(09 Oct 2025, 20:59 )Like Ra Wrote: (09 Oct 2025, 20:48 )Zooy Wrote: (09 Oct 2025, 00:25 )Like Ra Wrote: (08 Oct 2025, 14:41 )madjack Wrote: And I don't want to he neighbours to see as well.... 😋 Why? 😉
(Social force) = (old ladies) x (gossip) 
MJ will be forced to wear pantyhose in front of old ladies forever?
In my neighbourhood occasionally a guy walks around in a dress. I did hear about it from several old ladies before I ever saw the guy once. All I can say is, that it did not look spectacular at all.
Probably everybody here has better taste.
(09 Oct 2025, 21:23 )Zooy Wrote: I did hear about it from several old ladies before I ever saw the guy once. All I can say is, that it did not look spectacular at all. What did the old ladies say?
(09 Oct 2025, 22:33 )Like Ra Wrote: (09 Oct 2025, 21:23 )Zooy Wrote: I did hear about it from several old ladies before I ever saw the guy once. All I can say is, that it did not look spectacular at all. What did the old ladies say? "Did you know, that there is a man going around the neighbourhood in women's clothes?" In this case it wasn't anybody I knew, and I am not sure any of the ladies knew him (probably not), but if it would have been somebody they knew, the gossips would really get of the ground. Suppose it is you or me. The stories wil reach more people you know and because these gossips put things in a negative frame, people will consider you weird. And if they reach family, they may also disapprove. And if you have children it gets even worse. Of course, if you can all handle that, there would not be a problem, but most people like to be accepted by their environment, and hence try to avoid such a situation.
In my case, my wife knows my preferences for clothes and in the house she is very supportive, but she would feel rather bad, if her friends would find out.
In short: I can fully understand why @ madjack does not want his pantyhose hang out to dry for the whole neighbourhood to see and risk the gossips.
(09 Oct 2025, 22:45 )Zooy Wrote: (09 Oct 2025, 22:33 )Like Ra Wrote: (09 Oct 2025, 21:23 )Zooy Wrote: I did hear about it from several old ladies before I ever saw the guy once. All I can say is, that it did not look spectacular at all. What did the old ladies say? "Did you know, that there is a man going around the neighbourhood in women's clothes?" In this case it wasn't anybody I knew, and I am not sure any of the ladies knew him (probably not), but if it would have been somebody they knew, the gossips would really get of the ground. Suppose it is you or me. The stories wil reach more people you know and because these gossips put things in a negative frame, people will consider you weird. And if they reach family, they may also disapprove. And if you have children it gets even worse. Of course, if you can all handle that, there would not be a problem, but most people like to be accepted by their environment, and hence try to avoid such a situation.
In my case, my wife knows my preferences for clothes and in the house she is very supportive, but she would feel rather bad, if her friends would find out.
In short: I can fully understand why @madjack does not want his pantyhose hang out to dry for the whole neighbourhood to see and risk the gossips.
I can confirm this insight and example along with one of my own from our neighbourhood.
It is now open gossip that a couple, who live only a few doors away are having sex in their back garden, in view of neighbours, and in summer the man frequently walks outside naked or wearing a mankini. His wife quite openly goes into the street with a dress on that barely makes it over her belly (this I can personally attest to).
So far so 'so what?' but when you know they are both well past their 60th year......
I have no desire to replace them as the local talking point!!!!!
MJ
Am I the only one who has no idea who's saying what about whomever? 🤣
(10 Oct 2025, 00:48 )Like Ra Wrote: Am I the only one who has no idea who's saying what about whomever? 🤣
Maybe you have to talk more with the neighbours? And office talk can also be quite gossipy. But with all the working at home, that is becoming much less.
(10 Oct 2025, 16:09 )Zooy Wrote: Maybe you have to talk more with the neighbours? And office talk All these extra efforts to get scared of what I'm wearing? 🤣
My neighbours saw me in various pantyhose, very mini very tight shorts, and, possibly, even in high-heels and skirts (????). And I have no idea if they notice(d), care(d) or what they think about it 😅 We are just trying to be good neighbours, feed all neighbours' cats 😹, and generally be quiet and non-intrusive.
(This post was last modified: 10 Oct 2025, 17:27 by Like Ra.)
Back onto the thread's topic....
Yesterday was 'Dress up Friday' for me 😁
I started in office, of course, still in chastity and capturing the proof
Then a long walk through the forest, tights (ironically worn under running tights) and cage still on
Followed by a nice shower
Considering I'd started Locktober with low expectations, I'm (at time of typing) 8 day continuous chastity, plus the 3 days prior to that I was in chastity for a the majority of the working day.....
😁
MJ
Today (Saturday) started in stockings:
But as I am now being set tasks to complete, who knows where it might finish.
MJ
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