Self-bondage, fetish and children. How and when did it begin?

[Like Ra]

I literally did the same thing in the woods all the time when I was a kid. I was about 10 years old and I would always think of ways to include bondage in the games I used to play with my friends. I would be all about cops and robbers for the most part and I would make sure the robbers were tied up and I would "accidentally" get caught first just to be in ropes for a long time - even though I was more athletic and faster than all of my friends. Once I his puberty, I started tying myself up in the woods to a tree/between trees and just stay there and struggle to get free. It was at a tree fort that our road built together a few years back but had since been left abandoned. I kept rope, duct tape, and things to gag myself with there for easy accessibility. I loved being in bondage outdoors and I loved to do it myself. When I would finally get my hand/hands free I would masturbate in the woods. The whole time I would tell everyone I was going on a bike ride. Since then, it has only gotten stronger and more sexual

When I was 8 I used to watch Super Mario Brothers TV show. There was one episode that ended with Koopa strapped down at the waist. There was something about it that made me want to try it. One day I get out in the porch swing, lie down and run a piece of chair webbing around my waist and arms. Obviously I only tried it a few seconds. When I was 9 I was flooded out and my parents and I stayed in a motel. One night me an my mom went to the mall and I got a plastic set of Ninja turtle Handcuffs and I would sometimes handcuff myself to a chair in the motel. For Christmas that year I got a metal set of toy handcuffs courtesy of Santa but I never really done much with them.

Fast forward to when I was 14 I started watching a lot of magic shows and recording them. There was one I had with Penn and Teller that featured a strait-jacket escape. One night i get a bunch of Safety pins and socks and make a strait-jacket complete with crotch strap. It was doing this that I had my first orgasm. At the time I did not know what it was.

Eventually my homemade strait-jacket expanded and I would tie my ankles together. Eventually I would take socks and safety pins and make a way to keep my shoulders down (though the pins would rarely work) of course by this time I had discovered masturbation with the crotch strap and would always add it. Eventually I dropped the strait-jacket for other home-made stuff. At first I thought I was strange but once I got the internet I realized that it is not strange. Eventually I stopped doing home-made self bondage that often as I had the internet.

Now I am 29 and I have not actually ever bought any bondage items, but lately I have decided that I want to get into doing some real self-bondage

[Like Ra]

it started for me at the nice young age of 11 yo and when i did it i would tie and gag myself in my bedroom closet or in the extra bedroom.When i would tie myself up,i would od it at night as well to see how long i could go before having to untie myself.

You know??? I didn't realize until I saw this question when it REALLY started...

This is what I thought until this post
I thought, last year when I was tied for a short bit and after that off and on its been nagging at me. Wasn't until last month I got into demos and this week started getting my stuff for bondage. I'm gradually going to build my bondage toys and skill set. I stuck on self bondage after coming to terms with having someone else trusted consistently to enjoy having this with isn't something I can or should depend on right now.

Once I saw this post I realized
starting back in approx 2nd grade... i have mental memories of using belts, hoodies, and as I got older bras, stockings, and scrunchies for my ankles and wrists (which the silk ones aren't a bad idea now a days too)
I guess I had blocked it out for some reason...

Now I feel like a freak "runs out of thread"

For me I can't remember an exact point, but I remember being 10 or 11 watching a movie that contained bondage scenes and getting very turned on about it.

Then in my teens I took the cables from my master system and my school ties to tie my legs and wrap around my upper arms... I remember tying myself underneath my bed one night late and getting stuck... It took me a fair few hours to get out. Parents were sleeping next door.

Then I discovered masturbation and all my self bondage orientated around that...

[Like Ra]

For me it started when I was pretty young.I used to hang out in a pawnshop cause the man would let me play the guitars.I spotted the handcuffs one day in the glass case and I bought a set.I used to cuff myself to everything lol.

don't know how young I was, just that I was young enough that I didn't know how to tie knots yet, so I just sort of twisted the ends of the rope together and pretended it was tied.

When I was in early elementary school I would tape my wrists together and my mouth closed. I also wrapped myself up in blankets (still do it now!) and tie my hands to my bedposts with a skipping rope. I didn't think of it as self-bondage. I just liked being restrained.

I started when I was 5 or 6. Watching Lost in Space, one of girls were rolled up in a blanket or carpet. I had to try it too. Felt strange but good. Shortly after gained an increased interest in watching ladies/girls in cartoons, TV Shows, movies, tied up and kidnapped, ending with rescue of the Lady in distress. Later in my late teens loved masterbation & being self gagged. When I saw my 1st bondage mag I was relieved my desires were normal. Somewhere I developed a fetish for pantyhose & stockings. I bought BD mags when I could. I wanted to know how the BD models felt began full Selfbondage. Later began Cross Dressing, Pantyhose encasement. Now older over weight, married with children my fetish of pantyhose bondage, selfbondage have been put on a top shelf. In a few months My youngest son goes to college, working out, also separating from my wife. It looks like old fantasies & desires will return, now in the age of the web. 😊

[Like Ra]

Likewise, very early...

My first memory I think I was 6 or 7 when I got in trouble for breaking my sister's bead necklace...I had wrapped it around my wrists, and wanted to feel it tighter, when it snapped the beads went everywhere.

At 8-or so, I ruined two or three belts with my struggles too. I either bent the buckle or damaged the metal eyelets. I remember my Dad asking how I had managed to bend the buckle, and somehow I convinced him it was tackling/wrestling games at school. He busted me, probably a year later, and I think he had a lightbulb moment.

At about 11 my Dad built me an enormous loft bed. Like a bunk bed, but without the lower bunk. It was so big adults could walk under it. It was overly sturdy. He bolted it to the wall and it had 8" x 4" legs and framing. It had an uber-sturdy guardrail and balustrades . It had soooo many anchor points....
(I often wonder if my Dad was kinky...that bed was sooo pervertable. And when I look at his workbenches and shelving - he either always built things way over the top, or with a secondary purpose in mind. )
My favourite tie was to use every belt/sash cord/robe belt I could find, and starting at my ankles tie myself to one of the legs. I would finish with a slip knot from the balustrade for my hands, above my head.

All this before I even knew what sex was... I just knew I like the feelings.

I probably started when I was around 8 years old. Just tying myself up with pieces of rope.

It has gotten a bit more advanced now 😊

I was a favorite "predicament bondage" victim in my neighborhood. Lol I started self-binding at 5 or 6.

I started on my own around 11. Suffocating and choking myself (especially under water), tying my hands or ankles to sleep (still do this or pin them under my knees or pillow), and I've always loved wearing choker necklaces (though my dad always hated them) and tight corset like tops (the tighter the better). Considering I was also a huge tomboy a majority of my friends were male and I was a favorite for being tied to trees and such and left behind for periods of time. Those were fun times, lol.

[Like Ra]

And now something different:

I was 14 when I started and it did not go well

well if you want to get technical i grew up in bondage. My grandparents raised me under devout roman catholic law which pretty much kept me in chains and a cage since the moment i could walk. Roughly age 3-12 before dad finally came to get me and my brother. Most would say its illegal but not under devout law. Girls must be kept under lock and key and raised to be submissive until they are married off at age 16. In my case I was born male but deliberately raised female by moms parents to get even with dad marrying a protestant. Grandparents that raised me were protestant but raised me under devout law. After getting away from that mess I have never een able to get rid of the memories so to keep myself under control i lock myself up often, sometimes for weeks or months at a time. I live with severe agoraphobia and can stay in my apartment record so far is 14 months without going outside. Still the chains bring me great comfort too and I would never give them up

[Culmor]

As it's all been a bit quiet here lately why not post pics of the three biggest  influences on your pervery in your formative years? I'll start...

Julie Newmar.

   

Lyn Marshall.

   

Danny la Rue.

   

[Like Ra]

Interesting... I was thinking about that when I wrote this comment: https://www.likera.com/forum/mybb/Thread...0#pid21970 I can't think of any... I do not remember anything extremely erotic on the TV, except figure skating, swimming, gymnastics, and (later) aerobics. And various films for kids with übersexy teengirls (sometimes even bound!!!). When I was a kid, adult women were of little interest 😁

[ltxrob]

For me it has to be finding a 'dirty mag' in a building site as a teenager. It wasn't just a glamour magazine though. It was a specialist bondage/Bdsm one with actually lots of drawings of restrained ladies in leather straps and garments.

[Like Ra]

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[sweetrubber]

I remember that when I was around 9-10 when I started to bind myself. The television program "Zorro" always excited me and I liked to wear a mask and tights. I can also recall that I was too embarrassed to buy tights so I had to steal them (I grew up in Los Angeles in the 50s.)