04 Apr 2024, 01:47
Hello!
Over the years I've gotten into a fair few self-bondage sessions but never really appreciated what a good piece of rope can do for your wrists. I'd tried a few times but it had always seemed so complicated or been too loose compared with padlockable leather cuffs or just metallic handcuffs: That changed when I came across another user on this site!
The illustrious and lovely to speak to Anne! I'd seen a load of their videos (My Sister's Swimsuit being my all time favourite) and we got to talking.
After carrying out a request I had to bring back the sports bra from another video and to incorporate some toeties (Seriously, SUCH a lovely person to talk to!), I asked about how the wrists could be secured like in the video.
I was linked to this site and a tutorial by Anne for wrist coils; I was floored. Could it really be that simple? The answer was yes!
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(You can just about see the loop of the padlock in the middle of the cinch)
For my first attempt, I couldn't believe how secure it was. I couldn't wriggle out AT ALL and I took a picture in the mirror to prove it. Years of feeling metal bite into my wrists was over!
Naturally I wasn't happy with just my wrists being secured so I undid them and dressed up a little bit for a more proper session. I'm a 'less is more' sort of crossdresser i.e. I like being able to feel my skin on surfaces so I appreciate the session won't be to everyone's tastes!
I put on a black sports bra and wetlook pants, tied my ankles together, big toes (I consider this to be the ultimate form of submission/humiliation in bondage so I LOVE doing it), redid my wrists, and then padlocked the two together (courtesy of a D ring bound into my ankles)
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I did this in a hotel room due to the greater freedom it affords and I was aeady out for the day-
I had initially planned to use a ballgag harness with blindfold attached but I quickly figured that having everything separate would be more comfortable. I ended up settling with a 2 inch ballgag, sleepmask blindfold, and a cotton balaclava/hood to keep the blindfold in place. I also put some foam earplugs in to REALLY drive home the helplessness, as well as a plug up my backside. That was the first time I'd ever put anything up there but honestly it felt pretty good!
I was panicking initially with the darkness being so absolute but I really really wanted to go through with my first proper session and so didn't give into the fear. One quick wrist roping session later and I was completely helpless. I placed the key on the bed somewhere and that was that! I was a completely helpless prisoner of my own making! I switched on my plug to a nicely vibrating hum and just squirmed away, happy as anything! Honestly the worst part is that I eventually had to free myself to go and eat dinner.
If I have to critique anything is that the hogtie itself could've been even tighter, really make me struggle around! I've been considering other outfits too, mainly lycra.
I did want to upload part of my session here but I wasn't sure what sites are good for it these days. I considered Xhamster but there's an ID verification step which is an instant turn off to me. Please do let me know a) if you'd like to see the video at all b) what sites would be the best to upload and link here!
Thanks! As a first post on the site goes, hope you enjoy my first steps into a journey of ropey self-bondage!
Over the years I've gotten into a fair few self-bondage sessions but never really appreciated what a good piece of rope can do for your wrists. I'd tried a few times but it had always seemed so complicated or been too loose compared with padlockable leather cuffs or just metallic handcuffs: That changed when I came across another user on this site!
The illustrious and lovely to speak to Anne! I'd seen a load of their videos (My Sister's Swimsuit being my all time favourite) and we got to talking.
After carrying out a request I had to bring back the sports bra from another video and to incorporate some toeties (Seriously, SUCH a lovely person to talk to!), I asked about how the wrists could be secured like in the video.
I was linked to this site and a tutorial by Anne for wrist coils; I was floored. Could it really be that simple? The answer was yes!
[attachment=62583]
(You can just about see the loop of the padlock in the middle of the cinch)
For my first attempt, I couldn't believe how secure it was. I couldn't wriggle out AT ALL and I took a picture in the mirror to prove it. Years of feeling metal bite into my wrists was over!
Naturally I wasn't happy with just my wrists being secured so I undid them and dressed up a little bit for a more proper session. I'm a 'less is more' sort of crossdresser i.e. I like being able to feel my skin on surfaces so I appreciate the session won't be to everyone's tastes!
I put on a black sports bra and wetlook pants, tied my ankles together, big toes (I consider this to be the ultimate form of submission/humiliation in bondage so I LOVE doing it), redid my wrists, and then padlocked the two together (courtesy of a D ring bound into my ankles)
[attachment=62584]
I did this in a hotel room due to the greater freedom it affords and I was aeady out for the day-
I had initially planned to use a ballgag harness with blindfold attached but I quickly figured that having everything separate would be more comfortable. I ended up settling with a 2 inch ballgag, sleepmask blindfold, and a cotton balaclava/hood to keep the blindfold in place. I also put some foam earplugs in to REALLY drive home the helplessness, as well as a plug up my backside. That was the first time I'd ever put anything up there but honestly it felt pretty good!
I was panicking initially with the darkness being so absolute but I really really wanted to go through with my first proper session and so didn't give into the fear. One quick wrist roping session later and I was completely helpless. I placed the key on the bed somewhere and that was that! I was a completely helpless prisoner of my own making! I switched on my plug to a nicely vibrating hum and just squirmed away, happy as anything! Honestly the worst part is that I eventually had to free myself to go and eat dinner.
If I have to critique anything is that the hogtie itself could've been even tighter, really make me struggle around! I've been considering other outfits too, mainly lycra.
I did want to upload part of my session here but I wasn't sure what sites are good for it these days. I considered Xhamster but there's an ID verification step which is an instant turn off to me. Please do let me know a) if you'd like to see the video at all b) what sites would be the best to upload and link here!
Thanks! As a first post on the site goes, hope you enjoy my first steps into a journey of ropey self-bondage!