Hesitate and break up, before start a already set up session.

[Vacbedbound]

Today i plan to do a intense selfbondage Session. I planed it aeady yesterday, but i did not make the last step. I was so horny and thought the hole day about the feeling of being electro milked and held helpless in bondage. so i set up everything, but in the end i didn’t do the final step and so i want to do it today. 
I plan to do this Session: 
https://www.likera.com/forum/mybb/Thread...im-torture
With this entertaining device:
https://www.likera.com/forum/mybb/Thread...m-Cylinder

Thinking about being in this position makes me sooooo horny but short before the start, i hesitate to much. 
Have you ever head the same problem? Being horny, set up a session but don‘t do it, because you are too lazy and too scared? Would you be scared of that session too?

[Frank]

Know what you mean. It's the fear of the worst-case scenario that makes me back out. Living alone is great for alone time, but the isolation can be for days. If I was ever stuck, it could be the end of me. Choking or asphyxiation is my greatest fear, yet I routinely push the limits of gags and hoods. Why do us fetishists always push our limits?

The "quickly lock the last padlock before I can think" method we read in stories can be troublesome. That can lead to panic attacks or overlooking a small detail. With self-bondage I say take it slow, and you will feel it when the right time for your session is.

[Vacbedbound]

No, it is definitely not the fear of something could go wrong. I use electromagnets that hold the Metal plates on my wrist cuffs and i use batteries to power them. if anything goes Wrong, i will get free if the Batteries run out of power. The Batteries have only enough power to hold me for around 4-5 hours and after about one hour the magnet gets weak enough, that i can pull the metal plates off, with a lot of force. i think it is verry safe and i used it many times without any problems.

It is more the fear of the feeling to be tied up and being stimulated to forced orgasm. the fear of being helpless and not able to do something against the stimulation. Especially after Orgasm, because it can be overstimulation and i lose the lust very fast then.
But on the other side, that is exactly what makes me horny and it is what i want to experience! It is like a Fight between these feelings.

[Like Ra]

Bondage is not bondage unless you want to get out, but you can't 😊 If you are going to be safe, the release mechanism is reliable, then why not? If the fear is the fear of losing lust, then this is the fun exactly! You will have to build up the lust again! I can only help with intermediate entertainment - as you may know I use hypnofiles in my recent self-bondage sessions. To make it even more exciting you can add "a nasty file" to the playlist and set it on random.

[Kit-Katt]

Why do us fetishists always push our limits?

Presumably the same reason people jump out of planes: the thrill

Also, pushing past one's limit can sometimes open up a whole new array of options. Like there's a gag you've wanted to try, but you can't handle it. You work your way up to that size, pushing the limits of your stamina and jaw muscles. Once you can handle one that big for longer periods of time, you have a new favorite toy.

Want to do box-ties and/or frog-ties? Do some stretching, progressively use tighter restraints, and eventually you will be able to sit in a box or frog tie without issue, and can start adding more bits of fun.

This forum is full of athletes and adrenaline junkies of a very specific variety. 😁

Edit: ...and engineers, programmers, craftsmen, fashion experts....

[Like Ra]

Why do us fetishists always push our limits?

Presumably the same reason people jump out of planes: the thrill

Seeking for boundaries and going beyond is a natural feature of humans 😊