Chastity The good! & The bad!

[Vixien]

I'm trying to make cages inescapable. At least for a couple of days.

You're probably using the wrong cages.

Any suggestions ?

[Like Ra]

You're probably using the wrong cages.

Any suggestions ?

Indeed? Latowsky? 😉

[Vixien]

You're probably using the wrong cages.

Any suggestions ?

Indeed? Latowsky? 😉

Beside that.

[Like Ra]

Ah... another cognitive bias... I thought it's a common problem, not just for growers:

I have trouble finding the right chastity cage size.

When erect, my penis is usually about 17cm (6.7 in) long. When flaccid, it varies a lot. Usually it sits at about 8 cm (3.1 in), but when not aroused at all, it can shrink to about less than 4 cm (1.5 in). It loses a lot of girths too.

I've been trying different plastic cages, which are about 9 cm long (3.89 in) and have an inside diameter of about 3,3 cm (1.3 in). When not aroused, my penis barely touches the inside walls of the cage and also the ring can slide forward a bit.

The big problem is, that when I get aroused, the chastity cage slides forward together with the ring, before my penis is fully erect. This leads to a lot of swelling between the ring and my body. It almost feels like half of my penis is erect, while the front is still confined in the cage. My balls get dragged out a lot and it hurts.

What I would like to know is which size should I try next? Shall I go with a smaller cage, so my penis cannot get erect at all? Or should I try an even bigger cage, so my penis has more space to grow into, so that the ring doesn't slide forward with the cage. I do not want to try some sort of piercing and personally would prefer a smaller cage.

I would love a cage, that doesn't slide forward, when I get aroused.

If anyone has experience with this kind of problem and is willing to help, I would love to hear your suggestions!

The suggestion was to use a cage with a narrow tube, because if growing in girth is prevented, growing in length is also prevented.

[jadefortyfour]

Ah... another cognitive bias... I thought it's a common problem, not just for growers:

I have trouble finding the right chastity cage size.
When erect, my penis is usually about 17cm (6.7 in) long. When flaccid, it varies a lot. Usually it sits at about 8 cm (3.1 in), but when not aroused at all, it can shrink to about less than 4 cm (1.5 in). It loses a lot of girths too.
I've been trying different plastic cages, which are about 9 cm long (3.89 in) and have an inside diameter of about 3,3 cm (1.3 in). When not aroused, my penis barely touches the inside walls of the cage and also the ring can slide forward a bit.
The big problem is, that when I get aroused, the chastity cage slides forward together with the ring, before my penis is fully erect. This leads to a lot of swelling between the ring and my body. It almost feels like half of my penis is erect, while the front is still confined in the cage. My balls get dragged out a lot and it hurts.
What I would like to know is which size should I try next? Shall I go with a smaller cage, so my penis cannot get erect at all? Or should I try an even bigger cage, so my penis has more space to grow into, so that the ring doesn't slide forward with the cage. I do not want to try some sort of piercing and personally would prefer a smaller cage.
I would love a cage, that doesn't slide forward, when I get aroused.
If anyone has experience with this kind of problem and is willing to help, I would love to hear your suggestions!

The suggestion was to use a cage with a narrow tube, because if growing in girth is prevented, growing in length is also prevented.

We're a firm believer in short and tight. We are currently on a v4 pink 'nub' cage with the push button lock. About 5 US bucks from Ali (per ads here on LikeRa).

Not really aware that we're wearing it until something arouses us. Just have it off for cleaning. The only more secure cage we have was mid $300.

[Like Ra]

I have Nub v3. I know a bit about morning erections 😆 And I can pull out of it.

[brandynette]

Chastity has lost all meaning to me after taking hormones cuss my sissy clitty is just limp all the time. I only cum after hours & hours of Hypnos & masturbating. Sometimes my elbow cramps up cuss i can't keep jerking myself.
Also, I can't get hard if I'm not high AF so the cage & keeping me limp is pointless!

[Like Ra]

keeping me limp

Not that cages are that effective at keeping limpness (morning glories is a good example), and not that they prevent orgasms (absolutely not), they are more for preventing "accidental masturbations", yet they keep attention around genitalia - constant, light arousal with no possibility for an easy or immediate relief.

[jadefortyfour]

keeping me limp

Not that cages are that effective at keeping limpness (morning glories is a good example), and not that they prevent orgasms (absolutely not), they are more for preventing "accidental masturbations", yet they keep attention around genitalia - constant, light arousal with no possibility for an easy or immediate relief.

Yes.

[jadefortyfour]

Chastity has lost all meaning to me after taking hormones cuss my sissy clitty is just limp all the time. I only cum after hours & hours of Hypnos & masturbating. Sometimes my elbow cramps up cuss i can't keep jerking myself.
Also, I can't get hard if I'm not high AF so the cage & keeping me limp is pointless!

The same is true for us although we are now oriented to hands free events.  Now working with being able to stop the build up to orgasm when the imagery or script is pushing us over the edge as we're more comfortable (and aware of life) in the state of constant desire.

Admitting that such a state is not appealing to everyone but it certainly has it's benefits in terms of consistency and intensity...