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No kids, but want kids. Just never been any good at attracting women. I'm 38M.
(This post was last modified: 14 Aug 2024, 12:11 by Like Ra.)
I’m pushing 70.
I would love to have a girl/gall/granny, but I have skeletons and secrets. Any will turn off about 90% of all women.
Pushed past 70 recently. 

Married (still) 47 years with two sons - who are both excellent fathers.  8 grandchildren.  6 boys, 2 girls.  Ages 4 mos - 22 years.

We're basically a decent person with many of the off-putting behaviors the vast majority of people would be shamed to admit but that's not the sum total of who we, or you, are!
Nope, was married & I like kids, but my family must have some rabbit DNA in its ancestry... much of my family has been rather overly productive. So have abstained from adding to the current 8,171,473,726+ & growing world population 🤷🏻‍♀️
46 year old here.
Second marriage, no kids and not intent to have children either.

Actually, I am happy in my 2nd marriage. Both wives are aware and okay with my fetishes and I don't think I would hide
these fetishes if we would have kids.

But my reason to not have kids has to do with my world view and how my own life fits in it.
Imo it's all about "Personal sphere of influence", trying to learn from the past 150 years and trying to look 150 years ahead; This is imo the average bell curve of an individual's influence on the world. Beyond that 300 years span, it tapers off sharply.

I respect life enough to give it my full best and putting in my effort for a better world within my own life time - but looking at the present and the past, trying to extrapolate 150 years ahead, I just don't see the point of putting my offspring into this kind of world.
My wife isn't eager to have kids either. In fact, when it comes to the superficial aspects of it, she dreads the thought of diaper duties aeady.
(This post was last modified: 19 Aug 2024, 16:38 by MIWSTIUS.)
I am 40yo, No kids, nobody exactly knows where's the problem. Me and wife went to artificial insemination too, but no luck. After about a week, she lost it....
On the other side, life without kids is much easier, and I can live my kinks when she is at work. She's working shifts, so I can have free time for myself, home alone.
We had some kids from our family members to sleepover at our apartment, and it was serious disturbance of our calm life 😊 But we enjoyed it, and they liked it too.
(This post was last modified: 21 Aug 2024, 17:55 by Like Ra.)

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