Hi, I've wanted to try chastity for a while, but I'm cursed with a large-sized member. This makes it difficult to find cages that fit.
Silicon cages might offer a bit of stretch, but those also never seem to offer XL sizes.
My plan is to wear one while I listen to BS files and am in uniform, to prevent my overwhelming desire to masturbate while dressed in women's clothing. BS files will only make me more excited, and I want to be chaste while listening to and being Bambi, as is her command. I know I'll fail if not locked up, as I tend to get very sensitive while dressed up, and the slightest touch can cause orgasm, if I am in a very excited state. Those files also put me into a very aroused state, almost constantly, and it's so easy to just reach down for a stroke or two...
So long-term wear isn't my plan or goal, it's just to prevent masturbation while in uniformed Bambi-land.
I've tried a buying a couple that were described as 'large' but upon opening the package I immediately knew I wasn't going to fit. Mainly it's a girth issue, but my non-aroused length is around the 4-5" range, so that limits options as well.
I want to find a pink plastic one that looks like a cock (I find the shape and color most exciting), but it seems these are never in the XL range.
I did find this one, but it's a bit expensive to order with uncertainty of if it will fit or not.
The bondage fantasy brings additional emotions to sex. Personally, I love doing shibari suspensions. I find it different from sling, it allows you to play from several sides... 😁
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Looking for selfbondage scenarios/challenges (for a guy!) that I must follow and try. Diagrams are welcome! Looking forward to trying your devious ideas.
Here's the equipment I have (apart from usual items/clothing/etc):
4 lockable leather cuffs
6 small luggage padlocks
6 ratchet/hanger strap/cables with clips on both ends (https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07415QXD6) (this is mainly intended for being used on a bed/bed frame, but other uses are possible!)
1 lockable inflatable ball gag
1 ankle-to-toe cuffs (https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DHXDMDXC)
2 nipple clamps with chain connecting them
1 electronic timer padlock
1 bluetooth vibrator
duct tape
I am 38 male trying to discover and understand my dark, sub side.
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You might know how much I love Lynda Carter’s 1970s Wonder Woman costumes, particularly the one she wore in the second and third (CBS) series. I’ve just seen that the original pieces are being offered for sale by Julien's Auctions and these are the estimates:
Bodysuit, belt and bracelets $100-200K
Tiara & earrings $20-30K
Lasso $20-30K
Boots $20-30K
SFX prototype doll $4-6K
So, I went to the local Blain's Farm & Fleet today and got a Steelman 31-inch Wide 1000-Pound Capacity Sawhorse on clearance for $16.88 and am needing pointers on how to convert it into a bondage horse.
Hello - I have a background in engineering and interest in BDSM. For the past few months I've been brainstorming on the idea of putting those together to make a sort of modular SoC PC that would serve as a sort of virtual Dom or assistant for those into the hobby. Over time it'd get more sophisticated but I'd start simple with the promise that if I saw demand that I'd ensure it became more robust over time and likely be built in a way where you could get a couple pieces to start and then grow the system and upgrade the software over time without having to chuck the whole thing for the new model each year.
So I'd rather not give away the recipe but here are a couple of my ideas so you can get an idea what I'm thinking of the final product being like. I am prototyping a little so you may see some photos of my test rig along with breadboards and bare parts I'm developing this thing with. The final product would certainly be more of the custom PCB & screws&glues where today it's cardboard & cross-connects.
Right now I've built it on a Raspberry Pi 4 SoC using the RPi linux and code written in python. It would be in a custom case and the sides would be dotted with various ports/jacks where pieces you got later would plug in to add functionality to the system. In this way you could affordably grow its features over time instead of having to start with a huge price tag and you could just get the pieces that had interest to you as opposed to having bells and whistles you wouldn't miss.
So first off, you'd run a pre-built software load which would take over the normal interface - think an app in full-screen or kiosk mode on your PC. As features were developed, you'd just get a new memory card for it and gain the new functionality. Although it would start as a simple "would you like to do 1, 2, or 3?" Eventually I envision something of a collection of events which you could organize into any order you want and possibly have some flow-like control available so you could start with a module that makes the user stand silently for 30 minutes and would either move on to the next task if they succeeded or would punish them if they failed... but if they succeeded but only with several almost-over-the-limit-noises, the next task may be required to be completed in the dark?
To begin, the releases would consist of things like
1) a maglock holding someone from moving
2) a spool of string that lowers keys when it's time
3) an actuator that opens the lid to a box holding the key that has no apparent other means of opening
So what kind of tasks could be available to the user?
1) Suck 100 meters of cock
User restrains their hands and then must deep throat a dildo. There is a distance rangefinder at the base of the cock that measures where they start and stop with each try. It adds the length from each attempt and adds it until it reaches a total of 100 meters.
2) Learn your place
User wears a collar that is fixed to a point. There is a camera pointed at their face. A monitor is seen in front of them. The monitor shows them a close up of their face. At random intervals words appear on the screen and they have to say them out loud or be punished. After they have done this 50 times, the screen goes to a still image of them and then they get to hear their words played back to them over speakers - all 50 phrases - and bask in the humility of it before being released.
3) Invisible Cage
A set of blocks are set in a square shape around the user. When they are told it's enabled, if they cross between any two blocks, they'll get punished through a TENS unit. They must stay within the boarders of their prison of whatever size until the time runs out. If they make a noise, 5 minutes gets added to the duration.
I imagine a wide variety of future pieces. Something that turns on a pinspot (like a spotlight) and they must sit in the spotlight until it turns off every time it comes on for hours? White noise played on earbuds while restrained. Then sounds like a door opening are barely heard, leading to anxiety to an unaware user? Push these buttons in the right order (think the old Simon Says game) or else....
So here's the bad part. I'm human. You'll need to include a backup each time cause who knows when a bug might keep something from working right? And updates will take awhile until I get some help. And it's a little complicated. I'm sure it can get easier over time but these things usually start with a bit of a learning curve. And finally building them by hand isn't cheap. Eventually they'd get there but the first few wouldn't be cheap. I'm thinking they'd start around $350-450. Maybe in 3 years they'd be $100 and then $50 for addons? Just off the top of my head...
So the question is.. if I built a few. And sold them with the stipulation that I'd update them provided I got feedback on how they worked, didn't work, or could be better on the first handful to go out. Am I living in a pipe dream or am I on to something here?
TECH BITS for those who understand them-
So far I've built prototype pieces using these core devices
5mp camera
couple geared motors
vibrating motors, 3 sizes
Stepper Motors (sm)
220lb capable 6" linear actuator
5" reciprocal actuator (the fucker)
25kg/cm servos
2gal/min water pump
40lb solenoid pull 1"
45lb maglock (small)
75lb maglock (medium sized)
160lb maglock (~5"x1")
H bridge, motor driver IC
RFID reader, RFID wristbands
ultrasonic rangefinder
RealTimeClock for Pi
So, I am looking for various ideas for DIY self bondage furniture that are not chairs or beds. Something that you actually have to convert or cut and build yourself.
