04 Apr 2019, 04:07 (This post was last modified: 04 Apr 2019, 14:12 by Like Ra.)
Ok, today I pushed the limit. Got all dressed up, put on some street clothes over my dress up and went to the park. Sat down on the bench and started to removed my street clothes. First the shoes, then the jeans. Under my jeans were 4 pairs of panty hose. Next took off my jacket. Under my jacket was a shirt with a white vinyl skirt pull up around my chest. Stood up and adjusted my skirt. Sat down and put my heels on. My heart was pounding so hard my hands shacking to the point I could not buckle my stilettos properly. Got my ipad out and started to read. The bench I had chosen was set so you could only walk behind me so I was protected some what. You can hear the kids in the background, and see some people in the background. After awhile I decided to walk back to the hotel. There weren't many people around not. The walk is maybe a hundred yards across a walking bridge over the highway. I got the camera out again when I got to the bridge and started shooting pictures. That when I ran into people. A couple, coming from where I had come up the steps. Quickly I turned around and head the other way fast. I had a few choice words, cover your ears. Got the camera under control and put it away, then another couple coming up the steps right in front of me. They both looked me in the eyes and said something, both taking at the same time as I heard something like "nice or good xxxx" not sure about the rest, but they kept walking. and so did I
Got to a safe spot and put on my jeans and shoes.
I was so scared, heart just pounding. Now that I look back I'm thinking what did I expect, and a better question is, way was I so scared ?
I was fully clothed so no problem there. I wasn’t a threat to anyone. How can you be a threat dressed in stilletos? They looked like nice couples just out for a evening walk like me. So I get a few comment thrown at me. I sure there are people that hear that all the time.
So what do I try next?
Yes, a heart-pounding experience, I can imagine. I wouldn't dare... No female mask this time, right?
The knee-highs definitely pushed the whole look over the top 😋
And a side note: we all need to practice walking in high heels. Every day. In the most feminine way possible. I haven't worn any since it got colder in early October 😟 (BTW, it was my last "fetish&hypno time", it was too cold, and I was too busy...)
(04 Apr 2019, 14:24 )Like Ra Wrote: Yes, a heart-pounding experience, I can imagine. I wouldn't dare... No female mask this time, right?
The knee-highs definitely pushed the whole look over the top 😋
And a side note: we all need to practice walking in high heels. Every day. In the most feminine way possible. I haven't worn any since it got colder in early October 😟 (BTW, it was my last "fetish&hypno time", it was too cold, and I was too busy...)
Correct, no female mask on this time. I thought about it and then decided against it thinking it might draw too much attention. I also thought about the wig. I think I should have worn it and maybe it if people saw me from the side or back they would not have been so suspicious.
Your side note, are you saying I high heel walking need more practice? I feel like I'm getting better at it 😊 !
(05 Apr 2019, 03:00 )DressBindFun Wrote: I wonder if in other countries, like those in the EU are more accepting of someone walking around dressed like this ?
DBF
You're just a couple of steps away from being considered transgender. Can't tell what your face looks like, but if you shave your face and arms and learn to apply makeup, I imagine it would be more acceptable since there's many more people doing that these days.
(05 Apr 2019, 03:00 )DressBindFun Wrote: I wonder if in other countries, like those in the EU are more accepting of someone walking around dressed like this ?
DBF
You're just a couple of steps away from being considered transgender. Can't tell what your face looks like, but if you shave your face and arms and learn to apply makeup, I imagine it would be more acceptable since there's many more people doing that these days.
Interesting, I would consider it more of just cross-dressing than transgender. I've not got any real interest in change my sex,
Transgender does not mean you need/want to change sex. It is generally an umbrella term. Transsexual is a person who needs to have the body match who they know they are (from full gender confirmation surgery to even just living "looking like" but retaining genitalia - I fall in the second, I no longer need to have GCS but live full time)
Crossdresser is actually the politically correct term for transvestite, coined decades ago to have a label that did not have the stigma attached to it that TV does (they actually translated CD from TV. latin being trans - to cross, and vestite/vestis - clothing, drapery thus crossdress/crossdresser). There are varying levels of CD, from just panty fetishist all the way to dress to look like with full make up etc.
(05 Apr 2019, 21:59 )vanessa_fetish Wrote: Transgender does not mean you need/want to change sex. It is generally an umbrella term. Transsexual is a person who needs to have the body match who they know they are (from full gender confirmation surgery to even just living "looking like" but retaining genitalia - I fall in the second, I no longer need to have GCS but live full time)
Crossdresser is actually the politically correct term for transvestite, coined decades ago to have a label that did not have the stigma attached to it that TV does (they actually translated CD from TV. latin being trans - to cross, and vestite/vestis - clothing, drapery thus crossdress/crossdresser). There are varying levels of CD, from just panty fetishist all the way to dress to look like with full make up etc.
Thank you. I've never paid much attention to the details of these names/labels, but now I can. As they say, you learn something everyday.
(05 Apr 2019, 02:57 )DressBindFun Wrote: high heel walking need more practice? I feel like I'm getting better at it 😊 !
Exactly what I meant, practice helps, so we need to keep practising to get better 😉
Not that everybody can afford it, but it's VERY helpful, if another person with a lot of high-heel experience (read a girlfriend) could check your/my/our walking and advise. My wife always says, that I need to keep legs (knees) together, either while walking or standing. Never apart.
