Samantha Bandler/Sez hypnosis

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Samantha Sez - Ask Me


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I have just today registered to this forum.

Wanted to tell my story. At the time when I came against my will into contact with the SB material I was in a very pure state, I was practicing buddhist meditation and took good care of me and my social life. My big point of pain was my sex life, I was not very good with women and have had two relationships, but also much difficulty with the other sex.

I had dabbled in substance use, but that never had been any problem for me.

All that changed gradually when I encountered SBs material on some platform, I think it was Youtube. I never had any wish or interest (for me) in anything other than women for sexuality and companionship.

Over the years, I consumed more and more of his material. It was the reason that one relationship which I started at that time failed, because my sexual energy was in part captured by this addiction to his material. I did not recognize it at that time.

Towards 2019 and 2020 my whole life started to disintegrate after that relationship had failed, and I descended into substance abuse. Lost my job, lost my home, lost a lot and at that time I was in contact with SB. While I did not tell him everything (out of shame), I clearly and multiple times let him know how his hypnosis jeopardized my sexual life and how I found it difficult to have a relationship with this "habit". He basically encouraged me on.

It became so bad that I nearly killed myself with drug abuse, went to a hospital and at that time I started another relationship with a woman. With her, I was open and told her about this, and she actually started to contact SB. From that point on, SB did stop the contact with me. He blocked me in his web store. He basically told my then girlfriend that hypnosis is nothing serious, after 2 weeks it is gone, and so on. Total lies.

Today I am still trying to recover from this. I have sought the help from multiple people, but have not found anyone that can really help me with this specific issue.

I think I can state that SB has destroyed my life with his non-consensual introduction of gender-change, addiction suggestions and a lot more dangerous stuff in his files. For many years he had his videos accessible to minors on Youtube and other platforms.

I know that the person behind SB is someone who has also practiced hypnosis as therapy, had a website online and I know some things. I have tried for a long time to have an open talk with him about what he did and still does do, but he always chickened out of that.

Comments left on his videos were always cleaned and shadowbanned on Youtube. He never really was honest with what he does. I encourage others to also tell their stories, and thank you for this platform.

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I have just today registered to this forum.

You are very welcome!

I came against my will

Could you please elaborate on this? Why against your will? Do you remember the year?

My big point of pain was my sex life, I was not very good with women and have had two relationships, but also much difficulty with the other sex.

So, it was already there, way before SB?

I had dabbled in substance use,

That was also way before SB?

It was the reason that one relationship which I started at that time failed, because my sexual energy was in part captured by this addiction to his material. I did not recognize it at that time.

Correlation does not imply causation. Especially, if there were issues "before".
BTW, how would you explain "my sexual energy was in part captured by this addiction to his material"? Did you acquire new fetishes? Did you enjoy them? Did you switch to your new fetishes, instead of pursuing girls? Did you start to masturbate more frequently?

I was in contact with SB. While I did not tell him everything (out of shame)

In other words, SB did not know about your issues, except the effects on your sexual life. Did you tell SB what for effects were they?

I found it difficult to have a relationship with this "habit".

What kind of "habit"?

Do you remember what kind of files did you listen to?

It became so bad

What happened?

I think I can state that SB has destroyed my life with his non-consensual introduction of gender-change,

Did you have some related fetishes before SB? For example, I loved tight clothes, rubber, self-bondage since I remember myself.

He basically encouraged me on.

What did SB say? Advised any files? If yes, which?

she actually started to contact SB. From that point on, SB did stop the contact with me. He blocked me in his web store.

That's a proper correct reaction from SB. For example, communication with SB is a trigger.

non-consensual introduction of gender-change, addiction suggestions

This is what SB is famous for. When did you discover that?

He never really was honest with what he does.

Not 100% true. See, for example, this: https://samathabandler.blogspot.com/2018...415d79f236

I encourage others to also tell their stories,

Absolutely! 👍

thank you for this platform.

🤎

I came against my will

Could you please elaborate on this? Why against your will?  Do you remember the year?
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I will reply to all your questions without referring to the quotes if you don't mind, as that keeps it easier to read.

The exact cause of what made me vulnerable to this type of thing I am still trying to find out. I know it has something to do with my mother. There have been family dynamics in my family of origin around sexuality that really made it very difficult as a young man to find sexual relations with women. I was very shy and had low self esteem, and while many parts of my life were successfull, I struggled a lot with my sexual urges. I kept going to porn sites, and I think it was on Youtube in I guess around 2012 or 2013 when I encountered material from SB.

Against my will because I never wanted to get addicted to hypnosis files, and all the myriad of effects that happened slowly over time from the many many hours of listening to his material. I especially never had any fetishes of any kind, be it clothing or even BDSM, All my contact with that sphere came after my contact with SB material.

What was there before was some kind of trauma or pain from way early in my childhood that kept me from living my normal male sexuality. And that made me search for some way to heal this. I had done some forms of therapy, and without now putting too much of my personal life online, it was a defining thing in my life because in all other areas I used to be successful.

My communications with SB were for many years rather sparse, but that was also because I resisted listening and viewing. I only resorted to listening and watching his videos occasionally. But the damage was that there was a very much intentional conditioning happening, that made me have my deepest, most pleasurable sexual experiences be when I was consuming his material. This slowly led to an erosion of the sexual life with my then girlfriend, who missed my attention and energy. That led to arguments, and less sex. That in turn led me to consume more of his material.

I was very naive maybe. But at that point in time I did not fully understand what was happening. And yes, I started to tell him about my worries and my efforts to find fulfillment in my sexual relationship, and late my search for a new partner.

He gave me "general advice", but I think that he himself has been through traumatic experiences with partners. I can only imagine what he must have experienced to bring him onto the path he choose to take. 
 
You ask what habit. The habit of choosing sexual pleasure with a fantasy and associating hypnosis with sex. And the myriad of other suggestions he gives. There are a lot of suggestions that - when consumed literally every day, and with substances, had bad health effects. The body has pain sensations for a reason, and suggestion you feel pain as numbness does not bode well when it makes you skip on important health procedures because you have numbed your pain with hypnotic suggestions.

As I wrote, I have had no fetishes. I used to have a beautiful sex life with my partners when I had one. I am a very loving, kind partner and for me the connection and intimacy in sexual contact were the most full-filling.

As to him being honest, well, he tries to portray himself as such, gives you suggestions to that regard, but if you look at the facts it is not true. He is a man, but in more than one way tries to make you believe he is a woman. He asks his followers to send him pictures, and uses these pictures, but when on the other hand is restrictive when his work is copied or distributed. I am very sure most of the women in his videos and slight shows would have very strong objections to their faces and bodies being used in this way. I don't think he is a bad person, but I am pretty sure he has a lot of issues himself that would need healing.

The thing is he is very good with what he does, has a good understanding of the human mind, but he uses it to feed his own sexual urges in a non-consensual way and earn money. The clearest thing is that he uses the disguise of a woman. I would never have listened to a mans voice hypnotizing me, plain and simple.

He even admitted that to me in an email, that many people would not. He goes on in his videos about manipulative techniques, and how we are all being conditioned by advertisements and smartphones, but yet, uses exactly these types of techniques while pretending to be a woman.

And yes, he only blocked me AFTER it involved a third person, a woman who called him out for what he does, and who he feared might report him to authorities.

I have lost the 10 most valuable years of my life, and I am really advising anyone to not get involved with this. It will lead nowhere. Short term pleasure will lead to long-term destruction of social life and the ability to have a normal sexual mate.

Hi all I’m interested in sbs files but where to start. What files do I listen to first and where would I be able to access them. Is the creator still active?

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I guess around 2012 or 2013 when I encountered material from SB.

That's the beginning of the hypno-hype.

He is a man

Like pretty much all hypnotists using TTS 🤪

I would never have listened to a mans voice

That's the answer exactly. In our forum, we have only one person, who would not listen to a female voice (@princesitanatty), so a female TTS is an obvious choice. I would do (and do) the same.

I especially never had any fetishes of any kind, be it clothing or even BDSM

The "general consensus" is that SB's files might affect "the vanilla" guys the most. And "the most corrupted ones" the least. Because, well, there is nothing in those files besides addiction, pleasure, occasional HFO, feminization/sissification, bisexualization, occasional limping. What overlaps with MsJ, Goddess Gracy, Kei, Bambi and many others. OTOH, SB is quite positive and mild with no bimbofication, incontinence, becoming a loser, etc. Even "embarrassing" suggestions are very rare, and, limited to EMG's original "Curse Stroke Sissy".

The "fetish/bondage" part is VERY limited and VERY boring. Just pink panties, bikini, black stockings, pink sweater... Shiny pantyhose, swimsuits, catsuits, latex pencil skirts, single-gloves, self-bondage are clearly not SB's fetishes 😆 Unfortunately ...

The thing is he is very good with what he does, has a good understanding of the human mind

In the addiction and pleasure area 😉

we are all being conditioned by advertisements and smartphones

Absolutely true. First of all by "the stationary bandits", aka governments (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stationary_bandit_theory)

uses exactly these types of techniques while pretending to be a woman.

It's rather the other way around: the ad campaigns, governments use the hypnosis and NLP techniques. SB uses such techniques by default and never hides this fact.
"Samantha" in SB's files has a cock. How come "Samantha" pretends to be a girl? 🤣
Also, in the early files SB speaks with his own manly voice (in "Bend over", AFAIR).

a woman who called him out for what he does, and who he feared might report him to authorities.

I seriously doubt it. You are of legal age. And, apparently, you "gave consent" to the following (the first page of SB's website):

I do not find adult content offensive or objectionable. I believe that as an adult I have the right to choose the content I am interested in, and I am choosing to enter this adult website to access adult content.
By entering this website, I agree to release, discharge, and hold harmless the providers, owners, and creators of this website from any and all liability which might arise from accessing, viewing or reading the adult content on this website.
Bookmarking or directly accessing any other page on this website and bypassing this agreement shall constitute an implicit acceptance of this agreement.

So, from the legal point of view, everything is covered.

It will lead nowhere. Short term pleasure will lead to long-term destruction of social life and the ability to have a normal sexual mate.

That's very reasonable, and that's why I have disclaimers in all the related threads. Indeed, it is possible.

a normal sexual mate.

Have you become "a bit bisexual"? At least, a bit?

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Hi all I’m interested in sbs files but where to start

Officially - the training files. In fact - it does not matter.

What files do I listen to first

The free ones in this thread.

where would I be able to access them

See the first 3 posts (I will move the video list to the 3d post).

Is the creator still active?

Absolutely. And even registered in this forum.

Thanks likera I’ve listened to a few videos they never had any affects on me but I just finished listening to bend over and omfg it was quite intense I nearly came but didn’t sadly I could actually feel my ass being fucked I wanted to get on all fours but didn’t. I’m going to listen to the second one in an hour

Does sb have a patreon? coz I might subscribe to it if they have.

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Does sb have a patreon?

SB was banned by Patreon.