Samantha Bandler/Sez hypnosis

[Like Ra]

I dislike the term "sissy"

Can you describe why? What does "sissy" mean for you?

Can you describe why? What does "sissy" mean for you?
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I think my problem with it probably lies in toxic masculinity using that word in a derogatory way (and me thinking the only definition is that) . I'm also realizing that I don't like humiliation, and those two tend to be intertwined in a lot of sissy hypno.

think my problem with it probably lies in toxic masculinity using that word in a derogatory way (and me thinking the only definition is that) . I'm also realizing that I don't like humiliation, and those two tend to be intertwined in a lot of sissy hypno.

Similar for me as well. Ill also add that, for me, the word "sissy" is connected to a slender / feminine figure, as well as body mannerisms that just aren't me.

Instead of resonanating with my autogynophilia, being called a sissy seems conflict and CAUSE feelings of body dysmorphia.

the word "sissy" is connected to a slender / feminine figure, as well as body mannerisms that just aren't me.

Instead of resonanating with my autogynophilia, being called a sissy seems conflict and CAUSE feelings of body dysmorphia.

100% agree there too. I am very masc physically, so those things are just off the table. I really appreciate your response, because it reminds me that I'm not alone!

Despite being very into this stuff I definitely find the term "sissy" pretty cringe. That said, I do think that's the point for some people

That said, I do think that's the point for some people

Absolutely! I thought that's how I viewed it, even back when I first stumbled into hypnosis (Mind Mistress days lol).

I think the big shift was when I was wearing panties and stockings underneath my other clothing and not feeling that cheek burning shame. It felt normal.

That being said...I'm going to continue to trance to SB anyway because it's been so effective for me. I wish the community was larger like BS, but that's why I come here to share experiences with you all ❤️

[Like Ra]

I'm also realizing that I don't like humiliation

I think this is the only associated with "sissyfication" term, which I do not like. OTOH, if you "do" any feminine "stuff" in public, AND if you do not have this specific "drive" or "I don't care about your f@#$% opinion" mood, you might experience humiliation.

I've been wearing pantyhose in public for decades. Yet in some cases (especially if those pantyhose are way too visible) I felt that (ah, right now I wish I chose more invisible ones), or when my nail polish is way too bold red, and a less "aggressive" colour might be a bit more appropriate here. So, some embarrassments come hand in hand with doing things in public and beyond the "public and gender expectations" (as YOU understand them!!!!)

Though, this is related to pretty much anything. Embarrassment and shame might wait for us everywhere. Wrong steps, loosing balance, unzipped zips, wet spots, wrongly chosen word, etc.

So, if you move embarrassment behind the brackets, the term sissy does not look that bad.

Embarrassments might wait for us everywhere. Wrong steps, loosing balance, unzipped zips, wet spots, wrongly chosen word, etc.

So, if you move embarrassment behind the brackets, the term sissy does not look that bad.

I appreciate and agree with that perspective! It definitely helps accept what I enjoy aeady a lot more. Thank you!

[Like Ra]

My son asked me once if I feel ashamed of my shiny pantyhose. AFAIR, I said "No, why should I? It's nobody's business what I wear". As long as I'm within the legal and aesthetic limits, I'm fine! And "aesthetics" is VERY important for me.

[Like Ra]

And that's why there're so many "Sissy shame dissolver" hypno-files here!

For me, the most effective was Catgirl. I even started putting on make-up in public. That's .... soooooo "not me". Read this thread: https://www.likera.com/forum/mybb/showth...p?tid=4170