Finally, my inner Bambi is back, pushing and pulling at my thoughts. I have an idea, or maybe she does, whatever, doesn't matter. But I would like to bounce it off some folks before I start scripting. Let me lay out an assumption I'm making:
Resisting is easiest when no one else is involved. For example, I can be told in a file that I'm not allowed to climax without permission, however since no one told me I had to remain chaste other than a random file I made the willing decision to listen to I don't really feel that I absolutely need permission. At some point I can easily just say "screw it, I'm not really accountable to anyone but myself". Same with sticking to a diet, or really anything Bambi related.
My solution is to create a file that will initiate a contract of sorts. Bambi is compelled to ask for help from the community, to "hand over the keys" in a way. Give up her control in favor of someone else's. But maintain the right to refuse or accept.
So I might make a post saying something to the effect of "I'm having trouble accepting Bambi needs to be on a diet, or Bambi needs help not touching herself"
Someone else can reply with a simple statement like "Bambi is GOING to stay on her diet" or "Bambi knows good girls don't play with themselves." And Bambi will accept that as the enforcement of a second party, so she is accountable to more than herself.
Or it can be something like Bambi isn't allowed to orgasm until she has given X number of BJ's, Or Bambi Can't touch herself until a weight or fitness goal is reached. Maybe playlists can be assigned to be listened to X number of times, wonder if that can be integrated with Bambi Cloud in some way. Or Bambi cloud levels worked in? @
bambiislv likes a work pending notice or something connected to a person's account?
Anyway she can choose to accept that as a contract that must be obeyed, or decline of her own free will, but if accepted she is compelled by my file to follow through.
There don't need to be any ongoing communication with the person offering the contract, or if they mutually agree to continue communication. That can be open-ended. I'm sure that a
eady goes on here and there. I'm not trying to create a matchmaking service here. I just know almost without a doubt that if I go to Reddit and ask for a listening assignment someone would pipe up with some crazy ass BS, so Bambi would need to reply to one she is willing to see through with something like "I accept Your terms" and that reply would serve as a trigger to lock her into completing that contract.
I think, with my kink being denial, that allowing myself to be locked in mental chastity by a random stranger and fully governed by the rules of files like body betrayal or pleasure lock, could be fun, allowing that I do get right of refusal of course. I can see many that would be into an obligation of certain playlists, or other conditions by the community in general.
I'm not big on safeties, I think right of refusal should cover it? I don't really think there is much room for abuse? I'm open to suggestions for safeties.
Creating even the illusion of Bambi being forced by another to follow rules might be exciting and more effective than just going completely solo. I mean really just picking files solo and following the directives in those files until it becomes annoying or inconvenient is a lot like masturbating, sure it's fun, but better with more than one. Or like self-bondage with the release readily at hand, no timer, no real restraint, safe, but not as satisfying as it would be with real restriction.
OK, long and rambling not exactly focused, sorry the inner Bambi is really latched on to this idea, makes it hard to concentrate. I'll be a few days until I could even begin to start scripting but please thoughts and ideas, anything to expand on, questions concerns comments all feedback is welcome.
Bellmar