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Life story
#1
Hello, everyone!

Longtime lycra enthusiast here... my earliest memories in the 60's had me daydreaming about wearing tights that I saw little girls wore. I was always jealous of them. I remember being given a coloring book at a young age with kids in them, and I would ALWAYS color the legs of the girls in tights. I got a crush on a girl in 6th grade primarily because she started wearing pantyhose under her skirts and dresses at school.

As I got older, one of my older brothers was involved in drama when he was in high school, and he was in some production where he had to wear thick black tights with trunks underneath them. When he moved out, he (inexplicably?) left them in his dresser drawer, so of course I took them. They were heavenly and I wore them often to bed. When I finally reached high school, I got involved in drama myself and we put on a production of A Midsummer Night's Dream where many cast members wore tights and leotards as part of their costumes, including guys. Sadly, I didn't get selected for a part and ended up working on the tech side, so of course I was insanely jealous of the guys (but couldn't let anyone know). After the production was done, I did manage to "procure" a set of leotards and tights from the drama dept. storage and take them home. It was my first leotard and I was definitely hooked.

Over the years, I went through the same binge/purge cycle that many of us have. In my 20's, I met a young lady who loved wearing shiny black spandex leggings (this was in the 80's) and of course she caught my eye. As we dated, I decided to purge again because I didn't want her finding my stuff at my apartment. Later, though, we started working out together at my apartment to Jane Fonda videos and the like, and to my delight, she suggested I start wearing a unitard. I acted casual about it, but of course deep inside I was thrilled. I waited awhile and then finally bought one and she loved it on me. We worked out that way for a long time and I slowly added to my collection, but nothing crazy. 

After we married, we continued to work out together and she seemed open to me expanding my collection, but it was still just unitards. One day, we stumbled upon a dancewear shop that was going out of business and they had TONS of dance tights (mostly shiny) on clearance at ridiculously low prices. We bought a huge collection of them, and we agreed to get about half of them in my size, in every color you can think of. It was amazing. When we got home that night, we both wanted to work out in our new tights. I was dressing in the bedroom while she was in the bathroom. I aeady knew that just sheer tights weren't going to be enough and that I was going to need a leotard... so I called out to her through the bathroom door, asking if I could wear one of her leotards over the tights. She said, "sure, whatever you want" and I just about passed out with excitement. I opened her drawer and pulled on a yellow tank-top number. The fit was a bit tight (she's smaller than me) but exquisite. I got hard immediately. She walked out of the bathroom moments later in her leotard and new tights, took one look at me and grinned. She came up to hug and kiss me and told me how she could see I was turned on. She seemed surprisingly happy about it! We did our workout together and made love afterwards. I was then certain I had hit the jackpot with this woman.

Over the course of the next couple years, I bought my own leotards to work out in, and sometimes we'd work out together and sometimes I'd work out alone when she got home from work late. Roller-blading was big back then and we both bought blades and would go skating on nearby hiking/biking trails, and I would typically wear a t-shirt over a unitard. It was about this time that I could tell she was starting to get less enthusiastic about my dressing, but she never complained. Occasionally I would wear them to bed, and I think it was at this point that she knew it was becoming an obsession. Little did she know that it had been an obsession for my entire life and I was just repressing it.

After a few years of marriage, she agreed to sign up for a jazz dance class with me. She knew I wanted to do it specifically because I wanted an excuse to wear lycra in public, but she was willing to do it for me and was supportive. Less than a month later, before the class had started, she got pregnant. She didn't want to take any chances with the baby, so she decided to back out of the class, but was still willing to let me go alone. So I did, typically wearing a t-shirt over a long-sleeved unitard, and that over a thong leotard and tights. Occasionally I would wear a pair of patterned leggings over the solid-colored unitard, back in the day when leggings were not really the "thing" they are today. I think most of the handful of women in the class, including the instructor, suspected something was "up" with me, but they never said anything. One time on a warmer day, I didn't wear a unitard but just a t-shirt over patterned leggings, which were over a thong leotard and tights. Thong leotards were just hitting the scene at this time and few women were wearing them, and none in this class. The one I was wearing was a little small for me, and as we were moving about in class I could tell feel it riding up my sides and crack while my bottom layer of leggings had come down a bit. Of course, this is the one day that the instructor was having trouble seeing if I was moving my torso properly, so she asked me if I was wearing a unitard and could take off my shirt. I just shook my head no. I couldn't do it. She would know I was wearing a thong leotard if I did and even though I knew she suspected something was up with me, that was a bridge too far. Lucky for me, she didn't insist even though I'm sure she could see the outline of the tank leotard straps under my shirt. She had to know I had a unitard or leotard on underneath, even though I shook my head.

Beyond that, I enjoyed the class each week and my wife asked me about what I learned when I came home each week as well... but interestingly didn't ask me about the reactions of any others in the class, even though she knew I was testing boundaries. It whetted my appetite for more, but that wasn't meant to be.

As our kids started popping out, by necessity my passion went into the closet for many years. I still had a "stash" in a secret location that I would take with me on business trips, and this kept me going during the years when our kids were at home. I developed a habit of working out in hotel gyms in lycra, initially starting very gingerly by wearing sweat pants and t-shirts over a unitard on the way to/from the gym, always with a thong leotard/tights underneath for support of my package. When I got there and was alone, I'd take off the sweat pants and just work out with a t-shirt over the unitard. Over time, I'd get more and more daring and I eventually graduated to the point where I would wear thong leotards over unitards -- with nothing else on -- all the way from the hotel room to the gym and back again, knowing that I was on the hotel cameras while doing so and risking crossing with people on the way to/from, which happened a couple times over the years, but of course was part of the allure of it all. With the full-wall mirrors most hotel gyms have, I would work out and enjoy the sights of myself while doing it. It was amazing. I took many hundreds (thousands?) of photos over the years and will need to post some of them here.

I kept wearing more and more daring and colorful outfits, switching them up every time, and I would time my gym visits to be late at night so that I could typically have the gym to myself. On some rare occasions, someone else would come in and I would just keep working out as if nothing was out of the ordinary. Or course, I could see my heart rate spike if I was on a machine monitoring that. What a thrill!!! No one would ever say anything, though I'm sure they were a bit shocked. Since my travels usually took me to the same city over and over, I found a particular hotel that had an ideal setup for me in terms of gym location and hours. The staff there knew what I was doing for sure because the gym had a security camera in it and I had seen the security camera monitor behind the desk. One time, OF COURSE on the day where I decided to wear a hot-pink thong leotard over a pink long-sleeved unitard, the manager walks in to the gym with an employee while talking about this-and-that and goes over to do something with the water dispenser. They said nothing to me, nor I to them, and were only in there for a minute or two, but it seemed pretty clear to me that they just wanted to see this sight in person that they had been seeing on the cameras and perhaps send a message to me that they knew what I was doing, even though I had to aeady know that from the security cameras seeing me. But they never tried to stop me because I never did anything improper -- I just came in for my workout, did it, and went back to my room. I was just clothed VERY unconventionally.

As our kids grew and started moving out, I would wear lycra to bed most evenings. Our kids were trained from a young age not to come into our bedroom when the doors were closed, so it was always safe to do so. AFAIK, they never discovered my fetish. There were certainly never any hints that they had, anyway. 

Eventually, though, it got to where my wife really didn't want me to do it anymore. Even though our love life was still solid, she ultimately told me it was a turn-off for her, even though earlier on she was very supportive. Although she never gave me an ultimatum, she did want me to stop buying and wearing. But I simply could not do that. By that point, it was a very ingrained part of my being. She let me persist, and we are still married, but our love life has died off -- though I think the lycra part of it is not really the reason.

Anyway, I've stayed fit all these years and even though I don't travel on business anymore like I once did, I "discovered" leggings a few years ago, and as someone who hikes as part of his fitness regimen, and still having a pretty fit body at my age, I now wear leggings whenever I hike, almost always in the evenings when the trails are quieter. I happen to think my legs look pretty good in tights, even today. I have a routine of taking pictures of myself in every single outfit I wear while hiking and since my collection is VAST (I have over 2,000 pair of leggings... yes two THOUSAND, not mention hundreds and hundreds of tights, leos, unitards, and zentai), I have accumulated quite an album over the years. I'll show you just one as an intro here. I've posted some more on a different thread, where I made my first post.

So that's my life story, in brief -- lol. I hope you enjoyed it. Nice to meet you all!

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#2
Testing boundaries... Yeah, this is it.... Always...

And welcome!
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#3
(05 Sep 2024, 20:22 )fiftysometing Wrote: Hello, everyone!



So that's my life story, in brief -- lol. I hope you enjoyed it. Nice to meet you all!

Thank you for your story Fifty!

It's beautiful, but I also sense a degree of melancholy. Do you look back with any thoughts of genuine regret or not?

Of course, it's always cool to hear in detail from fellow Lycra enthusiasts.
I'm 46 now, so I can only identify with your story to limited extent. Obviously, I did grew up in the pinnacle Lycra decade that is the 80s, seeing it wind up and sadly die down by mid 90s.

You describe your Lycra infatuation in context of drama class, workout programs etc.
Was a there a sexual aspect to this fascination with Lycra for you from the start or did that only develop once you got to the point of actually wearing it? I'm just asking because based on what you describe, it seems you were past that particular age of the start of sexual awareness in childhood - or not? 

I have to admit, for me...my Lycra obsession was a sexual fascination from the getgo.
It all started with those damn little Speedo's haha! 
I always had the tendency to draw connections/comparisons and to me it was clear that women's swimsuits were made of the exact same fabric as my Speedo's and that women's "satin"  lingerie featured a very similar sheen.
So I concluded, those female garments just had to feel as wonderfully slick as my Speedo's, if not, even better - right? 

However, I didn't "graduate" to women's swimsuits until age 30, when I finally got the courage to buy one.
Furthermore, it wasn't until 2021 that I started with Lycra leggings; purchasing them and actually wearing them in public, a LOT!
Suffice to say, I'm totally hooked on stuff from Leohex, MJINM and Aesco, you know, some of the shiniest, silkiest feeling Lycra garment brands.

Thankfully, my wife is very much okay with all of this. First of all, because she loves me truly, but also because I have always been open and upfront about such things prior to getting married.

But hey, I hope you can still find some solace in your life. The number of Lycra items you have is more than my entire wardrobe LOL. I am also familiar with the word addiction.
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#4
There was always a sexual aspect to it. Sometimes more than others, but it's always at lestly slightly sexual, even if I'm not aroused at all, which is most of the time I'm wearing. When wearing leggings in public now, I feel like it's little different than women doing the same. They know it's a somewhat revealing and sexy look, and although they may not be actively turned on while wearing (just like me when wearing in public), they know it grabs attention and a part of them likes it. Same for me.
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#5
(09 Dec 2024, 19:39 )fiftysometing Wrote: There was always a sexual aspect to it. Sometimes more than others, but it's always at lestly slightly sexual, even if I'm not aroused at all, which is most of the time I'm wearing. When wearing leggings in public now, I feel like it's little different than women doing the same. They know it's a somewhat revealing and sexy look, and although they may not be actively turned on while wearing (just like me when wearing in public), they know it grabs attention and a part of them likes it. Same for me.

Ditto.
I wonder though, with that many pairs of leggings in your collection, do you consciously put effort into styling them in daily outfits? Or is it something that is limited to the nighttime hiking sessions you described? 

I'm just curious because I love to advocate for men making Lycra leggings a real part of their daily wardrobe.
Unfortunately, from what I've seen, most guys don't dare to wear it outside of a sports activity context. 
Also, although I detest gatekeeping, I have to admit that when I see an out-of-shape guy, with a big fat belly, looking shaggy, wearing Lycra, I can not help but cringe - and I think to myself how he's not helping to fight the good fight. And I think it's unfortunate that the general mass public only remembers guys like him, which perpetuates the stigma even further.
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#6
Young good-looking slender self-assured sporty smart guys/gals can wear anything and will be praised for that.
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#7
(10 Dec 2024, 06:47 )MIWSTIUS Wrote:
(09 Dec 2024, 19:39 )fiftysometing Wrote: There was always a sexual aspect to it. Sometimes more than others, but it's always at lestly slightly sexual, even if I'm not aroused at all, which is most of the time I'm wearing. When wearing leggings in public now, I feel like it's little different than women doing the same. They know it's a somewhat revealing and sexy look, and although they may not be actively turned on while wearing (just like me when wearing in public), they know it grabs attention and a part of them likes it. Same for me.

Ditto.
I wonder though, with that many pairs of leggings in your collection, do you consciously put effort into styling them in daily outfits? Or is it something that is limited to the nighttime hiking sessions you described? 

I'm just curious because I love to advocate for men making Lycra leggings a real part of their daily wardrobe.
Unfortunately, from what I've seen, most guys don't dare to wear it outside of a sports activity context. 
Also, although I detest gatekeeping, I have to admit that when I see an out-of-shape guy, with a big fat belly, looking shaggy, wearing Lycra, I can not help but cringe - and I think to myself how he's not helping to fight the good fight. And I think it's unfortunate that the general mass public only remembers guys like him, which perpetuates the stigma even further.

I am in good shape, especially for my age. My legs are my best asset. Although I don't have a *flat* tummy, the small paunch I do have is not really noticable under a pair of leggings, especially with a shirt over the top. I think this is a pretty good look...

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I do agree with you that you have to have the body for it. I wore this particular outfit on a long day hike last week a couple hundred miles from home and probably crossed with two dozen people. I've never done a *daytime* hike in leggings this edgy. For my rare daytime hikes in leggings, my choices are usually very conservative. But I felt a wave of boldness the night before and decided right then that I would push the envelope. None of the other hikers I encountered said anything and -- amazingly -- I didn't even notice any strange side-glances, when I usually will catch a few of those even with relatively conservative leggings on. I chatted with a number of people on the trail. They all talked with me as if what I was wearing was completely normal. I think you just really need to OWN it and people don't care. But it's still hard to do. Yet every time I go out and have an experience like last week, it gives me more boldness.

My enormous collection is mostly because I got extremely OCD in buying a couple years ago when I had more free cash than normal, and I went on a long, sustained Amazon binge. I don't recommend that. 😊 Looking back over that 2-years-plus, I spent a LOT of money and if my wife knew (I manage our finances), she would NOT be happy with me. Fortunately, we're still in good shape financially and my investments have done well, so it hasn't affected our lifestyle other than that I would have been far better off investing that money instead of spending it.

I'm going to have to figure out how to sell off much of my collection. It's way too much, obviously. Most items only worn once.
 
I have not even worn every pair of leggings I've bought. I try to wear 1-2 pair per day (one to bed, another during the day, and if I go hiking, either keep that one on or switch to another pair) so that I can actually wear each one I've bought at least once. I don't really wear in public except when hiking, at least not close to home. I'm a bit more daring when I'm on road trips, but even so, still pretty cautious.
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(10 Dec 2024, 20:13 )fiftysometing Wrote: Yet every time I go out and have an experience like last week, it gives me more boldness

Honestly,, I would say: DO IT. Make the leggings happen in daytime public space.

I started wearing leggings since 2021 at age 43 and I have come to realize that I regret not having started it earlier.
Sure, you do need to be considerate of your social environment, but do you really want to have such a regret on your deathbed? 

I sure don't. 
None of us is getting any younger and in recent years I've seen plenty people around me pass away with opportunities untouched.

You can see a sample of some of my leggings outfits in the pictures below. My wife and I go out like that in public mega-busy shopping malls, all sorts of restaurants, all sorts of grocery stores, day trips and to friends & family.

And as you can see, I don't really settle for compromises; it's ultra shiny Lycra leggings or bust. 
Of course, I am fully aware there is a time and place for everything, so I do the sensible thing and wear appropriate attire to any formal event. 
Because, if you start to push yourself forward into public daytime space with leggings, you will notice that you will also get better at figuring out what kind of leggings outfit styling works for you and what doesn't. Do it, even if you think you a1ready know what works best, you will most likely discover that you didn't know, once you try to push further. Styling leggings doesn't need to be shrouded in nighttime or in sports activities as excuses.

I mean, I have roughly 40 to 50 pairs of leggings and even with that, ahhum, "limited" number, I would think of it as wasted money NOT to use them (or barely). It just doesn't make rational sense. 
It also pushes and motivates you to try and look your best, to give that physical exercise a proper purpose & goal.

Look, there's always going to be someone out there with a negative opinion or feedback. That's just a fact of life. 
If we would let negative opinions dictate our choices, nobody would get anything done, right? 
My wife, our friends and family all understand that too and so we all see eye to eye about this, to not let any potential stigma prevent me from wearing these leggings in public in a decent manner, appropriate to our social environment. 

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And this I how I styled before discovering leggings. I wore nothing but baggy pants for 15 to 20 years (mid 90s until 2021).
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(11 Dec 2024, 15:20 )MIWSTIUS Wrote:
(10 Dec 2024, 20:13 )fiftysometing Wrote: Yet every time I go out and have an experience like last week, it gives me more boldness

Honestly,, I would say: DO IT. Make the leggings happen in daytime public space.

. . .
My wife, our friends and family all understand that too and so we all see eye to eye about this, to not let any potential stigma prevent me from wearing these leggings in public in a decent manner, appropriate to our social environment. 

Remember, my wife is not supportive anymore, and hasn't been for a LONG time. That changes the equation considerably. She would be embarrassed by me if I wore in public with her alongside. I'm not going to do that to her. 

No doubt it is easier for you to do when you have a supportive partner alongside you. I don't. It is only in the past year or so that my wife has gotten used to me coming in home in leggings after hiking or after a long road trip (she knows I'll wear leggings when driving on long trips by myself) and not bug me about it. But I still get side-glances from her. I wore that same pair that you see in my photos when I got home, and although she didn't say anything, I knew she didn't like it. I think I've pushed the envelope as far as I can, considering my life circumstances.

Yeah, life is short, but there's so much more to life, anyway. Plenty of other things to enjoy in life. We can't always get what we want. I'll find ways to enjoy leggings as much as possible, and I've resigned myself to that being enough.
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(11 Dec 2024, 16:49 )fiftysometing Wrote:
(11 Dec 2024, 15:20 )MIWSTIUS Wrote:
(10 Dec 2024, 20:13 )fiftysometing Wrote: Yet every time I go out and have an experience like last week, it gives me more boldness

Honestly,, I would say: DO IT. Make the leggings happen in daytime public space.

. . .
My wife, our friends and family all understand that too and so we all see eye to eye about this, to not let any potential stigma prevent me from wearing these leggings in public in a decent manner, appropriate to our social environment. 

Remember, my wife is not supportive anymore, and hasn't been for a LONG time. That changes the equation considerably. She would be embarrassed by me if I wore in public with her alongside. I'm not going to do that to her. 

No doubt it is easier for you to do when you have a supportive partner alongside you. I don't. It is only in the past year or so that my wife has gotten used to me coming in home in leggings after hiking or after a long road trip (she knows I'll wear leggings when driving on long trips by myself) and not bug me about it. But I still get side-glances from her. I wore that same pair that you see in my photos when I got home, and although she didn't say anything, I knew she didn't like it. I think I've pushed the envelope as far as I can, considering my life circumstances.

Yeah, life is short, but there's so much more to life, anyway. Plenty of other things to enjoy in life. We can't always get what we want. I'll find ways to enjoy leggings as much as possible, and I've resigned myself to that being enough.
If you have true peace with what you have, then that's okay.

But I'll  let you in on a little secret; 
It's not as if my wife was thrilled with the idea of it either on the day I mentioned wearing leggings.
I'm from Europe, but I migrated to Southeast Asia after marrying her there. 
General consensus is that West Europe is way more socially progressive, while this Asian country still compares as conservative.

In fact, my wife initially told me "Don't wear that please, if my mother will ever see you like that, she'd be horrified". 
And yet here we are, at a point where my mother-in-law has even fixed some of my leggings' seam rips (she used to be a professional seamstress).
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