Bambi Sleep stuff

The real trick here is that the Bambi files are not solely hypnosis. They incorporate DID / TULPA / multiple personality features, as well as good old-fashioned conditioning. It seems like the DID-like stuff is what's doing a lot of the heavy lifting here. This is fairly interesting, and I think poorly understood.

Sorry, but I do not really buy any of that.

A lot of teenagers read The Fountainhead and decide they want to become architects. Most of them change their mind within a few weeks/months/years but a few stick with it. No hypnosis or occult forces required.

I think Bambi is much the same. It's a work of fiction that creates a compelling narrative around a character that some people identify with very strongly. And unlike most novels, it invites you to live out the story for yourself. Lots of kids read Harry Potter and wanted to become wizards, but that's not possible. But you can listen to Bambi, put on a uniform, and set up a Grindr account. There aren't many wizards, but the world is full of cocks that want to be sucked.

When your fantasies revolve in large part around giving up control, what could be more compelling than a set of files reputed to turn even the straightest of manly men into feminized, giggling bimbo sluts against their will? This is the part the creator got incredibly right.

I don't blame you for not buying it. What I can say is that I attempted a LOT of bimbo hypnosis with my SO. Nothing was even close to being as effective as the Bambi files. The separate personalities were a major part of her experience.

So wanted to mention that like you should probs read a link I'm attaching for more context on how I met James

Thanks for the link.

Jessica was a actually super diligent and spent since like Nov/dec of last year interviewing us/researching stuff etc but she had to leave a lot out cuz there wasn't enough space to tell the full story of everyone involved but I think she did a good job summarizing what happened & including the most relevant info.

I really wish these sites weren't so leery about just doing big deep dives from time to time.

Even in normal cults with no hypno it can get weird and people can be convinced of a lot of things. Just saw a news article about people who starved themselves to death for Jesus and like...yea you don't need hypno to make someone do something they normally wouldn't

100%.

Before I continue on this subject to be clear rn I have NO desire or intention of filing a suit civilly or reporting him criminally and if I ever did report it would be criminally.

That's fair.

With that said one of the reasons I took the time to message the creator so much on safety is cuz of what the lawyer said about civil suit options. He said it may be possible to file suit against James' old company because he assaulted us at their office and it's possible that we could maybe also file a civil suit against the creator of the Bambi files for negligence as well.

Both possible, and though IANAL, you do have to be careful when it comes to lawyers encouraging you to take on cases, especially in the US where the costs can be astronomical. I mean, unless you're able to do it all pro se & just spend lots of time instead of money.

It's also important to acknowledge that for most people the lifestyle Bambi is programmed to have/attain is unattainable. Unless someone is wealthy and doesn't need to work or is taken care of by someone else I truly feel like most people wouldn't be able to function in the world as Bambi as the files scripts her or enjoy the experience and I speak from experience with this.

Definitely got a point there. Bambi being successful on OnlyFans etc, or at least having a stable relationship with someone to manage her life, finances and so on is a hell of a lot different to Bambi not having anything like that.

the problem is (and maybe the creator didn't foresee this) once you start living as Bambi 24/7 and achieve all the basic milestones you start to run out of easy things on your Bambi lifestyle check list that the files program you to desire/want to achieve/that make you feel like a gg. what's left after that initial list of things is achieved and your mindset as Bambi is rly solidified s the anxiety of not feeling like a gg cuz the other goals are completely unattainable at the moment/ur stuck in lifestyle limbo...which of course then effects your mindset/how you feel and creates a shitty little loop.

That is an interesting thought; I think having well-defined material goals makes a lot of sense. "You will jog every day until you can do 5 miles in an hour" is a lot safer than "you will jog every day, increasing how far you go each day". The mental goals I'm guessing could be less well defined or more flexible, within reason. It strikes me that it's a lot easier to have no clear end goal for "you want to obey me" or "you enjoy obeying me". Anyway, that's enough theorizing.

I did a Bambi file that reinforces safeties like the ability to reject suggestions etc but one of the things that i also did is that I used confidence and affirmations to motivate Bambi instead of anxiety/feeling like a bad girl etc.

That's good. One thing I've consistently come across in my hypnosis research is that positive language works better than negative language. So rather than "you don't have any worries" you phrase it as "you are freed of any worries" or whatever.

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Being involved is nice because I feel like I'm using my horrible experience to possibly help someone else avoid going through the same thing with the harm reduction resources like transcripts that I'm creating.

Very good. The scars will fade in time, and to transform this experience into something both positive and worthwhile is an excellent result.

[Like Ra]

But this is the second really interesting trick, which is that the files tell you that it's not *you* choosing to do these things, it's this external Bambi identity that takes control against your will. So this relieves you of responsibility for having the fantasies, and by the way, it also adds to them because for many of us submissive types, the sense of loss of control is a big part of our kink.

This! Absolutely!