have come out of my shell, which is ironically bound down at the moment.
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(25 Jan 2012, 02:54 )systemisdownz10 Wrote: One day perhaps.
Take your time. And you do not have to show your face on the photos. Just blur it and blur what's around you if you think that the interior is easily recognizable.
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(25 Jan 2012, 03:09 )Like Ra Wrote: (25 Jan 2012, 02:54 )systemisdownz10 Wrote: One day perhaps.
Take your time. And you do not have to show your face on the photos. Just blur it and blur what's around you if you think that the interior is easily recognizable.
It's not a matter of my face being recognized, although I suppose I would rather not show it. It's in general, just becoming myself enough to even take a photograph, maybe when I'm more settled.
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At first I felt just like you do. Why am I doing this? Why do I enjoy it? What if people find out? But you know what, people shouldn't care about this and you shouldn't care about what people think. Thoughpeople have told me that particular outlook on life may kill me, but that's just me.
Eventually it'll feel natural and perhaps you'll be able to enjoy it with others.