Wow, you guys go through some extreme levels of highs and lows 😳
I suppose my fetishes compare as superficial.
Thankfully, I think the odds of purging have been eliminated completely - probably because it's not very deep and I've made my Lycra fetish, part of my actual public wardrobe (leggings) - pretty much everyone knows about it and nobody seems to have a problem with it.
(15 May 2024, 08:21 )brandynette Wrote: [ -> ]I remember cuss i was on a psychotherapy retreat somewhere in the Alps & my network sucked so badly i wasn't even able to login to my Pornhub.
The last week on retreat i was so horny i started chanting bambi mantras
Interesting retreats 😂 Ever tried vipassana?
(15 May 2024, 11:54 )Like Ra Wrote: [ -> ][quote="brandynette" pid="73851" dateline="1715757661"]
Interesting retreats 😂 Ever tried vipassana?
OH NO! Not Buddhism! Accepting the past is no more & the future might not be just to be in the present!
Logic gate:
If my past is no more, bambi won't remember who i was before her & be unable to trigger me in the present.
If my future won't be then bambi has no goals getting to an orgasm is a matter of chance where i have no control over my own sexuality.
Mindfulness Meditation where i link past, present & future onto me while letting emotions flow is my favorite party trick.
I’m actually going though that right now. Last selfbondage session was about a year ago. I get bored when I can’t come up with new ideas. My stuff gets thrown in the back of the closet and I lose interest. Just yesterday I have a spike in the urge of trying to get back into it again. Im looking for new toys, outfits and shoes.
(15 May 2024, 16:21 )brandynette Wrote: [ -> ]Mindfulness Meditation where i link past, present & future onto me while letting emotions flow is my favorite party trick.
Hang on ... This is what vipassana is about... Plus information detox.
Since this subject has flared up noticeably on Bellmar's anti-purge audio, we decided to make a poll.
I'm not collecting user data. All submissions are anon.
Please take your time & provide us with everything you can.
Even if you haven't purged, tell us what would make your purge!
Purge or not to Purge? Why do we purge our kinks?
Hmm... I think that your poll is wrong. You don't assume that there are people who didn't purge at all.
I don't recall purging at any moment in the past. There were periods with more and less interest in different fetishes, but every time I was throwing something away was only due to lack of (safe) place to store it.
Also the question "Do you want to stop purging?" doesn't make sense - the moment you purge, you don't assume you will need those accounts/clothing/fetish gear anytime in the future (otherwise you wouldn't purge) and each purge is always the last one. Any other time between purges, you don't think you will purge anytime in the future.
(21 Nov 2024, 23:41 )d7i Wrote: [ -> ]I don't recall purging at any moment in the past.
Yep, same. I never purge.
(21 Nov 2024, 23:41 )d7i Wrote: [ -> ]There were periods with more and less interest in different fetishes
Yep.
I did purge a few times and always regretted it later so I learned my lesson and now I put stuff in storage in stead of throwing it out. Once in a while I do throw stuff out but only because it's broken, no longer fits or I have gotten similar in better quality and it's eating storage space. There is this idea in the back of my mind that I should do a selfbondage session with the stuff I'm about to throw away and destroy it during that session, crawling over rougher terrain, dropping the key in pantyhose so I have to rip them to get to it, threading a chain trough my clothing and locking myself outside to something so I have to rip some clothing to get free... There might be some fun left before "purging"...
(22 Nov 2024, 10:57 )Anne Wrote: [ -> ]There might be some fun left before "purging"...
Purging done properly! 👍 😅