Scenario help

[Gingersub]

I will soon have a week where the house will be empty and I'll have time to indulge in some self bondage. My problem is that I can never think of ways to tie myself up and enjoy it. 

Currently in my bag of tricks I have - a blindfold, leather collar, ball gag, leather wrist cuffs, various lengths of rope, 4 carabiners, 4 D rings, 2 rope ratchets, safety scissors,  clover clamps, nipple suckers, 3 chastity devices, an enema bag, inflatable butt plug and various sized dildos and vibrators.

My wife knows that I enjoy bondage and will be close enough that if she doesn't hear from me she can come to my rescue.  I'm having trouble thinking of ways to tie myself up for lengths of time and I'm hoping that someone will have some ideas as to how I can enjoy some self bondage. One other thing, I'm not permitted to have an orgasm and won't be till the end of the year.

[madjack]

I will soon have a week where the house will be empty and I'll have time to indulge in some self bondage. My problem is that I can never think of ways to tie myself up and enjoy it. 

Currently in my bag of tricks I have - a blindfold, leather collar, ball gag, leather wrist cuffs, various lengths of rope, 4 carabiners, 4 D rings, 2 rope ratchets, safety scissors,  clover clamps, nipple suckers, 3 chastity devices, an enema bag, inflatable butt plug and various sized dildos and vibrators.

My wife knows that I enjoy bondage and will be close enough that if she doesn't hear from me she can come to my rescue.  I'm having trouble thinking of ways to tie myself up for lengths of time and I'm hoping that someone will have some ideas as to how I can enjoy some self bondage. One other thing, I'm not permitted to have an orgasm and won't be till the end of the year.

Hi there

This is always a difficult question to answer, mostly because everyone has their own likes and dislikes about self-bondage; especially the how, when, where and what.

You certainly seem to have the 'when' and 'where' covered off as I assume from your post that you will be playing indoors at home.

And the toys you describe offer multiple possibilities (or should I say 'opportunities'?  😁 ) for the 'what' - but again you are the best placed to know what you enjoy most (or least if it is 'punishment' that you're looking for).

And finally the 'how'- well, that's very much your personal taste and also dependent upon how experienced you are in self-bondage. In my own 'home alone' play I still, even after all these years, try and start off with something simple (ok... simpler than some of my sessions at least!) and if you're not allowed to cum until 2018 then a slow build up of sessions might be a great way to enjoy the time and heighten the torment of chastity.

BTW - No Orgasm until the end of they year? Really?! That's got to be a tough challenge on its own, my self-bondage is always about achieving orgasm...       

...eventually!  😉

You should find lots of inspiration in the 'Completed sessions' section and also in 'Session ideas', plus there are lots of useful tips in the 'techniques' section.

The best advice I can offer is simply 'Play safe' and 'Enjoy' 


MJ

[Gingersub]

Hi, first can I say thank you for taking the time to read my post and to offer a reply based on your experience. I've tried a few self bondage scenarios before. They've always been somewhat simple though, I guess this is me wanting to take the next step and up the ante so to speak. In terms of the dislikes, I stay away from anything Involving scat or drawing blood. It's just not my thing. I do love my nipples being pulled, twisted bitten, the same goes for that other appendage between my legs. 

I think the trouble I've had in the past when I've done some bondage is that I kind of feel like there is something missing if that makes sense. No real struggle or restriction of my movements, or that I can end it just by unbuckling a strap or unlocking a padlock. I will have to set some time aside and look through the completed sessions. 

I really want the bondage to last longer than I think I can last. Longest time so far has been 30 minutes spreadeagled on the bed or hogtied on the floor. I guess my bondage imagination isn't up to scratch just yet.

Once again, thank you MJ for your insightful reply. 

P.s the orgasm denial is something my wife and I have been doing for some time now. End of the year will be the longest I've went so far. I get more pleasure from the denial than I do the release. Hey everyone's wired differently aren't we. 

Gingersub

[Vixien]

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P.s the orgasm denial is something my wife and I have been doing for some time now. End of the year will be the longest I've went so far. I get more pleasure from the denial than I do the release. Hey everyone's wired differently aren't we. 

Gingersub

"Weird" is a forbidden word here  😁

That "orgasm denial" game sounds very familiar to me. In January, my wife and me usually have a vacation week.  So, as a preparation for that time, I'm expecting that soon I will be drained, milked, etc, and then locked till vacation time. Last January it was two weeks.  Maybe I will be  drained during that time, maybe not.  If I will behave good, maybe. That depends on my wife's will and judgement.  However, cage will not be removed until that vacation week, and except that I will be tied up most of the day and night, I don't know what's coming. Of course I don't know when I will be locked.

[Like Ra]

P.s the orgasm denial is something my wife and I have been doing for some time now. End of the year will be the longest I've went so far. I get more pleasure from the denial than I do the release.

Same here 😋 My last orgasm is in my profile 😁

[Tinker D]

I thought he said Wired, as in electrical Wired.
So, where did you see Weird??

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P.s the orgasm denial is something my wife and I have been doing for some time now. End of the year will be the longest I've went so far. I get more pleasure from the denial than I do the release. Hey everyone's wired differently aren't we. 

Gingersub

"Weird" is a forbidden word here  😁

That "orgasm denial" game sounds very familiar to me. In January, my wife and me usually have a vacation week.  So, as a preparation for that time, I'm expecting that soon I will be drained, milked, etc, and then locked till vacation time. Last January it was two weeks.  Maybe I will be  drained during that time, maybe not.  If I will behave good, maybe. That depends on my wife's will and judgement.  However, cage will not be removed until that vacation week, and except that I will be tied up most of the day and night, I don't know what's coming. Of course I don't know when I will be locked.

[Vixien]

Hmmm, now when you pointed to that, I'am aware of "mistake". Well, we read with brain, and obviously  my brain think that wierd is more suitable to context then wired.

We have to wait for Gingersub to bring the verdict.

[Gingersub]

Sorry Vixien, but Tinker D is right. I wouldn't say anyone was weird for liking something out of the ordinary. That's why I said we're all 'wired' differently.

2weeks to go until I have time to indulge in some bondage. I can feel the excitement building aeady.

[Vixien]

Sorry Vixien, but Tinker D is right. I wouldn't say anyone was weird for liking something out of the ordinary. That's why I said we're all 'wired' differently.

2weeks to go until I have time to indulge in some bondage. I can feel the excitement building aeady.

No problem, I will blame my  brain  😊

[Tinker D]

Yea, well I'm not perfict eather. And my wiring sometimes get stray static
And shorts out.
Zzzzt?
There it goes again.