Hello everyone, I am new to posting in the forum but I have been reading them for a while now. I’ve been getting more and more into self bondage and would love to have some more ideas. I live in a condo that has a storage room with multiple caged storage units in it. My storage unit has a keyed lock on it and I’ve always wanted to do a self bondage session in my unit. I only have a few items at which are:
Woman’s clothing/ lingerie
Chasity cage
Dildo
Butt plugs (different sizes)
Shoes laces
Pad lock with key
Zip ties
Electrical tape
I have done a few minor sessions with the ice release trick and have really enjoyed those but nothing in my storage unit yet.
Does anyone have a nice scenario I could follow and I can treat myself in a session 😊
More bingo fun and this session only came about because of @Anne setting up the Bingo Challenge - without that I really doubt I'd have used my cellar at all for self-bondage.
As a first use of the cellar for self-bondage I kept everything quite simple (ha!) as I wanted to know how I'd cope with the cooler (and damper!) conditions, my cellar is below ground level for the most part . If you're interested, my cellar was 12C colder than the rest of the house on the day I did the challenge and it took me 2 days to clear enough space and clean up the accumulated dust and debris!!!!
Equipment:
Black bodycon dress
Bra and silicon boobs
XS Snake V7.0 chastity cage
Purple 18cm butt plug
Rope
20D Tan tights
Sheer Black stockings
6 strap garter belt
15cm/5" Heels
PVC long black gloves
Posture collar
Chair with pipe strapped to back
Various stockings
Ring gag
The session:
I'd planned a simple chair tie, but as usual kept changing my mind and ended up with a more elements than I'd originally intended. I also didn't add more lighting, because I really wanted to capture the atmosphere of a dark, damp, cool cellar - I hope it works.
(something odd about that link - I hope it works for all, ping me if there are issues)
What went well?
The location - thank you Anne for inspiring me to try this location, it's amazing. I don't know why, but being bound in the cellar felt very different from self-bondage elsewhere in the house. I could hear more outside street noise for a start (through air-bricks at ground level outside, that are at ceiling level inside), which was a constant reminder that I was only feet away from passers by. The whole atmosphere was different (and I don't just mean cool/cold and damp) with the low ceiling and hard floor. Very exciting.
Chair bondage - always a favourite, but not done one for a long time. This was with a different chair and the steel frame made for more interesting bondage points. I especially liked having my thighs bound apart and the feeling of being 'exposed'.
Collar to wrist rope - this worked much better than I'd expected, with coils around my wrists being pulled tighter by the rope from my collar (not a cinch this time, just a simple loop, but very effective).
Cross-chest rope between breasts - another tie that worked well with this chair. I really was firmly tied to the back of the chair and yet comfortable at the same time.
Ok, controversial bit coming up...
Neck rope - Firstly DO NOT TRY THIS AT HOME . This was only applied very, very carefully and not tightly. It went over the posture collar and around the pipe at the back of the chair, so that the pressure was not directly on any single point of my neck, being spread out through the collar. And Yes, it was very risky, but I took precautions and if you look closely you can see the coils came undone, so were never even really tight. Having said all that, I will not deny it felt very erotic. But once again DO NOT TRY THIS AT HOME!
What could be improved?
Introduce an timed release - this is an absolute 'must do, but I need to carefully re-calculate my ice-release times. With the cellar being that much cooler that my usual locations the ice will, obviously, take longer to melt. But how much longer? 10-15minutes wouldn't be a problem, but 1-2hours might/would be too much! More testing is required.
Adding some stimulation - reviewing the video and recalling my feelings when I was bound and helpless, the addition of a vibrator/magic wand to the scene is a must. I'm planning minor building work in the cellar (installing a fixed pump to empty it when it floods and re-doing the lighting, to name but tow on my list) so I will include a socket for just such a device 😁
Different positions - the chair tie was amazing and I did a second some days later (post to come) but now I'm looking for other self-bondage positions/scenarios I could try. Due to the low ceiling (we aren't all as lucky as Anne and the basement they use.... jealous!) standing might not be possible nor a true suspension, but those low beams (actually floor joists for the room above) are screaming out to be used in some manner. I'll definitely want to try a hogtie on the floor (well, on a covering over the floor, it's hard and very cold!) and there all kinds of interesting frames and such down there. Watch this space.
Lighting - I said at the start I wanted to capture the atmosphere of the cellar, but I am installing new lighting, so do you think I should make it brighter so as to be better suited for video, or are you enjoying the darker, grainier look?
Bingo claim will be coming soon - I hope you enjoyed this anyway and noticed I'm making progress with my video editing 😁
Sorry if there is a better thread this can go in, couldn't see one.
My wife and I are looking to incorporate hypnosis into our dynamic.
She has embraced her domme side, me my femme submissive side.
Need to avoid stuff that talks about cocks, or cucks, but looking for ideas of what files, programs, sessions, would work for my training to become more and more submissive, and girly.
Triggers are good, heavy brainwashing good, mantras good.
Bambi sleep would work if it wasn't so cock heavy
I guess Kei as well
We love to play in our dungeon and on our property, but we also like to play in nature, in the forest for example, but also to do some Urbex.
Near our home, there are lots of abandoned places where we have fun. One of our very playful friends discovered Urbex and couldn't resist playing.
Below are a few photos
AS A SELF-SERVICE GAME, you can leave your clothes hidden at the bottom of this abandoned hotel (or the keys to your handcuffs) and go and play on the top floor.
Have you ever played Urbex at the same time as your favourite games?
I'm finally joining the Selfbondage Bingo fun, in this session I'm doing some things for the first time and I'm having fun so that's the goal reached. I'll make my claim for the relevant keywords in the Bingo thread later as it's getting late here so I'm just going to post the link to the video and I'm going to bed. Enjoy:
MJSB-07/2024 Bingo - part 4 Standing Up to be counted
Back on the bingo challenge trail again, this time with an interesting scenario to try out.
Now, I made a basic error in setting up my video camera, thought I could fix it in production.... but couldn't!
I have spent hours and hours trying various thigs to correct the error (and am still looking for help that might allow me to re-edit the images) but failed to find a satisfactory solution.
I have therefor decided to publish and be damned - I apologise in advance, but there are tips to aid your viewing in the video.
Equipment:
Cosplay bodysuit (built in gloves and feet) - see video for more.... 😁
Corset
Ponytail hood
Sheer black tights
Stocking
Bra and silicon boobs
High-heeled ankle boots
Red ball gag
Rope
Micro chastity cage
The session:
I was going for a simple 'standing tie' but wanted it to be reasonably challenging and had originally intended to use my 5" heels, which would have made standing with bound legs very difficult indeed! But the heels looked wrong for the outfit, so I swapped them for my 4" - how vain is that?
Ok, so you should have read my warning about the video snafu (there are no prizes for spotting it, it's soooooo obvious) - lets get on and take a look:
Standing dangling is fun - though maybe not for everyone, I found this position highly enjoyable. Tottering around in my heels, legs bound together and hands firmly tied above my head was an amazing feeling. Just when I thought I was stable a small change in my balance and I'd be off again! Sometimes just a few difficult steps, other times (and you'll see them) a nearly out of control spin! I should state that at no time did I feel that I was in danger of falling, but that I also didn't feel in full control - which was what I was seeking to experience
Dressing up - ok, so I might have invented a character from the MJ Universe (hey, cosplayers do fictional characters all the time!), but I really enjoyed being 'Noreell' and I think I'll bring her back for more adventures in the future (especially if others request it).
Getting the 'suspension' point just right - I spent quite a while selecting the point from which my wrists would be tied. Too high and I was worried about injury to my wrists or finding myself stuck. Too low and I don't think I'd have felt quite so 'vulnerable'. The perfect height, for me, was to have to stretch up to pass the wrist coils through the suspension point rope, so that I was left just, and only just, able to stand on both my heels and toes at the same time.
Spinning the suspension rope tight - this might not come across in the video, but when I spun around I didn't realise that I was tightening the suspension rope with the twisting. This had a wonderful double effect 1) it closed the loop holding my wrist coils, trapping me and making it impossible to escape and 2) lifting me slightly higher, which also make it more difficult to regain control. Happy chance or careful planning? I do know that I'll be using that technique again!
What could be improved?
Ok, the camera - what a silly problem I created for myself, thinking it would be easy to fix in editing! I shall either sort it out, possibly with help from the Kdenlive experts (@Anne to name but 1!) or else set the camera on the right orientation and then fix the 'too-wide' shot in editing ( @Anne guess what... 😁 )
Timed release - this is a difficult one, not due of finding a release mechanism, that is simple enough, but because of the strain of the tie, standing is very difficult to lying down. Just that short session was very physical and I was soaked in sweat. I do not know how long I could safely endure this without any hope of escape (try standing with your arms above your head, it does strange things to your body... at least to mine). So while it is a real fantasy, I'll not attempt it until I'm 100% sure and have a suitable escape option.
Right, I'm off to figure out what Bingo items I can claim for 😁
You might know the lyrics of the song 'Teddy Bear's Picnic'?
"If you go down in the woods today
your sure of a big surprise
If you go down in the woods today
you better go in disguise"
Well, I went in disguise....
Equipment:
20D Tan tights
Stocking
Red ballgag
Rope
12"/30cm Anal beads
Black long-sleeved leotard
'Tight' Cobra chastity cage
Lycra hood
Black pantyhose elbow gloves
Groundsheet
The Session:
My outdoor self-bondage gets serious! (No Bingo claims of the one)
The preparation for this session took several weeks and involved scouting location, checking views all angles, checking for trail cameras(!), leaving markers to indicate if anyone else was visiting, etc, etc.
I'd also rehearsed the clothing I would wear, hidden under 'normal' hiking gear and walked the route many times to gauge the likelihood of meeting people.
On the day I was nervous as hell and when my 4k camera failed (I checked all my kit before setting out) I nearly quit, but I didn't and I glad I went ahead, using my spare camera instead.
The early morning walk to my spot was a little over 2k, but I was constantly aware of my tights and leotard under my light trousers and long-sleeved top. Even more distracting was my caged cock and the anal beads!
All went safely, with very few encounters enroute, and with after carefully checking for any observers, I left the trial and headed into the trees.
I'm not going to show you the video with me taking off my normal clothing to reveal what was underneath nor setting up the groundsheet and camera, not even the initial binding of my legs, I shall pick-up just after I pulled the stocking down over my head...
Everything - oh boy was that a rush! Considering the state my nerves were in walking there and getting set-up, as soon as that gag went into my mouth it all felt 'right'
The camera angle - without my 4k camera, I couldn't see what the scene would look like, but it came out much better than I'd feared. This also explains why I was messing around with my smart phone so much, trying to make sure I got some images, should the video camera fail in some way.
The second, tighter hogtie - just for a moment I wanted that tie to be a timed release one, leaving me properly helpless until some mechanism freed me.
Outdoor self-bondage - where have you been all of my life?
What could be improved?
Fix or replace the camera - the 4k video camera (mid-priced 'sports' style) had proved ultra-reliable, right up until it wasn't. I'd eft it on charge, but when I went to pick it up it was beeping madly and the LCD screen powering up/down/up/down. Nothing I could do would fire it up. Tried again when I got back, spent the day with my digital meter out trying to fault find, but all looked ok. It was the same this morning, until it suddenly flickered into life, flashed a message I couldn't read on the screen and.... Worked! Trouble is, I don't trust it now.
Less insects - thought not as bad as it can be, there were a lot of small insects bothering me and I did get bitten a few times, more insect repellent required!
Maybe I will show you the reveal next time - now I'm more confident (not over-confident though, at least I hope so!), I might risk the fumbling that comes with a masked face, so that you can see more of my setting up.
How do I top this? - I've got to figure out my next session, plan and re-plan, not get carried away, be sensible and then do it. Open to realistic suggestions (note: I can't/won't do a 'bound walk' back to a hidden key, the terrain is too rough for that and I'm not brave enough either!).
Cooler weather - it was getting warm and very humid in that glade, a few degrees cooler would have been much better. I need to pick my time - it's way too warm right now, I'd overheat with two layers of clothing on. And, before you suggest it, I'm not stripping naked and then dressing in my tights, etc - the insects would eat me alive!
Before I go anywhere else with this session I shall make everyone aware that although an enema is involved, there is NO scator mess or anything like that. So, if you are a viewer of gentle persuasions I think you are safe to proceed... but the choice is yours and yours alone.
There that's the NSFW bit done, now lets get on with the good stuff.
Enema kit (2 litre size)
Enema Butt Plug
'Tight' Chastity cage
3 pairs of 20D Tan tights
Open crotch bodystocking
Black silicon gag
Rope
Leather wrist and ankle cuffs
Handcuffs
Collar
Ice-release and ice cubes
'Tight' Cobra chastity cage
The Session:
I would prepared the enema and hang it over the bathtub, pre-prepared ropes would be arranged to tie my ankles apart, on either side of the bath. I would set up an ice-release to a rope, from which my handcuffs would hang ready for use. Once the handcuffs were locked, I wouldn't be able to escape until the ice cubes melted and released the rope, allowing me to reach the handcuff key.
Using a proper timed release - it'd been too long and I'd forgotten how erotic being 'properly' helpless was! Lying there in the bath, knowing I couldn't escape for ?? Minutes (and knowing what would happen then) was amazing!
My new enema butt-plug - a metal plug that fits better than any of the enema nozzles I've tried. Comfortable and effective, felt nice inside me too!
The melting ice cubes dripping on my body - I hadn't planned for this, but it was an amazing feeling, especially when the drips fell on my caged cock!
The ice-release - worked exactly as I'd planned, even if I'd completely lost track of time! The price for my freedom was delivered as expected.
Struggling to undo the cords holding the enema plug securely inside me - this wasn't planned either, but with my nylon covered hands and the small knots I found it very difficult to undo and when the enema really started to work inside me it added a real 'spice' to the scene!
Doing the scene in the bath - knowing that, if the worst happened, any mess would be safely contained was a comforting thought. Thankfully no mess, so that went well too!
What could be improved?
Bleed the enema tube! - the mistake I mention in my video was that I didn't get the air out of the tube before connecting to my plug. This slowed down the initial flow and pushed air up inside me! I always do this normally, so why I forgot this time I don't know!
Make the ice-release 2-stage - Now I'm comfortable with the set-up I want to take it a little bit further. I want to use 2 ice-release mechanisms, the first will release the enema, the second will free me. It's looks relatively simple to set up, but the complexity is in timing. Watching the video I know I should be able to hold the enema for around 10 minutes or so, but how do I calibrate two ice-releases to do this? I think it might be down to when I add the ice-cubes. If I add the ice-cubes for the enema first, then 10 minutes later fetch 'fresh' ice-cubes for the rope release I reckon it should work... Watch this space!
The bare back - ok, this is just aesthetics, but I will try to fix it for the next time and be fully encased
A better way to hold the enema plug inside me - I used cords for this and they worked really well, but if I'm to try the 2-stage release method I don't really want to be adding another 5 minutes trying to undo those pesky knots! Any ideas or suggestions most welcome. I do not trust the plug to stay in, even with my tights on, and the resulting leakage would rather spoil the session.
