General TG, TS, TV and sex change thread

[cbshackle]

I started HRT in late 2013 and when full time in 2014, legal name and gender change in 2014, GCS in 2017 and never looked back.

HRT alone will definitely change sex drive and orgasms. For me the desire becomes less, but once you figure things out, you will find that orgasms last longer and multiple orgasms are much more easily possible. For myself after 6 months on HRT, my orgasms went completely dry with nothing coming out. So in the long run, it bevame quality of quantity.

After I had bottom surgery 4½ years ago, my orgasms changed again mostly because nerve ending moved around and things had to remap. I still do bondage, but my preferences have changes. I have no desire for long term chastity but still like it for shorter term and I am much more into rope more than I used to be as I love the sensual feeling of it.

Another big difference is I used to feel guilt and shame after an orgasm especially with bondage, but now everything just feels so right and my wife noticed it as well, especially when we play.

[AllieBowString]

I started HRT in late 2013 and when full time in 2014, legal name and gender change in 2014, GCS in 2017 and never looked back.

HRT alone will definitely change sex drive and orgasms. For me the desire becomes less, but once you figure things out, you will find that orgasms last longer and multiple orgasms are much more easily possible. For myself after 6 months on HRT, my orgasms went completely dry with nothing coming out. So in the long run, it bevame quality of quantity.

After I had bottom surgery 4½ years ago, my orgasms changed again mostly because nerve ending moved around and things had to remap. I still do bondage, but my preferences have changes. I have no desire for long term chastity but still like it for shorter term and I am much more into rope more than I used to be as I love the sensual feeling of it.

Another big difference is I used to feel guilt and shame after an orgasm especially with bondage, but now everything just feels so right and my wife noticed it as well, especially when we play.

I definitely relate to the "guilt" part too. I'm not sure if it's related to the medicine or not but it feels like it. Maybe it's accepting myself as transgender and social change. Maybe due to more experience wirh bondage...

Also another thing could be gender stereotypes. I always felt bondage was a "girls thing" and doing as male felt wrong to me...

[Like Ra]

I definitely relate to the "guilt" part too.

Post-orgasmic "dopamine dip". One of the reasons I do not like orgasms. Edging is much more fun.

[AllieBowString]

I definitely relate to the "guilt" part too.

Post-orgasmic "dopamine dip". One of the reasons I do not like orgasms. Edging is much more fun.

Same. It's about the journey not the destination... Well u don't even need a destination hehe. 

Like drinking perhaps... Rather to slowly enjoy every sip than to chug it in a second and throw up afterwards... Not judging just what I enjoy from experience.

Feel very good for 5 seconds then horrible for a longer period or feel moderately good for hours with no "drop".

[Like Ra]

Hm, interesting post on 8kun:

The bimbo is an actually a kind of gender-neutral mockery of the female form. One that is defined by what is achievable with surgical augmentation.

The reason I describe it as gender-neutral female may sound weird, but consider that both women obsessed with plastic surgery, and wealthy trannies both converge on this exact same aesthetic. The women (females) who achieve this are a kind of Female-To-Female tranny, as counterpart to the familiar MtF variety. It is both an aesthetic and an act of self-commodification that estranges any essential femininity for an exaggeration of form. And exaggeration is easy to achieve, as it denies subtlety. This aesthetic can not be separated from the popularity of anal pornography either. The anus being an organ unrelated to reproduction and belonging to both genders becomes sexualized specifically for its bisexual properties. Porn that features extreme close-ups of anuses, and anal penetration, is inherently bisexual as the orifice can belong to nearly anyone. The male watching a scene of anal sex can just as easily project themselves onto the one being penetrated as the one penetrating, and accompany this fantasy with anal masturbation. And it is this manner of pornography (hetero anal sex) that service as a point of departure for the sissy/gender-bending hypno fetish seen to be replaced with male on shemale and standard gay pornography.

Both men and women find breasts aesthetically pleasing, so combined with the above, you arrive at a standardized model for easily marketable lust. And also the explanation of why transgenderism is inseparable from capitalism and why, contrary to popular sentiment, full communism will destroy all queers.

[Vixien]

Interesting, but I don't understand capitalism - communism "queer relations".

[reroda]

@Vixien

If I may be so bold, I can respond.

This is old Nazi and Soviet propaganda, which correlated the alleged degeneration of customs and hedonism, especially that of the German culture of the 1920s (Weimar Republic) with homosexuality and queer culture in general.

So much so that in the 1970s, at world psychiatric congresses, Soviet doctors asserted that there were no gays or disabled people (especially those from work accidents) in Russia (so much so that until the fall of the Eastern Bloc, those nations were forbidden to send athletes to the Paralympic Games).

Instead, LGBTQ+ people were subjected to forced internment with brutal corrective therapy, or to death by labor in specific mines and/or raioad projects:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Salekhard%...ka_Railway

the disabled, on the other hand, were hidden/buried for life (sometimes swiftly euthanized) in special hospitals-prisons.

The principle was: there must be nothing to question the superiority, indeed, the inherent perfection of Communism over any other system. Any uncorrectable problems must go away, no matter what.

And for Nazi-Soviet propaganda, LGBTQ+ people were a problem, because they challenged the heterosexual family model, the only possible and obligatory form of relationship.

[Vixien]

OK, that is true.
However, at this moment I can't recall any "main" religion in the world which says different, with all the consequence. So it's not only about political system.
This is very complex subject. Lot of beer can be drinked during discussion.

[wolford57]

It’s also interesting to note that Xi has been rolling back some of the liberalization of policy towards LGBT in China, just as he brings the billionaires and big businesses more under the direct control of the government. Straight couples are useful to the state (they make soldiers and workers) while gay couples are only useful to each other. Individualism works fine with capitalism but communism has no use for individuals. 

https://www.economist.com/china/2022/06/...e-in-china

[Kit-Katt]

Starting HRT was interesting... One major thing that happened was I stopped watching bondage videos and ceased masturbation for months completely as I lost interest... This happened quite quickly as my testosterone dropped.

I used to watch bondage and climaxed like 2 or 3 times a day... One in morning, once afternoon and one before bed... And the urge really was bad during school I would always think about it. Even on holidays and camping I can't stop for one day, I did everything to find a window of opportunity...

But HRT was crazy... Just a week or so ended a hardcore addiction...

I thought I would miss it but I didn't at all. However bondage is still something I love. I feel like it was an innate thing and started off innocent. And now it's heading back that way. I liked bondage when I was 5 or 6. Before I knew anything about masturbation or aroused feelings.

It's now more about feeling in my heart, and emotions rather than "down there" when I think about bondage... And I can control the feeling more too...

That's when I started doing selfbondage again. I used to just do it to get off but now it's more about the more emotional and fantasy feeling, and about creating art. I actually got better at selfbondage as I was more patient with it and approaching it like practicimg art made better results than a way to get off.

I haven't started progesterone yet. Many people on HRT report low libido in the first few months but apparently it returns with time or additional progesterone.

I hear HRT change male sexuality to female, and I think my bondage fetish is more female than male, if that even is a thing, not sure.

It makes me aroused in a different way... Way less horny but I love it more than ever.

I started HRT in late 2013 and when full time in 2014, legal name and gender change in 2014, GCS in 2017 and never looked back.

HRT alone will definitely change sex drive and orgasms. For me the desire becomes less, but once you figure things out, you will find that orgasms last longer and multiple orgasms are much more easily possible. For myself after 6 months on HRT, my orgasms went completely dry with nothing coming out. So in the long run, it bevame quality of quantity.

After I had bottom surgery 4½ years ago, my orgasms changed again mostly because nerve ending moved around and things had to remap. I still do bondage, but my preferences have changes. I have no desire for long term chastity but still like it for shorter term and I am much more into rope more than I used to be as I love the sensual feeling of it.

Another big difference is I used to feel guilt and shame after an orgasm especially with bondage, but now everything just feels so right and my wife noticed it as well, especially when we play.

Y'all are both providing some serious reassurances for me as I'm still really just starting out. I'm coming up on my one year anniversary of starting HRT, and the low libido has been a big source of discouragement for me as of late. 😞

However, it looks like both of y'all went through similar feelings, and things got better. You're both inspirations that are giving me renewed hope for my journey to become who I truly am. Thank you. ❤