Self-bondage, fetish and children. How and when did it begin?

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"When I was younger, maybe late elementary - early middle school, I played around with self bondage. I knew I liked it, but didn't really understand why I liked it. "

"I found out I was into wetlook when I was a little kid and saw a movie where someone fell into a body of water fully clothed. I realized I was into it when I found out the term "wetlook". "

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"On this I’m not sure where to begin, though I can guess it began when I was four or five years old. As young child I would dress up as my favorite superhero, be it Superman, Spider-Man or Batman (Back then he wore the classic blue and grey). I would put on t shirt of the corresponding hero and become them. Somewhere along the way I decided I need the whole outfit. And decided that get that I’d need tights and undies to match.

Enter what was at first I guess panty and tight raiding my siblings stuff as well as my mothers. I had 3 sisters who lived with me at this time. Course I may have asked I can’t right recall. Though I do know how everyone thought it was cute and never batted an eye. And my sisters even going so far to just give me the stuff for me to play in. If I was 4 that made them, 10, 11 and 14 respectively. My parent never said a word about it. Guess it kept me out of her hair. As I’d run around the house and yard being whatever superhero I was. Of course I liked the way the tights and panties felt on me even back then. And I liked the attention I would get from company that came over and from my siblings on how cute it was.

It was also during this time I guess I found my love of bondage, as more often than not a superhero will get captured by the villain. Even imaginary villains. So I would bind myself with whatever was handy from clothes line to chain etc. This went on for quite a while I think I was perhaps in 1st or 2 nd grade when My parent try to put a stop to it . With the whole little boys shouldn’t dress that way etc. By then it was a bit too late.

All it did was make me hide my dressing up , which increased my pleasure from it I suppose of doing something I wasn’t supposed to be doing. The older I got the more I played my games. As time passed I began to try and get any friends I had at the time boy or girl to bind me. I would steer games of cops and robbers toward me being bound. Purposely being caught so that I could be taken prisoner.

Thanks to finding some adult magazines around the age of 10, I learned of bdsm and self-bondage. And I knew then that was me. Of course it was images of women bound and dominated. But I knew that’s how I wanted to be. By this time my siblings had all moved out of the house for one reason or another. So it became easy for me to play my games.

It was also around this time that trips to the public library had me looking up the names from the magazines like DeSade and von Sacher-Masoch. Of course I didn’t find much but I did find some, I’d look up the terms like Bondage, Discipline etc. occasionally finding a reference to BDSM and sex.

By middle school I knew fully all I needed thanks to adult magazines, shows like Real Sex, and Sex Bytes on HBO and the occasional stumbled across porn film. And even then I would play in secret or play with friends who thought it funny etc. I’d make bets or steer games of truth and dare towards my kinky interests. I was even at times wearing lingerie to school back then under my clothes for the secret thrill of it.

By High school I knew I was submissive male, and at times found the courage to tell girls I would date this. Some of course were intrigued and some well not so much to say the least. Sure being honest like that caused it problems but that’s a whole different post."

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"For me, it was Raiders of the Lost Ark. Seeing the scenes of Marion bound and gagged sparked my interest in women being tied and gagged."

" Cartoons certainly helped, especially Ninja Turtles, but I can't point to one single incident and say that sparked the interest. I played some games when I was a kid that involved capturing although tying up was pretty rare."

"ninja turtles for me as well, the first episode where april is basically mummified with rope to a chair and gagged is probably my first real experience seeing it and liking it."

"being tied up after losing a card game when I was in high school."

"With me, it had to be watching TV shows, as a young kid, like "Fury", "The Rifleman", etc. And, along about the same time, having a large neighbor family across the street. The older brothers would come over to our front lawn, and play some friendly, brotherly, tie-up/escape games with their younger brothers. I would watch, in wide-eyed fascination, their trying to escape from their "predicament." Little did I realize then, that they were having "tie-up games."

"For me it was my cousins, one who wanted to be a cop, and we played tons of games of cops and robbers, so it didn't take long for that to grow into capturing a prisoner and keeping him tied or cuffed. I just loved that game, and that was that."

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That means I am your grandpa.

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Those are not my personal stories, but copied from various sites on the Internet 😉

When I was a kid there were no mobile phones, let alone the Internet 😁

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Well, it's getting more interesting 😁 Anyway, more personal stories:

"I think i was between 6-10y old, and a friend of me had a really nice soft nylon down jacket. We played catch with the jacket at school (throw to eachother, i just loved it). And i got several dreams about the jacket where we get tied up every day. A few examples:

- We were tied up back to back to a chair in a huge bucket with slime, i was naked, he in his jacket, i loved to feel his jacket on my back we were trying to get free. tied to a chair on a elevated platform and the slime was raising.

- I was sleeping while he had hundreds of the same jacket, he zipped them all together and wrapped them all tightly around my bed, so i was stuck and covered in jackets.

I had dreams like this almost every time.

Some other stuff:

- There was a jacket monster living below my house, it grew bigger by feeding himself on jackets, and it was hunting me. The monster looked a bit like a squid and it would squeeze me in his soft nylon jacket tentacles while it was swallowing me.

- I also dreamed about being wrapped up in a sticky slimy carpet, don't have anything with carpets. I think it was just about being unable to escape."

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"I guess it was when I was around seven or eight, when one of my neighbors, about a month older, asked me to tie him up. He got out, then said it was his turn, so I let him tie me. We both thought it was kind of fun, so we tried it out on some of our other friends from cub scouts. I played various forms of TUG's until I was around 15-16, then my interest dropped off, when I started to take an interest in those of the female persuasion."

"Daphne from Scooby Doo. Also played some TUGs as a kid. Fun times."

"April O'Neil from the Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles cartoon from the 80s and 90s. Things really started to click once I learned bondage was a thing."

"I discovered it when, after numerous previous times being tied up by my older brother, I realized that I was enjoying the attention."

"I remember playing cops and robbers as a kid and I was always a robber who got caught first all the time and tied to a table or tree which started it but a scene in 24 season 1 got me interested even more so heres a link to the pic I mean
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"I think I've always liked it. I used to get tied up by friends just goofing off, and I know, of course, getting tied by a boyfriend would be really cool, so..."

"I've loved being tied up for as long as I can remember and can't pin down the moment when I thought, 'I'm loving this bondage thing'. Maybe it's something most of us are born to love and compelled to do"

"I think it has just always been a part of me.

I always enjoyed the damsel plots of all the films and stories when I was a kid. It always lead me to daydreams about it. I believe I was the hero who saved the day in the dreams back then though, and not the one with a fondness for the actual damsels and tying them up

I was a bit of a late bloomer in terms of sexual nature. Even when moving towards my teens, I still enjoyed it, tying people up, but again there didn't seem to be anything sexual in it, or at least there wasn't at first. It was just a bit of fun, an entertaining way to annoy the babysitter. Unfortunately, I didn't have a babysitter for long, so when it randomly clicked (Cameron Diaz tied to the tree in The Mask) I was aeady without a babysitter, so there would be no fantasies lived out for a while yet at that point. Obviously nothing would have happened beyond the usual annoyance of the babysitter, but it would have at least given me a few memories and thoughts to go along with the fantasies that rapidly developed as my mind went into overdrive."

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