Big session coming up, but I need help!

You can blindfold her and then tell her you got a new massage chair. You can try selling it.

You can blindfold her and then tell her you got a new massage chair. You can try selling it.

Ha ha ha! If only it was that simple.

First things first - what an awesome session! 


Massive kudos for taking on such a complex challenge and many, many thanks for sharing not only the story but also those amazing photos with us all!



To be honest I've found it difficult to concentrate on your post due to the almost instant ERECTION I keep getting when reading it! 😁 

I'm grinning right now thinking about how, in a small way,  I'd contributed to your 'torture' with my suggested timing for the devices working on your helpless body...


Mwahahahahahahahahaha!!!!!  


Some initial thoughts:


- After all the time and effort you put into its creation it's such a shame that you'll have to totally dismantle your chair! Boo!

- In a future session why not swop those ear-defenders for the foam 'in-ear' style plugs? I use the foam plugs and they are just as effective, easily fit under hoods/masks/stockings and, in my mind, make for a more aesthetic 'look'. I also have some wax type ear plugs which are even more effective, but they are fiddly to mould into my ears. The other benefit is that these take up next to zero space in my fetish store! 😊 

-  I'm intrigued by your 'dead-man's switch' which is a novel twist on the 'stay bound or suffer' element that I've dabbled with in my own self-bondage sessions. Is it really difficult to keep the switch pressed? Also did you build in a 'minimum' time (say 5 seconds) if your finger did slip off? I think that would really focus your mind!  😉 

- Think I'll pass on the septum piercing! Ouch!!!  Not for me, thanks all the same! But I'm curious about how you will explain it to your wife? I can't imagine it's something that would pass un-noticed - but then again maybe it will.


Finally the two questions I always ask myself after a good self-bondage session:

- what went well/was the best part of your session?
 
- what was less good in your session and what could be done to improve it? 


Once again - thank you so much for taking the time to share the story of your adventure and also for capturing those amazing images!

MJ

Thanks madjack.

I had the in ear foam plugs aswell. They went in first with the butt plug. I must have forgotten to mention that! Apologies! I put the war defenders on for a second layer of silence. I literally couldn’t hear a thing!

The deadman’s switch was difficult to hold for three reasons.

1. The handle of the switch was narrow in diameter. Around 16mm so it was hard to grip.

2. The button was small and my fingers couldn’t keep the button pushed all the way in easily so it was sitting on the threshold.

3. My hands were encased in the body suit. Which made it slippy.

So in answer. Yes! It was very difficult to hold!

I didn’t build a minimum time in. Trust me, just letting it slip for a split second gave me a good dosing! 5 seconds would probably have caused issues with not being able to swallow quick enough.

Septum piercing was a play piercing. Pierced with a 1.6mm needle just below the cartilage. A piece of stirrup jewellery went in and was removed straight after the session. Because of where the piercing is located it’s hidden out of site by my nostrils. So any slight scab you can’t see unless you start pulling my nose around. And who does that!? Ha ha ha. Cleaning it daily with salt water and I’ll be honest you can hardly see any scabs now. She will never know. Septum piercings can be hidden easily. Ask anyone with one. If you have a horse shoe jewellery you can flip it up and hide it for work etc.

The best part of the session for me was the complete inability to move. The feeling I got when I first dropped the magnet to lock my wrists in was insane. A complete rush! I think as a whole it all went well. As said above I would probably put a little more padding on the back rest as that became uncomfortable aswell as less weight on the septum. If it was fully healed it would have been ok. A lot of nerves in your nose so pain is generally higher.

I think a major improvement would be to have a helping hand to lock me in and tease me. Always wanted a play partner for such things. :p

Having major withdrawal symptoms from this one! How do people manage there needs when they are unable to be bound?

Having major withdrawal symptoms from this one! How do people manage there needs when they are unable to be bound?

This next paragraph is not advice and I'm not suggesting you do what I would do.

My fetishism is such an integral part of who I am that I would not be in a situation where I was unable to be kinky how I want.  If for some reason I did end up not being able to do what I want, I would leave  and find a new situation which afforded me more freedoms to do what I enjoy.

I sympathize with what you're going through and hope you get it figured out.  

You might need to find another outlet, take a scuba diving class or something else like that that will take a lot of concentration to get through.  That's the only advice I can offer since it seems like you need a good diversion.  Best of luck.

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Having major withdrawal symptoms from this one! How do people manage there needs when they are unable to be bound?

Yoga, qigong and meditations.

Having major withdrawal symptoms from this one! How do people manage there needs when they are unable to be bound?

This next paragraph is not advice and I'm not suggesting you do what I would do.

My fetishism is such an integral part of who I am that I would not be in a situation where I was unable to be kinky how I want.  If for some reason I did end up not being able to do what I want, I would leave  and find a new situation which afforded me more freedoms to do what I enjoy.

I sympathize with what you're going through and hope you get it figured out.  

You might need to find another outlet, take a scuba diving class or something else like that that will take a lot of concentration to get through.  That's the only advice I can offer since it seems like you need a good diversion.  Best of luck.

It’s why I focus on my other interests so much and work a lot. It’s frustrating as I literally have everything else anybody could ask for. Fantastic wife, nice house, a car, frequent holidays. Just something missing.