Chastity The good! & The bad!

[Like Ra]

it wasn't in the dedicated chastity thread.... 

??? It was and it is 😉

[madjack]

it wasn't in the dedicated chastity thread.... 

??? It was and it is 😉

Oh dear! It goes from bad to worse!!!



I'm beginning to think tightening the corset cuts off the blood supply to where my brain is..... if you get my drift!  😁 

MJ

[Like Ra]

Our Chinese friends do listen! Remember this chastity cage with electric shock Here's a new, modified and upgraded version of the EMS cage: chastity cage with electric shock v2

Now the contacts are placed correctly!

[madjack]

A long threatened post, finally... err... posted!

Chastity a late discovery and making up for lost time

As I've written elsewhere I came to chastity very late in my fetish journey. In fact, up until that point I'd been bemused by the very idea of chastity. I mean, why? Why would a man lock themselves away from sexual pleasure, preventing even arousal? Even more so, why would they willingly let someone else metaphorically and literally hold the key to their sexual release (by which I always mean orgasm)?

However, some time in the late 2010's, curiosity got the better of me and I decided to see what all the fuss was about. Now, my first purchase was made more in line with my original thinking of 'why deny arousal' and what I brought, even though called a 'chastity cage' was more about preventing orgasm than arousal. 

My logic with this first purchase was sound (at least to me) in that the device would let me become erect, but prevent or at least hamper me reaching orgasm. At this point I should state a number of things, which hold true (mostly) to the rest of my tale:

1. I would be playing solo, self-bondage being my game. I did not and have not shared any chastity ideas with my GF, mainly due to her cooling attitude to anything kinky.
   
   
2. I found it very easy to orgasm in self-bondage, after which I would lose all interest. Delaying orgasm would be an ideal outcome
   
   
3. Sexual arousal was still essential to my enjoyment, and in my mind this equated to having an erection. So the logic was very simple:
   erect cock + unable to orgasm = perfect scenario
   

OK, back to my first purchase what was this:

       

If you're not familiar with this model it comes in 3 parts; two lockable straps and the 'rings' section. You (or at least I) lock one strap around the base of your cock and the other around the base of your ball sack, then the rings part is slid down over your cock and locked to the other two straps. Hopefully this is clearer in the mages than my descriptions!

Pros: I found it sexy to wear (because I quite like having my ball sack bound and stretched a little). I help maintain an erection, or it does for me, by trapping an erect cock in the rings. It is very difficult to cum wearing it.

Cons: Very fiddly to put on. Can't easily be hidden under normal clothing if you wanted to wear secretly in public. Heavy. Not ideal for long term wearing.

After enjoying that chastity device for a few years I got more curious about the idea of preventing an erection and so tentatively risked a few pounds sterling on a ghastly plastic CB6000! Yes, yes, I know! But in my defence, I still didn't know if denying myself an erection was going to be something I would like to introduce to my life or not, so a cheap and cheerful chastity cage was a way of 'dipping my toe in the water' (locking my cock in the cage?) to find out.

Welcome the two plastic cages, along with the well documented (and occasionally painful) reasons why they really should be avoided!

           

One clear, one black, and both broke!

You all know how to get into these (I hope) so let me get on with the results

Pros: I enjoyed being denied an erection! This was utterly unexpected, but extremely pleasant, as I found that I could get turned on just as before, but without a stonking great ramrod (in my mind😁) poking out of my crotch! This meant I could play all my self-bondage games, but not easily cum (we'll come back to that later). With a little care, I could wear the cage in public and there wasn't any obvious clues of what I was doing (at least I hope not!). For little cost they introduced me to the next level of chastity, for which I'll be for ever thankful. 

Cons: They're cheap, they break, they're utter tat and, with the benefit of hindsight, I shouldn't have wasted the small amount of money I did and, instead, brought a 'proper' cage straight away (but see Pros too). Also, when they do break they can be very painful! 

Oh dear me, now I was on a 'Chastity Crusade' and I probably did what many before me have done, searching high and low for new designs and seeking something super special to feed my need!

I brought steel models (no way these should break) in a couple of designs, both mimicking the classic chastity cage shape

       

I should point out that I love wearing a stocking underneath the cage, both for the feel and to catch any 'leakage' (which would be creatively used latter on...  )

Pros: Locking on a steel cage was a serious thrill, as there is no way you wouldn't know it was around your cock, with the weight a constant reminder that you're locked away behind bars. I could include the cage in some of my self-bondage play - using cords and occasionally weights to add a new element to a position.

Cons: the styles I'd selected were bulky and less easy to disguise under 'normal' clothing when I wanted to wear them out of the safety of my house. The metal frame was noisy when using a padlock to close it (I discovered the trick of muffling this with a stocking). Long term wearing was challenging as, for me, the fit wasn't great and the weight could pull everything into uncomfortable positions. Off all my cages the metal ones felt less 'constraining' - which may well be down to my choice of size and style as much as anything else.

My next purchase was inspired by postings in this thread and was a step up, as I was moving away from the 'padlock' style of cage locks, and using an 'integrated' lock type, with the barrel being part of the cage structure. I chose the 'Cobra' model and started of with a 'snug' size, but loved it so much I very quickly progressed through 'tight' to 'micro' 

                   

Pros: By far and away the best cages I've worn so far. When I get them on properly (see 'Cons') they are very comfortable and I can wear them for long periods, including sleeping in them (waking in the morning and slowly realising your cock is locked away in cage - that is an experience the first time it happens!). Having a variety of sizes that all fit on the same base ring allows me to 'build' up my chastity experience, slowly (or less slowly if the mood takes me) going tighter and smaller. The sizes also give me options in how I experience my chastity with 'snug' allowing for a partial feeling of erection, but 'micro' preventing all must the tiniest sensation of growing inside the cage. I love, LOVE, the integrated locking mechanism - it somehow feels more 'restrictive' and has a much better aesthetic, at least to me.  

Cons: I find the solid ring type much more difficult to get on than the split type, though this does avoid any 'pinching' (been there, ouch! Seriously ouch!). Some report breakages with this style too, though I've not (yet) had any issues myself.  I worry, a little, about the locks failing when I'm wearing this cage - much more difficult to remove than a padlock and will probably ruin the cage (a small price to pay compared to the alternatives!). 

One more type that I couldn't resist purchasing was the all encompassing 'clamshell' style. I'm afraid I reverted to cheap plastic again for this one (no lessons learnt from the CB6000 then!) , but in my defence it was another case of wanting to dip a toe in the water, before deciding if I wanted to commit to anything more serious and expensive.

       

You'll note I'm still wearing the stocking underneath - I actually found this helped with fitting (makes everything easier to slide into place) but made me sweat a little in the 'clamshell' 

Pros: When worn correctly (see Cons) this is very effective and seriously reduces the amount of stimulation you can achieve. I love the 'completeness' of this style of chastity device i.e. everything is locked away, not just my cock. Another cage with the integrated lock, which is much neater and nicer to look at.

Cons: Very awkward for me to get into, but getting easier with practice. Requires very careful fitting, or else you'll quickly regret it! The device doesn't quite squeeze my balls, but it leaves very little room and the slightest shift when wearing can be very uncomfortable indeed. Again, practice has, for the most part, addressed this, but there are still days when I quickly give up and change to another cage. Long term wear, i.e. for more then half a day or so, has so far been impossible. Covert wearing is nearly impossible as the thing is quite bulky and always feels like it's hanging between my legs like some medieval codpiece under my trousers - in my mind it's also flashing red with a claxon sounding! Look at me I'm a pervert in chastity! (Though this may just be my paranoia at play!)

And the future?

I'm actively looking at even smaller cages, seeing how far I can push myself. I'm not quite at 'flat' yet and probably unlikely to make it to 'inverted', but never say never. I'm also intrigued by the Fu-Fu (fufu?) clip despite reading the sometimes negative comments, and acknowledging that it isn't a real chastity device, more of a tucking tool, but it's an itch I probably need to scratch. 

Am I into enforced chastity, with someone else holding the key? I'm not sure. I certainly find the idea of being in chastity as part of a 'session' very erotic, especially when this would make me last longer (a lot longer) before cuming - that holds a deep thrill to me. But I'm much less certain about the type of chastity others on this forum take part in, with a true 'key-holder' and weeks if not months of enforced cage wearing - I really don't think it's for me.

However, having typed all of that, I must confess that I'm wearing my 'snug' cobra cage right now and it's been locked on (with no cheating) for nearly 36hrs so far and I'm determined to get to at least 48hrs before removing it. I've fingered out the best approach to using the toilet without making a mess (don't ask!) and with the occasional addition of body lotion everything seems fine down there. 

So there you go, another peek into the world of MJ and little 'foibles' .

I guess it goes without saying that your mileage may differ and what I like or don't could be the reverse for you.  As my experiences grown (unlike my caged cock!) I may post further updates.

Enjoy, even if you can't cum.

MJ

[Like Ra]

... and besides ... I love your writing style ... 😋

[madjack]

Well here's a thing! A complete surprise, in a good way, I think!

As I said in my previous post I was undertaking my first 'proper' medium-term chastity experience, with an ambition to reach 48hrs of real locked up chastity.

I did it, actually reaching 53hrs in my before I decided to unlock myself and check if everything was Ok - which it was.  😁

I amazed myself by managing, what for me was, a very long period on continuous cage wearing, though I know some of you go much, much longer and you have my utter admiration. 

I can now sleep, quite easily, in chastity and that's been a major development in my journey.

But what really, really, surprised me was what happened after I took off my cage and conducted my 'health-check' - almost without thinking or consciously considering it, I reached out, selected my 'micro' cage and locked everything back up again!

It was so strange - one moment relieved that my cage was finally off and my cock hadn't withered away, the next squeezing it into an even smaller space and locking myself back up again!

Is this normal? 

Am I experiencing some kind of epiphany regarding chastity?

Has @Like Ra somehow hypnotised me and is planting subtle instructions deep into my subconscious?

My plans had been to indulge in some chastity free play this afternoon, but now...????

Watch this space for more!

MJ

Ps. In that earlier post I said I was wearing my 'Snug' cage as I was writing, that was incorrect, I discovered I was actually wearing my 'tight' cage for the whole time...

[Like Ra]

Has @Like Ra somehow hypnotised me and is planting subtle instructions deep into my subconscious?

Interesting, the behaviour you described does correspond to how hypnosis and brainwashing work. You do something without thinking, automatically, sometimes to your great surprise. And sometimes you feel and understand, that this is what you must do, and you can not do anything else.

Also, this is how egregors work. If you are deeply "in the mood", you might be deeply connected to an egregor, which drives your behaviour, hints you on what to do and how to do things, rules your body, steers your feelings.

And most likely, this is exactly what happened. As you are at the top of the egregor.

[jadefortyfour]

Is this normal?

Perfectly normal.

Am I experiencing some kind of epiphany regarding chastity?

It's pretty insidious. If you wish to be horny all day long with every extended sensual imagining triggering a reminder that you can't even get erect and that fact amplifying and feeding back into the reality of your submissive nature then, yeah, it just gets more and more intense.

Considering that we've gone months at a time being locked (with the sensible practice of removal for washing daily) we're now feeling naked and insecure without a cage on.

Having spent lots of dollars on various cages, of both custom and commodity mass production, we've settled on the printed or bio-resin cast devices. We've become accustomed to the v4, v5 'holt trainer' Nub length which, when properly fitted, does not interfere with normal activities and certainly doesn't show when dressed for work.

The printed variety meets the lightness test of staying relatively 'where you put it' as opposed to heavier devices which tend to slide down and put you in risk of some sort of pinching jeopardy.

If you like the experience, keep at it, take breaks if you need them. For us orgasms are now seen as a loss of essential energy that makes one aware of one's entire organism rather than sleepily and mechanically plodding through the routines of the daily grind while imagining what you'll do when you have the 'spare time'.

[madjack]

Well, my new cage has arrived and it's small, very small. 



But, to be fair this is exactly what I wanted and why I brought it - so read on...

Behold the  NEW Snake V7.0 EVO 3D Cobra Cage Mamba Male Chastity Device Double-Arc Cuff Ring 

                 

I've purchased the XS size and it's posed next to my Cobra 'Micro' which was my smallest cage, until now! 

Hopefully this will give you an idea of the challenge I'd set myself. 

Same built quality as my other Cobra type cages, which is fine and I've had no problems with the resin 3d printing.

The 'Double-arc cuff ring' is interesting, it's harder to get on and stretches your balls a little further (well, it did to mine!), and it feels different to what I've grown used to with the Cobra (note: I've got 2 styles of ring with the Cobra, one is simple and flat, the other curved and shaped - I prefer the later).

The connection of the cage to the ring is also slightly different to that of the Cobra, which means I can't interchange the parts. 

And the fit of cage to ring is very, very snug! On the cage there are two lugs that fit into sockets on the ring, and the central 'eye' that slides between two other parts of the ring so that the locking barrel passes through all three. 

The fit was so snug that I spent a long time pushing cage and ring together and pulling apart, just to ease them slightly. I had images of them becoming physically wedged together or, worse, welded together! I even left them fixed in the sun for an hour to check they really would come apart!

To be honest I was rather nervous!

But of course I had to try it on!

       

Yup! It's tight, much tighter than the 'Micro', but it went on (with a bit of struggle to fit the ring) and the locking mechanism worked fine (and yes, I did test, test again, and again, and...).

It felt very different and I managed to wear it for around an hour without anything other than a tight feeling - well duh!  

Ahhh and the taking off? Yes, that was a battle! I did think about using the finest of fine emery to trim a little off the lugs, but decided against it. And there is a thrill in the sudden feeling that your cage is welded closed on your cock!

Do I like it? - Yes, oh YES!

Will I wear it more often? - Maybe, it depends on how my trial sessions with it work out, but I will definitely be wearing it on special occasions!

Would I try the XXS small version? - Hmmmm, not right now. If I did get one I'd want it in black and they're sold out!  

But..................................


Enjoy

MJ

[Like Ra]

Would I try the XXS small version?

You are on the right path: https://www.likera.com/forum/mybb/Thread...0#pid68020 😉