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05 May 2025, 22:42
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Then I asked to explain what "sissy identity" and "sexualized sissy identity" are.
🌸 What is a "Sissy Identity"?
In the context of erotic roleplay, kink, or fetish communities, a "sissy" is a hyper-feminized, submissive identity often adopted by men (typically cisgender, but not always) in a sexual or lifestyle roleplay. It's important to note that this is usually distinct from being a transgender woman— "sissy" is a fantasy role, not necessarily a gender identity. - Submissive Role: The sissy identity is typically rooted in power dynamics. The person sees themselves as less masculine, weaker, and meant to serve or obey.
- Hyper-Femininity: The traits are exaggerated—think heavy makeup, frilly or slutty clothing, high-pitched voices, and exaggerated mannerisms.
- Non-Binary Expression: The "sissy" identity isn’t about becoming a conventional woman, but a caricature of femininity designed for erotic submission and play.
đź’‹ What is a "Sexualized Sissy Identity"?
This refers to when the sissy persona is not just submissive or feminine—but is overtly sexualized and objectified, often within the context of a fantasy.
Key Traits:- Pornified Femininity: The "sissy" is portrayed as a highly sexual being—always aroused, needy, and focused on pleasing others (especially dominant men).
- Self-Objectification: The sissy character often internalizes a belief like “I exist to be used,” especially by masculine or dominant figures.
- Loss of Agency: Often paired with fantasies like brainwashing, hypnosis, or “forced feminization,” where the sissy loses control and becomes a hyper-sexual, submissive plaything.
- Bimbofication Crossover: Sometimes overlaps with “bimbo” or “Bambi” personas—focused on being cute, ditzy, and sex-obsessed.
✨ Key Distinctions:
Trait | Feminization | Sissy Identity | Sexualized Sissy |
Purpose | Gender expression or erotic play | Submissive kink/fantasy | Fetishized submission + sexual object |
Tone | Can be neutral or affirming | Often humiliating | Often degrading and erotic |
Clothing/Style | Varies | Hyper-feminine, exaggerated | Slutty, doll-like, fetish-wear |
Mental Framing | "Be a woman" | "Be a weak girl" | "Be a mindless sex toy" |
🚨 Important Notes: - These are fantasy roles, and many people enjoy them consensually and safely as part of kink or roleplay.
- The term “sissy” has a history as a slur, but it's been reclaimed in some subcultures—yet still should be used with care and only in appropriate contexts.
- Not every person who enjoys feminization or gender exploration identifies with "sissy" culture.
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05 May 2025, 22:48
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When I read your "sexualized sissy" key features, they reminded be of much more of "bimbo" than "sissy". Is there a difference?
You're absolutely right to notice that overlap — "bimbo" and "sissy" identities do share some themes, especially when sexualized. But they’re distinct archetypes, each with their own flavor of fantasy, presentation, and psychological framing. Here’s a breakdown:
đź’„ "Sissy" vs. "Bimbo": Key Differences
Trait | Sissy | Bimbo |
Gender Framing | Feminized male, usually still identifying as male | Hyper-feminine persona—can be male, female, or nonbinary |
Core Fantasy | Humiliation, forced femininity, submission | Pleasure, beauty, attention, self-objectification |
Tone | Degrading, submissive, servile | Glamorous, ditzy, or sexually confident |
Clothing/Style | Frilly, submissive—maids, stockings, lingerie | Slutty, flashy—heels, makeup, miniskirts |
Mental Framing | “I’m weak and made to serve” | “I’m hot and made to feel good (not think)” |
Kinks Associated | Forced feminization, chastity, cuckolding, obedience | Bimbofication, mindlessness, oral fixation, sex obsession |
🧠Key Psychological Difference:- Sissification is usually about losing masculinity and being reduced into a role — with a strong component of shame, submission, or “corruption.”
- Bimbofication is about being remade into something desirable and objectified — with more focus on appearance, pleasure, and sometimes a fantasy of losing intelligence or independence.
đź’¬ So Why the Overlap?
They intersect when: - The bimbo is submissive or “dumbed down”
- The sissy is eroticized and objectified
- Hypnosis or training is involved (like with Bambi Sleep)
- Both roles focus on being changed for sexual use or pleasure
You might even hear the term “sissy bimbo”—a hybrid that’s both submissive and hypersexual, embracing elements from each fantasy.
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11 May 2025, 11:30
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Admirable & interesting.
I gave up trying to define the label "sissy" a long time ago. It is all over the place & very much a rule34 kink/lifestyle which only excludes cis women (a few tg men are into it 🤷🏻‍♀️).
If you ask 10 people who use the label what it means to them, you will get 10 different answers.... and again 10 different answers from those same people a year later.
Unless someone starts a First International of Sissydom & a Sissy-CIA to enforce its doctrines, I doubt it will change.
I do agree, many of the "hypnos" or tagged as such (often more simply aimed at being seductive than hypnossis) follow the rules/tropes above, but not all - Kei's old & new stuff generally has no "humiliation" & there is the whole "Sissy Positive/Affirmative" genre (hypnotube.com/video/sissy-dream-664.html). Humiliation (which is often based on sterotypes & societal non-normative) certainly is a big draw for some, but I don't think it is even near a majority irl. I think some of the humiliation also gets cancelled out quickly with "Hey I enjoy this, why is this even supposed to be humiliating?"
The only common denominators I have found is: feminization, submission (but not necessarily shame/humiliation/degradation) & highly sexualized (mostly towards - or in preparation for - men as the object of desire).
More from speaking to people who use the label than the (mostly more extreme than the people participating in it) available material from 'tists or places like hypnotube:
Feminization: Many simply want to feel pretty, feminine & sexually desirable and have feedback to that effect or live it out being "the girl".
Submission: Like you have often said, removes responsibility, there are still very strong social norms against non gender conform presentation & non hetro-normative sex.
Highly Sexualized: Unlike feminisation, roleplay, CD, cosplay the primary emphasis is normally on sex or being prepared for enticing it.
The kink has more recently gotten a bad rap from all sides, from the right/christian side where it has always been damned for not abiding by their own expectations & rules, and on the other - mostly due to other kinks added to some of it (like the whole BNWO stuff which has been prominent lately). Even the LGBT+ community struggles with it, the Christian/TERF alliance often incorrectly & maliciously conflates the sissy kink with being transgender & causes some knee-jerk reactions to it from the T community towards people engaged in the kink, which is unfortunate, gender non-conformity in the cis world in general is positive for the T community and for the feminist community breaking down societal stereotypes and norms used to define & subject people to discrimination.
While there are aspects incorporated into the kink anywhere from ABDL to Watersports (and probably beyond W), they are not really core to the kink. Some of the more extreme files do promote sexual practices which are dangerous healthwise (drop for anyone anywhere unprotected with no boundaries) and some of the motivation/tropes behind the humiliation used in some of the files is often based on less savory stereotypes & prejudices at their core.
Like with feminisation, roleplay, CD & cosplay it can be a very positive thing, used to explore ones gender and/or sexuality in a playful, non-existential "who/what am I" confronting manner. A lot of people move on from the kink & distance themselves from it once they do come to terms with the latter.
Just food for thought...
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I am looking for some files by Dark Freya. I am particularly interested in the file called, the Hunger. I have tried to download Retroshare but it is over my head. Does anyone have the free file they can share or any other files from Dark Freya. Thank you in advance.
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https://hypnotube.com/video/masculinity-...88054.html
Hello, I was wondering if anyone knows the second audio being played in this video the slower sounding voice one.
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(05 Jun 2025, 16:46 )redara Wrote: Hello, I was wondering if anyone knows the second audio being played in this video the slower sounding voice one.
Definitely NinaTemptress .... the first "slower" segment is one of the "Past Life Sissy" files, "PLS 2 Useless Clitty" I y fucks girlbelieve, there are two different versions:
https://www.warpmymind.com/index.php?gad...le_id=8865
https://www.warpmymind.com/index.php?gad...le_id=8878
I'll listen a bit closer later on my other computer to check to make sure & if, which of the two (Edit: I'm pretty sure it is the non Light version split into three different parts in the video).
Nina also has "Past Life Slut" & "Past Life Gay" versions of that series.
The one I personally like from that series is https://www.warpmymind.com/index.php?gad...le_id=8918
Non sissy versions:
https://www.warpmymind.com/index.php?gad...le_id=8998
https://www.warpmymind.com/index.php?gad...le_id=8937
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(05 Jun 2025, 16:46 )redara Wrote: https://hypnotube.com/video/masculinity-...88054.html
Hello, I was wondering if anyone knows the second audio being played in this video the slower sounding voice one.
A permanent limit file forgot who the artist was think its by ninatemptress
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(05 Jun 2025, 17:12 )Iniga Wrote: (05 Jun 2025, 16:46 )redara Wrote: Hello, I was wondering if anyone knows the second audio being played in this video the slower sounding voice one.
Definitely NinaTemptress .... it is one of the "Past Life Sissy" files, "PLS 2 Useless Clitty" Iy fucks girlbelieve, there are two different versions:
https://www.warpmymind.com/index.php?gad...le_id=8865
https://www.warpmymind.com/index.php?gad...le_id=8878
I'll listen a bit closer later on my other computer to check.
You got it right we both Commented at the same time
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(05 Jun 2025, 17:12 )Iniga Wrote: (05 Jun 2025, 16:46 )redara Wrote: Hello, I was wondering if anyone knows the second audio being played in this video the slower sounding voice one.
Definitely NinaTemptress .... it is one of the "Past Life Sissy" files, "PLS 2 Useless Clitty" Iy fucks girlbelieve, there are two different versions:
https://www.warpmymind.com/index.php?gad...le_id=8865
https://www.warpmymind.com/index.php?gad...le_id=8878
I'll listen a bit closer later on my other computer to check to make sure & if, which of the two.
Nina also has "Past Life Slut" & "Past Life Gay" versions of that series.
The one I personally like from that series is https://www.warpmymind.com/index.php?gad...le_id=8918
Non sissy versions:
https://www.warpmymind.com/index.php?gad...le_id=8998
https://www.warpmymind.com/index.php?gad...le_id=8937
WMM often has a 50% off sale on July 1st (EMG's birthday)
(05 Jun 2025, 17:13 )AlterEgoMelina Wrote: (05 Jun 2025, 16:46 )redara Wrote: https://hypnotube.com/video/masculinity-...88054.html
Hello, I was wondering if anyone knows the second audio being played in this video the slower sounding voice one.
A permanent limit file forgot who the artist was think its by ninatemptress
Oh wow that was fast, big thanks to both of you 💓
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