Like Ra's Naughty Forum

If I go too long without having an orgasm, I reach a point where all I can think of is needing to cum. It steals my focus from other parts of my life and makes me less able to do the things I really need to do. I hardly ever have orgasms, but when I do, it's almost for the same reason that I would get up to go pee. If my bladder is full, I can't think about anything but a full bladder. Orgasm is also something like that for me. During those times when I find myself needing to orgasm, it turns in to a big setup with all the bondage, latex and whatever else I need. After that it's over with for another few weeks until the next time. My wife also insists I have orgasms for prostate health. I can't argue with her, she's at least been to college for some medical training. My grandfather had his prostate removed when I was a kid, cancer I think so I don't want to take any chances of the same risk. If orgasms can keep that away, then *sigh*, I guess I'll do it.

As with anything in life, I think it varies.

I sure as heck don't buy what that NoFap movement is trying to preach as universal truths.


However, I do think of plain jerking off and squirting the same way I feel about vanilla intercourse; Boring.

My Lycra swimsuit fetish provides fantastics ways to extend arousal. Especially when working my nipples through the slippery swimsuit all the while the suit provides teasing levels of slick Lycra friction down there. 

I even try to avoid pre cum, so then you have an idea at what kind of arousal plateau I try to keep it.