Do you prefer the real thing, just the virtual version, or doing it alone?
Do you meet up in person to discuss bondage or self-bondage?
20.00%
2
Do you meet up in person for a drink in a bar just to chat? (Munch-style or just one-on-one)
0%
0
I don’t want to meet up
40.00%
4
I can’t meet up, because I’m married and have a family
20.00%
2
Other (please comment)
20.00%
2
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Poll: Do you prefer the real thing, or just the virtual version, or going it alone?

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(24 Mar 2026, 06:49 )Gitefétichistes Wrote: : I’ve tied people up for the night just as they wanted. I then untied them the next day. They never saw my genitals
(24 Mar 2026, 06:49 )Gitefétichistes Wrote: What I like about this sort of NO SEX meet-up is the camaraderie between like-minded people.
Still, this applies: "I can’t meet up as I’m married with a family"

(24 Mar 2026, 06:49 )Gitefétichistes Wrote: Example 4: I have held the keys to a chastity cage on X occasions WITHOUT ever touching it.
We discuss this in the remotely controlled toys/cages/boxes threads. No meet up needed here.
E.g.:
https://www.likera.com/forum/mybb/Thread...app-review
(This post was last modified: 24 Mar 2026, 13:30 by Like Ra.)
The poll is added! Please let me know if the questions should be changed, updated, or if we need more options.
I'm on the asexual spectrum, so I'm not really interested in meeting people about BDSM
I find the virtual experience more than enough for my need

That being said, I do enjoy that you offer the service and wish you the best of luck!

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