Le but des adeptes est de réaliser partiellement un fantasme de contraintes ou BDSM et de s’exciter sur une certaine durée avant de se soulager.
Initialement, les adeptes ne se masturbent pas avant de jouer car après avoir joui, le selfbondage manque de saveur et d’intérêt.
Le but de ce post est d’aborder cette forme de « masochisme cérébral ».
Avez-vous déjà réalisé de scénarios pour jouir dès le début de votre plan pour être ensuite bloqué mais avec plus l’envie de jouer ?
SI OUI, quels étaient vos scénarios ?
EXEMPLES :
- Une des menottes passée autour de votre sexe et l’autre à votre poignet + un plan où il faut attendre X heures pour pouvoir se libérer et aller chercher les clés des menottes.
- Un plan de selfbondage féminisé mais avec une main de libre pour.... mais avec l’obligation d’attendre X heures pour pouvoir se libérer et aller chercher les clés de cadenas ou autres.
Vous avez sûrement des scénarios plus amusants que mes exemples, merci de les partager.
I am fairly new to self bondage and looking for advice from more experienced people. I have tried a few basic setups, but I want to learn more advanced techniques, especially focusing on safety and making sure I do not end up in a situation I can not get out of....
Does anyone have tips or favorite methods they use. What equipment works best for you. Also, how do you ensure a reliable escape mechanism. I have read a bit about ice locks, timers but I am unsure which are the safest options....
I would appreciate any recommendations or insights from those of you who have been practicing this for a while. Any personal experiences, dos and don'ts, or common beginner mistakes would be super helpful.
I also read this topic on this site https://www.masterclass.com/articles/bdsm-explained-power-bi but I could not find anything helpful for me.
Thanks in advance for the help.
Looking forward to hearing your thoughts.
There must be a way to get into a decently tight hogtie that's not immediately uncomfortable, and I had a few ideas.
The prepared loop of rope that I can put on as a vest with a ring at my neck got an extra ring on the other side, so halfway my back. Because tethering my ankles to the ring at my back makes the ropes hurt my neck and armpits when I struggle, so I'm going to try tethering it lower.
I'm adding a ring at my thighs. I do the normal wrapping the rope around my wrists and then a few cinch loops, but then I pull the end of that rope loop through the loop at my thighs and lock it to a rope connected to a ratchet at the ring at my neck. So when pulling the ratchet, my wrists get pulled down towards my thighs instead of up towards my shoulder blades as I normally do.
For the hogtie I'm using a carabiner at my ankles because I don't know how long it will be comfortable, and I want to try getting it quite tight for at least a little while. So the plan is to keep pulling until it feels really tight, enjoy it for a bit, then unhook the carabiner to undo the hogtie and remain in non hogtie bondage for a little longer as the ice lock is set up to release my wrists.
It felt really nice, I should try that again. Watching the video the hogtie is definitely not as tight as the pro models but for an old amateur like me, it was tight enough. Next time I'll try to hold on a bit longer. Some upper arm and torso bondage is missing, but I didn't want to risk getting everything tangled up.
Open Thread
1°) Plier ta jambe DROITE et la bloquer pliée avec une ceinture ou corde
2°) Plier ta jambe GAUCHE et la bloquer pliée avec une ceinture ou corde
3°) Mettre une chaîne fermée avec un cadenas autour de ton cou. (La chaîne ne se serrera pas tu ne risques pas de t’étrangler.
4°) Dans une boite en plastique (pas en verre) tu mets les clés du cadenas + des menottes.
5°) Tu jettes la boite dans une mare de boue bien gluante.
6°) Tu passes les menottes dans la chaîne de ton cou et tu les fermes sur tes poignets.
POUR TE LIBERER
- Tu vas devoir marcher comme un chien pour aller chercher la boite avec les clés dans la boue.
- Revenir au sec SANS ouvrir la boite parce que si les clés tombent dans la boue tu ne les retrouveras peut-être pas.
VARIABLE si pas de boue
L’herbe mouillée c’est bien aussi mais il faut alors laisser la boite avec les clés beaucoup plus loin.
DOMINATION
Ce scénario peut être réalisé par un Maître ou une Maîtresse désirant regarder son soumis jouer le chien de chasse.
AVEC MOI pour m’occuper des clés. 😁
Si tu viens passer des vacances dans mon gîte fétichiste et que TU veux le vivre comme un chien soumis, sache qu’il y a des endroits avec de la boue et de l’herbe sur ma propriété. REEL
1°) Bend your RIGHT leg and lock it folded with a belt or rope
2°) Bend your LEFT leg and lock it folded with a belt or rope
3°) Put a chain with a padlock around your neck (the chain will not tighten, so there is no risk of strangulation).
4°) Put the padlock keys and handcuffs in a plastic (not glass) box.
5°) Throw the box into a pool of sticky mud.
6°) Put the handcuffs on your neck chain and close them on your wrists.
TO FREE YOURSELF
- You will have to walk like a dog to get the box with the keys out of the mud.
- Come back dry WITHOUT opening the box because if the keys fall into the mud you might not find them.
VARIABLE if no mud
Wet grass is also good, but you have to leave the box with the keys much further away.
DOMINATION
This scenario can be done by a Master or Mistress who wants to watch their submissive play the hunting dog.
WITH ME to look after the keys.
If you come on holiday to my fetish lodge and YOU want to experience it as a submissive dog, be aware that there are places with mud and grass on my property. REAL
I was not going to film this as I wanted to just have a calm session to relax a bit in a swimsuit but then I decided to dress up and my camera had some battery left so I figured I only needed a hood and I was good to go.
Not as strict as I had hoped but the ratchet at my neck was acting weird and slipping so I was a bit cautious. The lock holding the ratchet at my ankles was reachable and I had scattered a few keys around but the lock connecting the wrist rope to the ratchet at my neck to pull the wrist rope tight was getting pulled out of reach and I decided I wanted to keep that within reach. Original plan was to get a key and get out of the hogtie but keep my hands tied with the ice lock release. Being out of the hogtie position I would be a lot more comfortable and able to easily reach backup scissors if needed, or wait for the ice lock. But when there is a way out it's hard to ignore it so I took up the challenge and try to get another lock open that was hard to reach and got out.
That struggle was on the floor next to the bed, I do have video of that part but I cut it out. It's not as clean as it's me trashing around in all the crap I tossed of the bed and out of view so I didn't put it in.
I would be very happy if you have a few ideas about what I can do.
I will make all ideas no matter how difficult and hard to escape..
Don't worry, I have a female friend who always knows what is going on and could help me out in an emergency.
