16 Nov 2012, 17:28
Ah-ha! I think I've spotted a common trend here, relating to the desire for something unplanned or we have have no control over to happen during a session.
Tinker D wishes for a random fuck from a robot (interesting!), whilst LustrousLaminaLover writes eloquently about the need for 'spontaneity'.
I understand both these desires but also find them the hardest elements to bring into a successful self-bondage session.
Of course I can programme a timer to switch a torment/tease on and off - but the very act of programming and setting the device up takes away any real element of spontaneity (selecting a ‘random’ setting is, in my opinion, never going to work in real-life. True ‘random’ could mean anything from ‘always on’ to ‘never on’… no thanks!) and similarly even if you could configure a device to ‘randomly’ (within some pre-programmed parameters) do something (fuck your ass, vibrate your cock, spurt fake cum in your mouth… all fun things) you still have to connect the pipes/massagers/dildos/whatever and then, once again, the spontaneity is lost.
Losing control or, more accurately, giving up control, is to me subtly different. Using an ice-cube timer to prohibit your freedom means you have given up control over your predicament (at least for a period of time). Similarly when I use a digital timer and massager to tease my cock whilst I am helpless to prevent it brings a thrill of being unable to stop something (nice) happening to me. 😁
It isn’t spontaneous or really random, but it is unstoppable and (just like riding a roller-coaster and reaching the first summit) you know it WILL happen (unless you’ve screwed up the timer or power supply!).
For me and, I think, others the real fantasy will always be the unexpected event that ‘forces’ you to endure something you secretly desire (I don’t believe anyone has ‘fantasies about things they don’t want – those would be nightmares, wouldn’t they 🤔 ).
Outside of science fiction (Tinker D’s robot) I don’t see how these could be practically delivered – Yes, you could spend years and huge sums of money devising machines and devices to deliver something (or not of course - spontaneity and chance run both ways), but for the vast majority this simply isn’t a viable option.
Personally I’ll keep my fantasy as just that, a fantasy, and maybe spiral further downwards (my little joke, not how I really feel about it) by finding new ways to ‘lose control’ – the timed enema release is a ‘must do’ given the opportunity and reliable kit (true random at the moment – sometimes it works and sometimes not! I prefer it to work 😁 ).
Happy in my kinkiness
MJ
Tinker D wishes for a random fuck from a robot (interesting!), whilst LustrousLaminaLover writes eloquently about the need for 'spontaneity'.
I understand both these desires but also find them the hardest elements to bring into a successful self-bondage session.
Of course I can programme a timer to switch a torment/tease on and off - but the very act of programming and setting the device up takes away any real element of spontaneity (selecting a ‘random’ setting is, in my opinion, never going to work in real-life. True ‘random’ could mean anything from ‘always on’ to ‘never on’… no thanks!) and similarly even if you could configure a device to ‘randomly’ (within some pre-programmed parameters) do something (fuck your ass, vibrate your cock, spurt fake cum in your mouth… all fun things) you still have to connect the pipes/massagers/dildos/whatever and then, once again, the spontaneity is lost.
Losing control or, more accurately, giving up control, is to me subtly different. Using an ice-cube timer to prohibit your freedom means you have given up control over your predicament (at least for a period of time). Similarly when I use a digital timer and massager to tease my cock whilst I am helpless to prevent it brings a thrill of being unable to stop something (nice) happening to me. 😁
It isn’t spontaneous or really random, but it is unstoppable and (just like riding a roller-coaster and reaching the first summit) you know it WILL happen (unless you’ve screwed up the timer or power supply!).
For me and, I think, others the real fantasy will always be the unexpected event that ‘forces’ you to endure something you secretly desire (I don’t believe anyone has ‘fantasies about things they don’t want – those would be nightmares, wouldn’t they 🤔 ).
Outside of science fiction (Tinker D’s robot) I don’t see how these could be practically delivered – Yes, you could spend years and huge sums of money devising machines and devices to deliver something (or not of course - spontaneity and chance run both ways), but for the vast majority this simply isn’t a viable option.
Personally I’ll keep my fantasy as just that, a fantasy, and maybe spiral further downwards (my little joke, not how I really feel about it) by finding new ways to ‘lose control’ – the timed enema release is a ‘must do’ given the opportunity and reliable kit (true random at the moment – sometimes it works and sometimes not! I prefer it to work 😁 ).
Happy in my kinkiness
MJ