Came out to a gay male friend about my SB predilictions the other day, and he offered to be a safety.
So now there's somebody I can call and say 'If I don't call back by 8pm, get right over to my house, come in and rescue me'
😊
Some thoughts.
+ It's always good to have an additional safety "method"
+ He can always come over and play with you (ha-ha...)
+ You can try more risky scenarios
+ He can make photos of you to share on this site
+ You can tie each other in turn (not self-bondage, but so what?)
- You are shifting the responsibility to another person
- You can try more risky scenarios, but are you sure he will be in time?
- He can make photos of you to share with ...
As always, play safe and rely on yourself only.
Wish I had a safety person.
But that just gave a scary idea that would be great for an emergency release.
Over here we have a service called " Life Alert ".
They give you a device that you wear around your neck. If you fall, you can call for help. But, if you DROP it on the floor, it will automatically call dispatch. If you don't respond, they'll send everybody.
Of course you'll have some explaining to do, but you will be rescued.