General TG, TS, TV and sex change thread

[Like Ra]

If you do love futa, wouldn't that mean you would date a transwoman who hasn't had sex reassignment surgery?

If she looks like a pretty girl, walks like a pretty girl, sounds like a pretty girl, smells like a pretty girl, behaves like a pretty girl, erects like a horny boy, I would definitely try my best 😋

[Like Ra]

And I think it may be due to the fact that I never had any girlfriend before. So being lonely, my mind created a female identity to fill that void.

This! Again and again!

I am really busy with school or work, I completely forget about gender and sexuality.

Another bingo!

orgasm also seems to affect those feelings because I then seem to have a desire to throw out all my female clothes and delete any feminization files.

And another one!

[Like Ra]

crossdreaming offers other options too.

What is crossdreaming?

[Like Ra]

I found my style of clothing that worked for me. (Cis women go through this as well.) One mistake some trans women make is they don't dress their age or they dress out of place for the occasion. (Like wearing a petticoat dress with nylon stockings to the mall.)

Yes! That's the difference between the "kinky fetishistic" and "vanilla how it should be done properly" approaches! Something what my wife always tells me - any type of figure can be dressed up to look its best. Sexy/slutty and pretty are two different things (yet they overlap a bit).

no matter your gender identity or sexual orientation, there is someone out there for you. In any relationship you do get involved in, it's critical that you are your true self. If you change yourself to fit the mold of someone else, you will be miserable.

And yes! That's exactly what I tried to say in many posts, but you perfectly formulated it in just two sentences!

[Like Ra]

Mostly these are generalizations.

Not all

EVERY classification is generalization and simplification, hence ALL classifications are wrong. Yet we have them, we use them, and we will always be using them 😉

[Like Ra]

I see myself as a woman who has a trans history. I was assigned the improper gender and sex at birth and still use trans since I had to transition medically and socially to a different gender I was assigned at birth.

I call my transition a complete success.

Just for the sake of using the proper terms. In fact, you transitioned from Intersex to Female, not from Male to Female, right?

[Zooy]

crossdreaming offers other options too.

What is crossdreaming?

Like crossdressing is dressing like the opposite gender, crossdreaming is dreaming that you are the opposite gender.
There is a whole website dedicated to it: crossdreamlife.com.

[Like Ra]

- women give births
Wrong except if you call infertility a disease.  But then you stigmatise women but not infertile men?

Yes, a disease (or an intersex condition) for both men and women

- women bleed once a month
This is a hard one...  But what about woman without ovaries?  A disease?  What about transmen?  You deny them a position?

Yes, a disease (or an intersex condition). Transmen (gender) are not men (sex). Do not mix gender and sex.

Yet again about the feminity debate and yet again, my point is it's all social expectation/socialisation/gender bending/education (ballet/dance class)/...

Not quite. Check, for example, "carrying angle" (for elbows) and different hip angle (for knees).

But social expectations are also interesting and a separate "item".

[Like Ra]

crossdreaming is dreaming that you are the opposite gender

Is that for dreaming only? Not doing anything physically? And even not "lucid dreaming"?

[Tinker D]

Crossdreaming?
Never heard of that term before. But it makes sense. I have had these dreams before. I’ve had and still do have these type of dreams and other dreams like crosscartoon, if that is a word, crossages, may be called something different, and crossfantasy.