There was some heavy rain yesterday night and I couldn't sleep so I decided to go out all dressed up and enjoy the rain. It was so nice feeling all wet and cold
I guess it was 2 am when the rain stopped, so I untied myself and went in. I didn't want to get undressed, but I could barely stand the coldness. Anyways, I took a quick warm shower and went to bed.
Have you ever discovered a fetish in a similar way? All by accident?
I recently uploaded an old video from a selfbondage session to Boundhub and since @madjack kindly asked for it in another thread, where I had put a link, here is a full session report. But first the video: Boundhub - Hogcuffed selfbondage in lycra
Outfit consisted of a lycra fullsuit, a Speedo Aquablade Hydrasuit competition swimsuit with high leg cut and Buffalo T24400 platform boots. Completed with a lycra hood securely taped in place so it would not come off during the session. The restraints were very simple – handcuffs and leg irons connected by crossed chains – yet super restrictive. As you can see in the video, I shifted my position a couple of times and tried to relieve stress from my wrists. I got into and out of the restraints so fast only because I had practised this several times before. The timer was an ice drop mechanism which many regard as the safest selfbondage release mechanism. Timing is not very accurate, though, and depends on specific conditions. So you should make a runtime test in advance. Here is a picture of my current setup which is minimally different from what I used back then:
With the long shackle lock, nothing can can get caught in the cloth and prevent the keys from dropping when enough ice has molten.
This is especially important, since I did not have any backup. Which of course enhances the thrill of closing the last cuff a lot 😁
What I also like about this scenario is that it doesn't require a lot of preparation. If I decided to do this right now, it would probably take me less than ten minutes to the point of no return.
I should add a disclaimer: Do not try anything like this unless you know exactly what you are doing!
This kind of bondage does not forgive any mistakes. You can easily get trapped, even with full access to the keys. As a rule of thumb, if it’s difficult to get in, it might be impossible to get out.
Has anyone else played with FaceApp after photographing their SB sessions? I see a lot of masks (and why not!) but this little app does a pretty good job of turning you into your female (or male) alter ego. The photo looses some quality in the process but you get the picture.
Damn it! I nearly fancy mself.
Bit of a problem as my ties get better. You tied yourself up. You will be freed in one hour and.......... what now. Sure you have a vibrator and stuff but no real need or urge to squirm. Even nipple pinching isn't that motivating.
In this thread I hope to explore the ways of making bondage more, interesting when tied.
Hopefully without blowing the budget.
First is the things that can motivate you to move. Strong pain, tickling, orgasms, discomfort.
Strong pain: ole reliable. There is the rice in your shoe method. Pulling on nipple clamps, small blunt spikes, sticking a silicone tube down your nose. Slapping or crushing something.
Tickling: this is the most difficult one as tickling depends on you not being able to really anticipate when the tickling will happen. The current idea I have is to use feathers on a thi. String like a chainsaw that can move forwards and backwards however I am not sure about if that would work.
Orgasms: Not reliable enough or common enough to force movement. Also not very movement inducing, more just spasming
Discomfort: there aren't many kinds of discomfort that are safe and many reasonably border on torture but hey I do intend on making you feel the need to move. I am still trying to make a breath through deepthroat gag (smooth on silicone is expensive). Water enema,
What is your go to shop for high quality ballgags/head harnesses?
There was this german online shop, marlons.de, that had amazing ballgags and harnesses at affordable prices.
Perfect, shiny silicon ballgag (in multiple colors and sizes), soft, but durable leather straps and very good craftmanship overall.
I still have my first one and aside from some wear on the leather straps, it's still in very good condition and my favourite ballgag harness. The silicone ball is as good as new.
Modelstied regularly used them in their shoots. (I just shot them an email, maybe they have a lead.)
Unfortunately, the shop had to close, "temporarily" as they stated, but they never re-opened.
Still kicking myself that I never bought a spare and their panel gag as well when I could.
I have since tried several shops, but most of them just resell chinese imports at obscene markups (looking at you, sub-shop.com).
Got several from aliexpress myself and while some are, well, functional, some fit terribly, and most are way to flimsy, e.g. only have a single strap going to the back of the head (seriously, just use an inverted Y-shape, it's not rocket science!), and most importantly, regularly top out at 42 mm, maybe 48 mm ball sizes (mine is 52 mm and just for science I would love to try 60 mm).
Alternatives I am considering are the ones sold by Restricted Senses. They go up to 54 mm and the build quality looks fine, even if the straps look very thin (considering that Mina is petite and the straps look thin even on her).
Big YIKES! on the price though, it would be close to EUR 150 with shipping and customs.
This one is another option, a bit more affordable and claims to be highly customizable, but I don't trust the connector rivets on the straps to withstand anything more than decorative use to be honest.
I am also not a huge fan of the PVC aesthetic.
Tops out at 48 mm 😡
Recently purchased a simple ballgag from McHurt to check the quality.
The leather is very soft and the silicone ball is a bit softer than I am used to as well, but it's very comfortable. Downside (for me, it's a pet peeve I have) is the hole in the ball is circular and the soft strap rolls up going through. I prefer slits that keep the strap "in place".
There is an upside though: you can buy different gags/harnesses with different ball sizes and mix & match them easily. Unfortunately, the head harnesses are not very aesthetically pleasing for my taste and the side straps going close to/over the ears seems also to be a bad design choice. Again: just 👏 use 👏 an 👏 inverted 👏 Y-shape.
Also, the strap has a "smokey" smell (from the curing process?) that somehow rubbed off on the ball when stored in a ziploc.
This is my first bondage kit so I'm very excited about it, it has some problems but I haven't stopped sleeping all bound every night since it arrived. In a way it's all that I wanted, a nice secure bind but at the same time easy to get out of.
The good:
Comfortable as a cloud, I can sleep with no discomfort at all 😁
The straps are easily adjustable, and actually have a tightness limit. I wish I could go all the way and touch my elbows together but I'll take that a safety measure.
It has metal rings and carabiners, so once I hook up myself it's basically impossible to escape by means of struggling. I need to reach the strap sliders for the release.
Best of all, no nerve pinching or low blood pressure! One of my worst fears was to wake up not feeling my arms, but as I mentioned the straps are tight enough to restraint my movement and keep everything secure, but loose enough to be considered safe.
As a bonus, I now have a matching set of bdsm gear, I think it's cute.
The bad:
The elastic corset sadly gave in, part of it broke apart leaving rags all over the place 😟 I'll have to sew it again and reinforce it. Maybe it's a signal of how fat I currently am... nice chance to start being more fit.
As I've mentioned in another post, the sizing runs too short. It's a miniature version designed maybe for petite women. I can almost use the elastic corset as a neck collar... albeit a very flimsy one.
Both wrist cuffs and leg cuffs have those Velcro straps, I can see two problems: runs all over my stockings, and on the long run the Velcro will stop working, so I'll need to change it regularly or use an entirely different way to close the cuffs.
Overall I'm very happy with my bondage kit, and it makes me think that if I can get this satisfaction out of an amateur kit, I could invest a little bit more to purchase better equipment and enjoy myself more.
Open Thread
I think there isn't enough words in this world to refer to every specific fetish, but I keep finding new vocabulary...
From Wikipedia: Zettai ryōiki refers to the area of bare skin in the gap between overknee socks and a miniskirt. It can also be used to describe the clothing combination. The term first became widespread in otaku slang as one of the attributes of moe characters in anime and manga, but it is now used by the general public in Japan.
Everybody here knows I get weak knees for rope bondage, but after a little incident in my last session which included some burns and a bruised lip I'm starting to be more open towards acquiring proper bondage gear.
I just ordered this 'starter kit' which includes handcuffs, elastic corset (yeah kind of against the purpose lol) leg spreader, leg raiser & a strap on.
Anyway, what was your first heavy duty bdsm gear? What would you recommend for durability and comfort? Would you recommend buying a complete kit or is it better to buy higher quality pieces at a time?
I was shopping around and most of the cylindrical metal locks and DYI solutions seemed somewhat clunky.
I also was afraid that a metal lock would be poorly insulated and too cold for prolonged skin contact.
After looking into my options to 3D print one myself, I found this german seller on Etsy, who offers 3D printed icelocks with various timer ranges from 30 minutes to 2 hours at what I consider to be reasonable prices for 3D prints (he also has electromagnetic locks, but those were a bit too pricey for my taste. Maybe some other time).
I did a small test run and it lasted 23 minutes after being in the freezer for ~90 minutes.
It uses only very little water, which is also a plus.
I will be doing some more dry runs in order to test them and sniff out any potential points of failure, then I'll probably use them to try and recreate this scenario first:
Tying the leg cuffs to the neck collar with the 30 minute lock and the chain connecting the wrist cuffs to the collar with the 1 hour lock. After some time, I can hobble around (carefully) if I feel like it until I'm fully released.
I can totally see myself getting the 2 hour lock as well if I enjoy being forced to stay in bondage.
