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newbie - self-bondage advice needed
#1
probably been asked countless times b4 but as cannot find a bondage partner am looking at self bondage what would be the easiest way to ease myself into this have a pvt bedroom tho short on time lol but have a single bed with head and foot frames so need help with ties and release method (not too messy) am a cd if this helps ! thx for any advice
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#2
Welcome here!

As for suggestions: Tie yourself up...

Also read the forum. There are many ideas for various levels of experience. Like Ra has compiled a couple of tutorials too.
Careful though, you will come accross scenarios which are pure fiction and potentially lethal. Swimming while hogtied is a good example (theoretically), but there are less obvious ones.

And a few recommendations for self-bondage:

If possible, provide a method to get help if anything goes wrong. the next visitor could be too late.
Don't play drunk or on drugs
Don't hurry anything
Don't let anything get in the way of breathing
Don't tie anything around your neck, especially keep the front of the neck free
When planning, think negative, try to imagine all possible accidents
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#3
Try this. It's very simple and pretty safe. Unless you have to pee at nite.

Get two peices of rope. Dress up in your favorat outfit.
Tie your ankles together.
Now tie your knees together.

Bo nothing else, and go to bed.

Don't forget to untie your self if you need to pee in the middle of the nite.

As for a bondage partner, it would help if we know where you are located.
As in State and country.

Enjoy
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#4
Hi there and welcome!

Some great and very sensible responses aeady, so all I can add is the mantra that to start out in the wonderful world -  'keep it simple'!

Until you are well practised and have more experience the simplest ties will be the best ones. Safe and frustrated is way better than stuck and terrified.

This forum has a vast amount of information and suggestions, plus some cautionary tales (check mine out for some real examples of what can go wrong even after years of practise!)

MJ
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#5
thx to all have begun my journey use the trusted ice cube in a stocking suspending keys to handcuffs out of reach so get dressed in stockings panties bra etc tie feet to btm of bed working on a quickjer method using dog clips tie one hand to bed head then put tens on cock turn up to full and throw down bed so cannot reach it and finally handcuff last hand to bed and wait for ice to melt also looking at tieng cock up but like it tight and may go on for too long as ice takes around 50 mins
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