Bambi Sleep stuff

[Bambigurl15]

So I'm not sure how much my experiences help, but I have been on the receiving end of some level of abuse or control on the web while in a "Bambi" state. I could like, go on and on about that Bambi state and whether it's truly me or not or so on. But no matter what, what I can say is that I've conditioned to the files A LOT and I've always been spooked enough by the outcomes that I've focused mentally pretty hard on having harmony with Bambi. I won't do anything to jeopardize her, nor would she do anything to jeopardize me. That sort of thing. 

Inevitably, if I wake as Bambi, I know that she is going to play. This means taking pictures, trying on clothes, surfing the web for a certain kind of porn, chatting online, sexting guys, playing with toys, etc. That's all fine. She's never posted anything that would come close to jeopardizing the Other Self. There's a mental line we've created or one that we both understand or however it works. 

Tons of times Bambi has wound up on Reddit or other apps or sites, and has been chatting with guys or doms. This sometimes is pretty great, but there are plenty of times where there's an asshole that clearly wants to just jump into triggering, and will rapid fire triggers. Surprisingly, Bambi is very good at recognizing these bad actors. Maybe it's because that's really me and my gut feeling can override any sort of mentality swap or hypnosis, breaking the "spell". One would expect a Bambi to fall right into that sort of stuff. 

It's gotten very close though. I can remember a certain bad actor that was trading pictures with Bambi, and kept slowly pressing her to go further. They wanted her/me to post a face pic. They wanted more and more depraved pics. They kept firing off some of the most potent triggers there are, even reading into Bambi's / Other self's posts to find the ones that hit us hardest, and really trying to manipulate those. 

That was bad enough. It went further when the messages came daily, even to Other Self, and the talk started to move toward controlling me, and trying to purposely ruin Harmony. The bad actor would tell me that I was truly Bambi, that I should give in and serve them as a daddy. This was after I, Other Self, told them I was uncomfortable with the way they were chatting. They continued to try and convince me that I was really Bambi and that I should throw away other self. They wanted me to send them my phone number to set up a meet and more. 

In the end I obviously blocked them. Maybe should have reported them, sure. And I had the conscious mind to do that. Maybe I had that choice because of how I've approached my conditioning. I've focused really hard on coexisting with Bambi, and because of that, she's never posted face pics or outed us in any way. Not with anyone that we don't build a relationship with. I don't know if that's real or not, but I could talk for hours about being Bambi.

The choice was there for me, but I'm not so sure for others that have submitted to hypnosis. It does come with the territory though. I'd be crazy not to at least think I'd run into one of these weirdos, and especially when running into one is actually part of the point with Bambi. Because of that I've been careful. It can feel like the "walking down a dark alley in revealing clothes" argument. And I do think there's some responsibility there. It goes even deeper than that though, because of the simple nature of BS itself. The whole idea is to submit this way, or to become dumb, or give oneself into being a bimbo whore. By all rights, Bambi should have sent face pics to this person and met up to be used by him. That's sorta what the files offer. 

I don't think that makes it right though. Lots of people are dismissive of the effects of BS, but I think that there's still responsibility on both sides of the fence, the person listening and participating in the hypnosis, and for the people wanting to be "doms" or interact with someone under the spell. No Bambi should go into the hypnosis poorly informed or without some kind of safety rope for themselves, and no person interacting with a Bambi should seek to push things into an abusive territory especially when the Bambi or OS has requested they not do this.  💓 💓 💓

[shinybambi]

It's... a sub about the series. What else were they supposed to call it?

I thought we agreed that non-consensual triggering was bad when you use triggers on purpose. They knew they were using a trigger phrase as a sub name, they knew what that trigger was associated with, they could have chosen another name that wasn't a trigger, like "disneydeerhypnosis", but they chose to use a known trigger phrase anyway. 

Think of all the victims who were lured to that sub and triggered without their consent!

Also think of the poor innocent souls who come to the sub looking for help, trying to quit, only to be triggered and relapse instead, all because of the trigger in the name and all around the sub, don't forget the name Bambi itself is a trigger.

[Lycalopex]

It's... a sub about the series. What else were they supposed to call it?

I thought we agreed that non-consensual triggering was bad when you use triggers on purpose. They knew they were using a trigger phrase as a sub name, they knew what that trigger was associated with, they could have chosen another name that wasn't a trigger, like "disneydeerhypnosis", but they chose to use a known trigger phrase anyway. 

Think of all the victims who were lured to that sub and triggered without their consent!

Also think of the poor innocent souls who come to the sub looking for help, trying to quit, only to be triggered and relapse instead, all because of the trigger in the name and all around the sub, don't forget the name Bambi itself is a trigger.

You're splitting hairs.

Someone "trying" to quit and putting themselves into that position is not actually trying to quit.

[subdream]

I don't think that makes it right though. Lots of people are dismissive of the effects of BS, but I think that there's still responsibility on both sides of the fence, the person listening and participating in the hypnosis, and for the people wanting to be "doms" or interact with someone under the spell. No Bambi should go into the hypnosis poorly informed or without some kind of safety rope for themselves, and no person interacting with a Bambi should seek to push things into an abusive territory especially when the Bambi or OS has requested they not do this.  💓 💓 💓

Yeah. Exactly.

I thought we agreed that non-consensual triggering was bad when you use triggers on purpose. They knew they were using a trigger phrase as a sub name, they knew what that trigger was associated with, they could have chosen another name that wasn't a trigger, like "disneydeerhypnosis", but they chose to use a known trigger phrase anyway.
Think of all the victims who were lured to that sub and triggered without their consent!
Also think of the poor innocent souls who come to the sub looking for help, trying to quit, only to be triggered and relapse instead, all because of the trigger in the name and all around the sub, don't forget the name Bambi itself is a trigger.

Learn to distinguish between intent and consent. That said... PLONK.

[shinybambi]

It's... a sub about the series. What else were they supposed to call it?

I thought we agreed that non-consensual triggering was bad when you use triggers on purpose. They knew they were using a trigger phrase as a sub name, they knew what that trigger was associated with, they could have chosen another name that wasn't a trigger, like "disneydeerhypnosis", but they chose to use a known trigger phrase anyway. 

Think of all the victims who were lured to that sub and triggered without their consent!

Also think of the poor innocent souls who come to the sub looking for help, trying to quit, only to be triggered and relapse instead, all because of the trigger in the name and all around the sub, don't forget the name Bambi itself is a trigger.

You're splitting hairs.

Someone "trying" to quit and putting themselves into that position is not actually trying to quit.

So you're saying that if i want to stop listening and not be triggered, i can just avoid visiting that particular sub? Like close the tab and ignore/forget it and not be triggered?

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... they also have rules against "triggering someone trying to stop listening" on the sub, so choosing a better name that isn't a trigger would make sense, if you have rules like that.

[Lycalopex]

So you're saying that if i want to stop listening and not be triggered, i can just avoid visiting that particular sub? Like close the tab and ignore/forget it and not be triggered?

I'm saying that if you're trying to stop listening and not be triggered, then going to a subreddit that you know has a title that will trigger you is like drinking from a cup you saw someone spike with a date rape drug.

This is vastly different from being in an active conversation with someone and unexpectedly being triggered. You know it'll happen if you go to the sub; that's your own fault. You don't know it'll happen if you're just chatting with someone, because a lot of people expect others to have basic human decency.

[Like Ra]

This is vastly different from being in an active conversation with someone and unexpectedly being triggered.

If we are talking about that specific conversation, than, again, it was not just a usual chat. It was specifically a role-playing chat between a "Bambi" and a "Daddy", and in such chats triggering are expected.

[Like Ra]

What are you all arguing about? Warnings about damage caused by alcohol and tobacco are everywhere, and everybody is aware of the consequences. Yet both are shown and sold everywhere, and you can see people using them, you can see labels and trademarks, and nobody makes a scene accusing supermarkets for triggering them. And pub visitors do not squeal about someone offering them a ciggy or a glass of beer.

[Exception]

This is vastly different from being in an active conversation with someone and unexpectedly being triggered.

If we are talking about that specific conversation, than, again, it was not just a usual chat. It was specifically a role-playing chat between a "Bambi" and a "Daddy", and in such chats triggering are expected.

Depends on the context of how that conversation came about. The Bambi Sleep subreddit places massive importance on agreeing things before triggers (they'll have your guts for garters if you trigger in any channel on the discord other than the specified trigger channel). They seem to use that standard particularly for weeding out Doms - i.e. if a Dom can't contain themselves to gain consent before triggering, run a mile. So it is an important thing for them, and triggers right out the gate are unexpected. 

The strong reaction in the image is because they think that Sam Henry is seeking out those who will react to triggers to get hooks in before boundaries have been agreed. They don't have the context to know that that's not the case.

(All feels a bit overdramatic to me anyway, as even a non-roleplayer probably wouldn't react to them being done so unsubtly? Like how you probably wouldn't react to an aural trigger in a file that said "oi mate yer a good girl, righ' luv?" alongside a trumpet noise.)

[Selfexploration]

(Please feel free to move if it doesn’t belong here)

I have this idea for a VR hypno game and was wondering if someone more knowledgeable than me could tell me if it sounds feasible to create, potentially with a team of other smart Bambis.

The main idea behind it is to have the body of a bimbo when you look down/ in a mirror at yourself. I haven’t even found any vr porn that is shot from a female perspective & im unsure why that is. The “game” would start with you walking into a large reception area, getting taken to an elevator with mirrored walls so as you descend you can admire your body. Upon exiting there’s a long hospital style hallway with many doors, each door has a different scene. One would be a viewing room of Bambi TikTok’s, another would be the brain drain machine, maybe a hospital style operating room where you get implants. The milking room from Restrained & Milked for sure. Files always playing in the background, lots of other Bambis walking around guiding you.

I’m figuring it could be hosted on a private website & accessed similar to how other vr experiences are. AI could be used to generate a lot of the 3d world?

Would creating something like this be illegal? Would using the files be a copywrite issue? Would it take a ton of money and time?

Anyway, I’d appreciate any feedback & if nothing else I hope you liked the fantasy I portrayed! (I’ve been playing with this fantasy for years now as a sort of real life bambi hotel but don’t think I’ll ever be able to build such a place)