01 Feb 2022, 15:27
Has anyone of you ever gotten into serious trouble due to your fetish?
As the question implies, this refers to a potential scenario in which your fetish (or just a small aspect of it) has gotten into contact AND conflict with public life, outside of your private safe zone.
How did I get to this topic?
Well, as you know from my posts here so far, I have had an intense Lycra swimwear fetish for like, ever. This is something I will never bring into public life (points at the Dutch "mannen in badpak" [men in onepiece swimsuits] forum as an opposite point of reference LoL).
However, 2021 was the year that I started wearing leggings and wearing them in public space.
These leggings (Leohex) are still fetish items to me - BUT, I am also a bit into the fashion/personal style thing.
Basically, I am taking the leggings outside of my safe space fetish zone and into public life, as a personal fashion style item.
This goes hand in hand with posting pics of my fits on social media, casually following fashion channels, runway shows and even a little bit of social media interaction regarding leggings in fashion.
Pic from summer/spring 22 Dolce & Gabbana
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Some people I follow on Instagram for example; one of them happens to be this guy from Germany who posts TONS of photo's, wearing the shiniest Ishtar & Brute and Bombom leggings with short tops, in public space.
Anyone who is familiar with the leggings of these brands knows they actually accentuate the cheeks and crotch area. So I asked this guy in my astonishment, how he has not gotten into trouble at least once. I guess Germany truly is one of the most liberal countries when it comes to this. The "worst" he got was people staring.
Throughout the years I can clearly recall online news reports of guys getting arrested in public; for example this news report of a leggings guy in Manchester who got arrested 2020/2021.
Now, I realize that in 99% of such cases the factor which gets such guys in trouble, is their behavior. So supposedly he rocked the leggings with a giant visible hard-on. Someone took offense, then reported him to authorities.
But, the Instagram guy from Germany, also doesn't cover up the crucial areas and both his considerably bulging bulge and cheeks are deliberately accentuated and exposed - and yet this guy doesn't get into trouble. (yes he went into town and shopping areas)
So have any of you here walked the thin line and potentially crossed it, getting into trouble?
Personally, the worst I got was stares, same like the German guy got. However my scenario differs as I am a European foreigner in the Philippines and I do cover things up with a long top.
As the question implies, this refers to a potential scenario in which your fetish (or just a small aspect of it) has gotten into contact AND conflict with public life, outside of your private safe zone.
How did I get to this topic?
Well, as you know from my posts here so far, I have had an intense Lycra swimwear fetish for like, ever. This is something I will never bring into public life (points at the Dutch "mannen in badpak" [men in onepiece swimsuits] forum as an opposite point of reference LoL).
However, 2021 was the year that I started wearing leggings and wearing them in public space.
These leggings (Leohex) are still fetish items to me - BUT, I am also a bit into the fashion/personal style thing.
Basically, I am taking the leggings outside of my safe space fetish zone and into public life, as a personal fashion style item.
This goes hand in hand with posting pics of my fits on social media, casually following fashion channels, runway shows and even a little bit of social media interaction regarding leggings in fashion.
Pic from summer/spring 22 Dolce & Gabbana
[attachment=53093]
Some people I follow on Instagram for example; one of them happens to be this guy from Germany who posts TONS of photo's, wearing the shiniest Ishtar & Brute and Bombom leggings with short tops, in public space.
Anyone who is familiar with the leggings of these brands knows they actually accentuate the cheeks and crotch area. So I asked this guy in my astonishment, how he has not gotten into trouble at least once. I guess Germany truly is one of the most liberal countries when it comes to this. The "worst" he got was people staring.
Throughout the years I can clearly recall online news reports of guys getting arrested in public; for example this news report of a leggings guy in Manchester who got arrested 2020/2021.
Now, I realize that in 99% of such cases the factor which gets such guys in trouble, is their behavior. So supposedly he rocked the leggings with a giant visible hard-on. Someone took offense, then reported him to authorities.
But, the Instagram guy from Germany, also doesn't cover up the crucial areas and both his considerably bulging bulge and cheeks are deliberately accentuated and exposed - and yet this guy doesn't get into trouble. (yes he went into town and shopping areas)
So have any of you here walked the thin line and potentially crossed it, getting into trouble?
Personally, the worst I got was stares, same like the German guy got. However my scenario differs as I am a European foreigner in the Philippines and I do cover things up with a long top.