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Seeking Advice on Effective Self-Bondage Techniques
#1
Hi everyone,

I am fairly new to self bondage and looking for advice from more experienced people. I have tried a few basic setups, but I want to learn more advanced techniques, especially focusing on safety and making sure I do not end up in a situation I can not get out of....
Does anyone have tips or favorite methods they use. What equipment works best for you. Also, how do you ensure a reliable escape mechanism. I have read a bit about ice locks, timers but I am unsure which are the safest options....

I would appreciate any recommendations or insights from those of you who have been practicing this for a while. Any personal experiences, dos and don'ts, or common beginner mistakes would be super helpful. 
I also read this topic on this site https://www.masterclass.com/articles/bdsm-explained-power-bi but I could not find anything helpful for me.

Thanks in advance for the help.
Looking forward to hearing your thoughts.


Best,
[Dianna]
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#2
Safety first.
You need a planned escape mechanism.
An emergency escape method (eg scissors on a bit of cord you can pull in if your planned release fails)
And a human backup in case it all goes wrong, as it's better to suffer embarrassment & humiliation after being stuck 1/2 a day due to failed escape than to be dead.

A couple of my tips are that you don't necessarily need to do something complex for itto be effective.
Your brain can be a huge factor in the fun if your thinking about what does it for you even in quite
Mild & escape able constraint.
See if you can find some appropriate Hypno stuff to listen too while stuck.
Something hidden out in public. I got a huge rush first time I went out & about in chastity knowing my wife had the key & there was nothing I could do. Did anyone around me suspect, were my actions betraying me.... (You don't need another half, you can just leave the keys at home)
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#3
If you get creative make sure to thoroughly test it a few times before committing.

Have one backup you need to work for, like keys in ice or scissors you need to crawl a distance for, and one you can get to quickly but at a cost, like scissors on a rope you can pull but doing so will tip a bucket of water and junk. So if your primary release didn't work you still have options.

Buy stuff. I remember trying to get the two ring device from not slipping, using scripts to open the CD-ROM drive on my pc (I'm getting old) to push a key within reach or release a weight to pull loose a knot... Just buy a few rope ratchets, padlocks, a few metal rings, maybe a few lengths of chain.... I have an ice lock I bought online that works 100% of the time, I have DIY ice locks that never failed me but I bought the materials I needed instead of macguyvering some contraption together that's just waiting for the worst possible time to fail. You need reliable stuff that's predictable.

I have some videos, check my PornHub page or my post history, with a few tutorials. If you have any specific questions I will try my best to answer. Trying to fit all I could say here would take a while. I think I could write a book about selfbondage but I'm also somebody that had a few close calls and had to be freed by the police once so don't just take my word for it. I do have over 25 years of experience in tying myself up, that should count for something at least.
Like a video I made? Take a look at my other videos here: https://pornhub.com/model/anneselfbondage/videos

Message me with requests or just to talk!
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