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RE: Sleeping in Bondage - Obsidian - 18 Jan 2025
(18 Jan 2025, 06:34 )Gitefétichistes Wrote: - Bondage lying on back. The shackles should not be too tight so as not to make a tourniquet. It gets uncomfortable but also makes for sweet dreams...
In terms of rope bondage, the Domina who trained me was a firm believer in the "two finger" rule. i could always get out of it. Well, she should not have challenged me with, "Try to get out of that!" i took it quite literally.
RE: Sleeping in Bondage - Gitefétichistes - 19 Jan 2025
(18 Jan 2025, 17:50 )Obsidian Wrote:(18 Jan 2025, 06:34 )Gitefétichistes Wrote: - Bondage lying on back. The shackles should not be too tight so as not to make a tourniquet. It gets uncomfortable but also makes for sweet dreams...
In terms of rope bondage, the Domina who trained me was a firm believer in the "two finger" rule. i could always get out of it. Well, she should not have challenged me with, "Try to get out of that!" i took it quite literally.
I've stopped giving challenges to my wife, who's a fighter. She wants to win so badly that she even hurts herself.
LAUGHING but 100% real: I've replaced the challenges with ‘if you don't manage to free yourself you'll get a little spanking’. As she likes being spanked, I'm more relaxed.
RE: Sleeping in Bondage - Obsidian - 19 Jan 2025
(19 Jan 2025, 06:36 )Gitefétichistes Wrote:(18 Jan 2025, 17:50 )Obsidian Wrote:(18 Jan 2025, 06:34 )Gitefétichistes Wrote: - Bondage lying on back. The shackles should not be too tight so as not to make a tourniquet. It gets uncomfortable but also makes for sweet dreams...
In terms of rope bondage, the Domina who trained me was a firm believer in the "two finger" rule. i could always get out of it. Well, she should not have challenged me with, "Try to get out of that!" i took it quite literally.
I've stopped giving challenges to my wife, who's a fighter. She wants to win so badly that she even hurts herself.
LAUGHING but 100% real: I've replaced the challenges with ‘if you don't manage to free yourself you'll get a little spanking’. As she likes being spanked, I'm more relaxed.
Yup, I was more than willing to play along. But, the gauntlet was thrown-down.
RE: Sleeping in Bondage - ltxrob - 06 Feb 2025
(13 Jan 2025, 00:56 )Like Ra Wrote: Something for the "Completed self-bondage sessions" sub-forum? 😉maybe... I'm sure I could write it up!! 😁
RE: Sleeping in Bondage - Vincy - 30 Sep 2025
Some time ago, i spent several nights in fetish wear.
With my then partner, I spent part of the night in rainwear and even one time a hazmat with gas mask.
The first hour is great. Sweet dreams, erotic stuff.
After that, IF you can fall asleep, I slept for a few hours and woke drenched, bathing in my own sweat.
As the sweat cools down, it gets cold, no matter how many layers of bondage are applied.
So, because I was distinctly uncomfortable, I used my safe word and got out.
Never tried to do something so drastic for selfbondage.
RE: Sleeping in Bondage - SelfB - 07 Oct 2025
Yeah, I've done this regularly over the years. I've got a few Sleep sacks in various thickness and material weight, so I use one of those that's going to be comfortable for the whole night.
Generally it will be, grabbing a pouch/thing type underwear thing, put that on and then putting a Lovense vibe in them, that keep the vibe secure in place but not too distracting or tight. Then it's a simple catsuit. I'll then set the vibe for open access to all my contact in the app, I'll also set an alarm for morning that triggers a long pattern I've got. Then I get in the sleep sack using a string.
It's not the most secure since I could get out reasonably easily, but until then it is bondage with the possibility of a mysterious visitor, then woken up in the morning with 90 or so mins of vibes.
I found not going too hard leads to a better experience, so the minimal stuff, since it does actually make sleep easier.
Generally I'll do this whenever my I've got a free house, or when i go stay at a hotel for a gig or what ever.
Sometimes I won't use the sleep sack, and instead I'll lock on lots of Lycra layers, with a collar and a timed padlock connected to a neck zip. There's more freedom of moment with this, but there is no escape if the vibes start.