As with every session, photo and video you share my first thoughts are 'wow! 'Awesome!' and the like.
But I agree with some of the other comments that care needs to be taken '
safe, sane and consensual' can apply equally to solo play, especially self-bondage and especially the 'safe, sane...' part.
I confess I wasn't fully aware of the risks associated with being suspended in a harness for longer periods of time (i.e. more than a handful of minutes) but have always acknowledged the risks of
any self-bondage play when I am alone and have no one standing by to step in if something did go wrong.
Having said all that.....
I've got to admit the look you achieved was incredible and it did tick all the boxes of what I had in mind for my own suspension self-bondage plans.... so now we are both possibly reconsidering our approach!
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And I've a
eady successfully achieved suspended self bondage (posted in this forum) , though all have been 'inverted' which may or may not be a factor. I also, having checked back, have not exceeded 7minutes in any of those sessions.
And... Guisi seems to have survived all of his suspension scenes (not that some of his antics don't make me fear for his safety!)
So what am I trying to say?
Be safe - please, please, please be safe.
If you don't feel its right or you have doubts - don't try, it's simply not worth it.
If you do feel its safe and you are certain - take 'baby steps' and don't leap straight into a full session. I don't think for a moment you would leap in, and your posts a
eady prove that you're slowly testing, checking and feeling your way into this
Have back-ups and escape options - lots of them! I know you do and will, but it doesn't hurt to say it.
If anything feels wrong, odd or just 'off', at any time, ABORT, ABORT, ABORT! - but I know I don't have to tell you that!
I know I've posted this final bit before, but worth saying again as it's my philosophy relating to self-bondage:
Self-bondage is risky, I fully acknowledge that fact, but so is driving a car, riding a bicycle, using a train, flying in an aeroplane, walking down a street, drinking , riding a horse and any number of activities that most of us probably undertake without much thought on a regular basis. The fact that I acknowledge and understand the risks I take when indulging myself in some solo kinky fun makes me more aware of those risks and therefor more careful in what I do (and don't do). I, and only I, choose to accept the risks of what I do and manage them as best I can, because the satisfaction and reward (pleasure, if you prefer) I obtain far outweighs those risks (as I perceive them) - which is equally the same for when I get in a car to drive, or catch a plane to fly, or speed down narrow muddy trails on my bike, shredding my shins on branches and brambles (err.....
).
Stay safe, but enjoy yourself
MJ