General TG, TS, TV and sex change thread

[Hazel]

Here's another article that makes me doubt myself:

https://nationalpost.com/news/canada/i-f...-decisions

[vanessa_fetish]

Here's another article that makes me doubt myself:

https://nationalpost.com/news/canada/i-f...-decisions

The number who regret is very small, less than those who regret conventional cosmetic surgery. 

The source says it all - National Post. Renowned for being close to extreme right wing here in Canada and also for twisting any stat or words even to suit their agenda.

Even after 3 physical attacks I don't regret transitioning. Even though the more I age the less I "pass" (gawd I hate that word!) I don't regret.

My advice as a PSA (Peer Support Advocate) is to find a psychiatrist that covers gender identity issues. Believe me, they help. Much better than asking online. If you were in Montreal I could point you to some resources.

[no smile]

(gawd I hate that word!) I don't regret.

Yeah, I don't like it either but it seems to be generally accepted/used in the trans community... (maybe it's my English but I prefer saying someone pass than someone is passable which I also heard...)

[Bignak]

Hi I've seen how supportive this community is I'd like to ask for tips first of all, I would like to know which pantyhose are best in general I want cheap ones as I have just found out about my hidden fetish and would like to explore it even more, also I would like to know if you guys could give me tips on how to order pantyhose without my parents knowing I don't have any ideas on how to deliver it without them noticing thank you guys and I hope you can reply

[MindsEye]

Hi I've seen how supportive this community is I'd like to ask for tips first of all, I would like to know which pantyhose are best in general I want cheap ones as I have just found out about my hidden fetish and would like to explore it even more, also I would like to know if you guys could give me tips on how to order pantyhose without my parents knowing I don't have any ideas on how to deliver it without them noticing thank you guys and I hope you can reply

Don't know about pantyhose, but I bet you could get it delivered to the post office instead your house

[Bignak]

I could try but with the pandemic going on it has made my anxiety worse and I have caught the virus pantyhose help me get through this that's why I need some ASAP

[cbshackle]

@Hazel I had not had a chance to respond due to workload but wanted to add a few things. Here is the thing being transitioning. HRT, Surgery, etc.... none of those things make you a woman. Gender is between the ears, not between your legs. Sex is between your legs. HRT, Surgery, etc are there to help make the outside more inline with the inside. Transitioning takes work and can be difficult, but I can confidently say it was worth it all and I have zero regrets. Even if I didn't pass completely I still believe it is worth it. Most transwomen I know eventually pass most of the time to the average person, but not all the time. Some do need some type of FFS (Facial Feminization Surgery) to pass. I will admit that my intersex status contributed to my ability to pass without any facial surgery. (The only surgery I have had is vaginoplasty.) I also have met cis women who other people thought (even myself) were trans. Women (cis and trans) come in all shapes and sizes.

Here is how I look at it. Even if I didn't pass all the time, as long as I was addressed and properly treated as female, able to wear however feminine clothing, I would be extremely happy and satisfied with that.  There are no guarantees with how you are going to look after HRT, but then again a cis teenager girl has no guarantee on how she is going to look as an adult. It's all bout the genetic lottery.

Hypnosis is fun and my wife and I have played with it for scene and bondage play (I have been hypnotized with key words she can use to bind hands and feet together and to objects.) It only works because it's suggestive to something I want. Hypnosis is also useful to get information suppressed (EMDR is better for that) but it simply isn't going to change someone from cis to trans or vise versa and it is also not going to change someone's sexual orientation. The concept of using it for that is a method of conversion therapy and that has never worked. It may suppress it, but in the long run it is damaging to the person.

[sissygirlsexslave]

Is there anywhere I can find free feminization transfermation school/training. Or become ownd

[Like Ra]

I deliberately stayed away from this thread for 3 months to avoid any additional disturbance and possibly add more fuel to the aeady too hot discussion. The last related post was made on Dec 20, so I hope everything has been cleared up, cooled down and return back to balance and harmony 😊

Before I read 72 unread posts (I've no idea what was going on here after my post on Dec 04, 2020), I wouldlike to thank @Hazel (it's never too late) for helping me understand my personal situation. The revelation happened on Dec 01, but nobody noticed it. Here it is:

When I close my eyes, or when I do not see any part of my body, my body "disappears" along with any refeence to the sex. Since I like women and do not like men, I do not like to see any men including myself, because I do not see myself in the mirror or on the photos, or when I look at my hands, legs or my body - all I see is a man. And I do not like to look at men, I like to look at young and pretty girls. See what I mean? I feel myself absolutely sexless, genderless, or generally bodyless. Again, if I close my eyes I do not feel my body (unless something hurts ).

That's it! That might be the reason for all that feminization fetish. To keep it simple: a combination of gynephilia and misandria with an addition of love for dicks 😁 It can be made much more complex and detailed, but currently I'm pretty much satisfied with this "diagnosis".

As I aeady mentioned in this thread, everything happens for a reason. In my particular case, @Hazel appeared to help me to solve my issues. After the problem got resolved (or at least partially resolved until I stumble upon new controversions, barriers, facts, questions, etc), @Hazel disappeared.

I have no idea if I helped @Hazel to understand his case, I did the maximum I could and also disappeared after we finished another full circle of our discussion 😁

[MindsEye]

I deliberately stayed away from this thread for 3 months to avoid any additional disturbance and possibly add more fuel to the aeady too hot discussion. The last related post was made on Dec 20, so I hope everything has been cleared up, cooled down and return back to balance and harmony 😊

Before I read 72 unread posts (I've no idea what was going on here after my post on Dec 04, 2020), I wouldlike to thank @Hazel (it's never too late) for helping me understand my personal situation. The revelation happened on Dec 01, but nobody noticed it. Here it is:

When I close my eyes, or when I do not see any part of my body, my body "disappears" along with any refeence to the sex. Since I like women and do not like men, I do not like to see any men including myself, because I do not see myself in the mirror or on the photos, or when I look at my hands, legs or my body - all I see is a man. And I do not like to look at men, I like to look at young and pretty girls. See what I mean? I feel myself absolutely sexless, genderless, or generally bodyless. Again, if I close my eyes I do not feel my body (unless something hurts ).

That's it! That might be the reason for all that feminization fetish. To keep it simple: a combination of gynephilia and misandria with an addition of love for dicks 😁 It can be made much more complex and detailed, but currently I'm pretty much satisfied with this "diagnosis".

As I aeady mentioned in this thread, everything happens for a reason. In my particular case, @Hazel appeared to help me to solve my issues. After the problem got resolved (or at least partially resolved until I stumble upon new controversions, barriers, facts, questions, etc), @Hazel disappeared.

I have no idea if I helped @Hazel to understand his case, I did the maximum I could and also disappeared after we finished another full circle of our discussion 😁

If you do love futa, wouldn't that mean you would date a transwoman who hasn't had sex reassignment surgery?