I mistakenly created a reply to a post and I couldn't find a cancel option so I instead saved it as a draft to delete it later. Then I noticed I had one extra post in the stats and after deleting the draft I was back at the correct number.
Do saved drafts get deleted automatically after some time? I tend to save drafts to re-read or apply format before posting so maybe my stat count skyrockets and then plummets down erratically. What if I don't delete drafts? Is that even a problem? I don't know.
I don't know if it's a meme per se, but you know the 'iceberg pictures' with level1 - level5 of things in ascending order of extremity? Say 'Disturbing Movies' perhaps, with tier1 containing maybe Solondz' "Happiness", tier5 having maybe Salo, Nekromantik, etc...
Does one exist for hypno creators? IE: mild and playful tier1, abandon all hope ye who enter here tier5? I'm sure it would / could vary based on subtopic, I'm just curious if one exists at all.
I had a few failed self-bondage attempts recently. Not as in failing to get out but rather failing to get in. I'm so out of shape, need more practice. So this time I had a tiny bit of time again and found out I had not frozen my ice lock. I took a deep breath, took a step back and from experience decided that if I was making so many mistakes lately getting experimental with self bondage was not a good idea.I was all dressed up and the room was set up so not wanting to waste that effort I decided the dual ratchet hogtie with the timer padlocks was the way to go. It was easy to do, simple enough to not mess it up and comfortable to be in.
I still messed it up but that resulted in me getting out sooner.
+ I like the way I look.
- I need to practice more because this is not even amateur level. I'm in a really stressful period right now (again) and my mental health is not good atm so a lot of tiny mistakes and bad prep/decisions come from that as well.
Open Thread
Can anyone clue me in about the sizing on AliExpress?
I'm a US 7.5-8 men's, 9.5-10 women's, EU 40-41, depending on how the sizes run. What does that translate to as far as the sizing on AliExpress? The sizes look like they're about the same as Euro but I'm unwilling to gamble. They do have a sizing chart but I'm unsure how far I can trust that.
One further problem is that I have really wide feet.
In my rope bondage tutorial a few years ago, I mentioned a simple way to tie your wrists together pretty firmly but totally escapable - it only takes time. Basically, you make a loop around one wrist, then make another loop around the other wrist, then around the first one etc. until you run out of rope. The only trick is that you turn the loops, so the rope that comes out is underneath the rope that goes into the loop. If you leave some more rope, you might be able to reach the ankle tie and tie it off there. If you pull that tight enough, you cannot undo the loops around your wrists, so if you cannot open the knot around your ankle tie, you need scissors.
The second idea was to use a pretty long rope to tie my ankles, then tie the end around one wrist and follow the same method as above. It feels quite daring, if the rope between the wrists and ankles gets shorter, perhaps, you will get one hand in with a big struggle, but then not out. Well, this defies the hole idea of a tight but safe hogtie, but if you have scissors around and get the length of the rope just right, it can be fun.
The new idea goes like this: Starting again with the ankle tie, but then pull the ankles as close as possible to one wrist and loop around. Then loop on until you are happy or run out of rope. Like this, you can get the hogtie really tight but you are still on the safe side. If you like some uncertainty (and have scissors in reach), you can stop looping before you run out of rope, and wrape the end around the tie between your wrists. You can even tie this off around the piece of rope connecting wrists and ankles and notice, how the knot slips up to where you might not be able to reach it. Before you try this, remember, that you are pretty immobile now. Getting the scissors into your hands mght be a real challenge!
Have fun and stay on top of your impossible desires!
A few weeks ago, I posted my first session on this forum. As posted there, my kinks are layering and enclosure. Especially, I like taking hikes in many layers of rainwear and neoprene with toys.
Today, i took another such walks. The pictures are better this time as I knew what to expect.
As it's turning fall and getting slightly colder, I started out in my car. Parking at a remote parking place, I stripped and got my stuff.
First things fist, I lubed up and plugged up. Today I used my smaller blue plug, very suitable for longer walks.
I use a trash bag for underwear, mainly because I tape it as much as I want. Pictures below.
Then I tucked in my genitals. For longer walks, a chastity device chafes too much for my taste. Tucking in is a good alternative as it does more or less the same, especially if all is kept in place by tape or neoprene. That said, even tucked in genitals need plenty lube to prevent chafing. So, before tucking in, I coated everything down there with lube.
Here's the arrangement. Butt plug, penis and balls tucked in and everything kept in place by lots of tape!
The tape around the waist creates a bit of a corset feel. Feels wonderful!
underwear done, I moved on to the first layer. Today I decided to wear my full 3mm surfing wet suit. If feels wonderful enclosed and warm.
(if you ever decide to get a wetsuit for fetish purposes, surf and swim wetsuits are much less stiff than diving ones)
Then, in the spur of the moment, I added a 2nd wetsuit, my worn down shorty.
Now, enclosed in two layers of wet suit, warm and cosy, I layered up some more:
-rain pants
-Raincoat
-rubber boots
-Latex gloves
It's getting slightly colder, so I figured I can get away with gloves. and if I can wear my hiking gloves, I can wear my latex gloves underneath!
Another addition is my neoprene diving hood. It's got a long skirt, so it protects the neck, chin and head. When hiking, I wear it down, so it only covers the nect and chin and is hidden behind the collar of the jacket.
Then, the final layers before going out.
-high visibility hiking jacket (for safety)
-obligatory ear plugs hidden by headphones.
-baseball cap
-hiking gloves.
-and finally my limited-sight sunglasses. (see previous session about that one)
Deep in the woods, I did try out the "complete ensemble" which does include stuff I don't do normally because I don't want to spook the normies.
I raised the diving hood and added a facemask, for that complete coverage. For your enjoyment, here are the pictures:
The walk was tougher than expected. The 2nd layer of neoprene made walking much harder than I expected and I tired out much earlier than normal. I cut the route short to roughly and hour and a half (half normal distace) and I was tired warm and sweaty when I arrived back at my car.
