Self bondage struggle!

Have you ever considered soliciting the services of a professional mistress

Yeah, don't tease me I've been torturing myself with that idea for so long.

The only downside to that plan is the expensive part like you've said. Most professional mistresses in my area would charge a premium just for an evaluation interview... they reserve the right to choose me for a bdsm session. So sad 😟

Usually they use that meeting to filter out those who are not serious. Having pro-dommed for a while and knowing a few, generally if you show up, pay the fee or the bill (I used restaurants where I could reserve a private table) you're in.

If anyone visits Montreal, I'd be happy to give the experience for free. (I no longer pro-domme but do tie others for their experience)

Have you ever considered soliciting the services of a professional mistress

Yeah, don't tease me I've been torturing myself with that idea for so long.

The only downside to that plan is the expensive part like you've said. Most professional mistresses in my area would charge a premium just for an evaluation interview... they reserve the right to choose me for a bdsm session. So sad 😟

Usually they use that meeting to filter out those who are not serious. Having pro-dommed for a while and knowing a few, generally if you show up, pay the fee or the bill (I used restaurants where I could reserve a private table) you're in.

If anyone visits Montreal, I'd be happy to give the experience for free. (I no longer pro-domme but do tie others for their experience)

Shame the southern borders closed 😕 never got to go into Sault ste Marie

Also, how did you achieve your near perfect arch?

I first tie my feet then my ankles and finally my tights. I lay on my bed with my belly facing down and I secure my bent legs with a few loops around the waist making sure my feet touch my buttocks. Afterwards, I create a tension point on my ankle tie that goes directly to my shoulders, one loop on the left shoulder, it goes back to the ankle tie, then it goes to the right shoulder and back to the ankle tie, I do that 2 or 3 times and then I just start pulling the rope, it's fairly easy to tighten the arch that way, then I simply loop the remaining rope around my chest and voila my arch is tightly bent. The only part I dislike is the tension on my shoulders, the rope is basically eating my skin and leaves some nasty red marks, but that is all subjective sometimes I like it, sometimes I don't.

I'd love to post some photos, but since I'm doing all that solo it will be a little challenging to properly focus the points of interest. Maybe I'll upload them by the weekend.

Did you use a special ring device?

I would love to hear more about this ring method 😁 maybe it'll simplify things for me.

Set the ISO to 0 and use good lighting. Almost always the camera will be able to capture the entire scene clearly. Whoever made higher isos standard on cameras should be slapped.

[Like Ra]

use good lighting

Ha! Sure! So easy! Very compact and always available! And not noticeable by neighbours or passerbys! 😂

[Like Ra]

long thick gag for a good deep throat. A head harness

These two should go well with each other. The head harness pulled back towards the hogtied feet-legs should make deep-throating easier.

And I like the pantyhose!!! I only wish they were sheer to waist.

Not sure if I am allowed to post my own photos here, but your post made me want to try a back arching hogtie ❤️

You could try this style too. 

   

The tie could be much tighter but dangerous

   

The problem you had with having to hold the back arch rope with the hands can be solved by wrapping it around something like I did with the center rope, then tying an easy release knot

Not sure if I am allowed to post my own photos here

it's positively encouraged!! thanks!

Not sure if I am allowed to post my own photos here

Yes please 😁

The problem you had with having to hold the back arch rope with the hands can be solved by wrapping it around something like I did with the center rope, then tying an easy release knot

Beautiful tie, it looks much more appealing and functional. How hard is it to untie? An idea I can't get out of my mind recently is spending a whole night hogtied like that.

Not sure if I am allowed to post my own photos here

Yes please 😁

The problem you had with having to hold the back arch rope with the hands can be solved by wrapping it around something like I did with the center rope, then tying an easy release knot

Beautiful tie, it looks much more appealing and functional. How hard is it to untie? An idea I can't get out of my mind recently is spending a whole night hogtied like that.

Hey thx I really tried hard to make it both look good and functional! I like the artistic aspect but also the sensation. 

This one isn't hard to untie, but tbh I did panic a bit when my elbows felt stuck. If I had a lock mechanism it would be harder to untie (without the key). 

I did all the knots in reach and most are like bunny ear shoelace knots, so that you can't get out by struggling, but can release if you intend to get out, if that makes sense. 

I haven't tried overnight in hogtie, but I fell asleep once. I used a padlock, but had the key next to me. Struggled for 30mins, then I fell asleep for 3 hours. Surprisingly comfortable!

I recently had to throw away a short rope because it was starting show heavy damage. Then a new idea came up to mind when trying to figure out how to reduce my resources to a minimal, but still achieve that precious hogtie I love so much. I don't know if there is a name for this simple tie, but I'd like to call it the butterfly hogtie.

A little bit of a warning, you need to be somewhat flexible because this will hit hard on the articulations if you go for the stricter posture.

The main idea is to trap your feet with your forearms and fix it by tying a knot around the wrists & ankles.
You can go for a relaxed position using your wrists (left) or a strict position sliding your forearms through the coil (right)
Even tying just one side is guaranteed to hinder your mobility a considerable amount if done right
You can also play around with your arm placement to keep the elbows together (left) or spread like a butterfly (right)
Cherry on top, you can also keep all four together, for a more classic hogtie. Although you'll need an additional knot to keep yourself in that closed position.

Now I can pseudo hogtie myself with only two simple short coil knots. This could be useful when your are away from home, away from your preferred gear, or just when you want to tie yourself in an easy and fast manner. For self bondage reasons I'm not completely tying the coils, but you could try to trap yourself with a real knot if you do this with a partner.