https://www.likera.com/forum/mybb/ Mon, 27 Apr 2026 12:26:08 +0000 MyBB https://www.likera.com/forum/mybb/Thread-Hi-I%E2%80%99m-Lexi Mon, 09 Mar 2026 11:47:27 +0000 Laurenking]]> https://www.likera.com/forum/mybb/Thread-Hi-I%E2%80%99m-Lexi I have lots of triggers and experiences I like cam recordings and in person sessions . Newcastle uk

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  IMG_2153.jpeg (Size: 1.34 MB / Downloads: 13) ]]> https://www.likera.com/forum/mybb/Thread-Encasement-Adam-looking-for-friends-and-events Sat, 21 Feb 2026 10:12:21 +0000 Encasement_Adam]]> https://www.likera.com/forum/mybb/Thread-Encasement-Adam-looking-for-friends-and-events https://www.likera.com/forum/mybb/Thread-Hi-it-s-Jan Tue, 09 Dec 2025 13:34:25 +0000 JPEnc]]> https://www.likera.com/forum/mybb/Thread-Hi-it-s-Jan https://www.likera.com/forum/mybb/Thread-Tights-fetishist-from-the-UK Wed, 19 Nov 2025 06:26:36 +0000 Staffstights]]> https://www.likera.com/forum/mybb/Thread-Tights-fetishist-from-the-UK
I've just found this forum and look forward to reading and contributing to the pantyhose and stockings section.]]>
I've just found this forum and look forward to reading and contributing to the pantyhose and stockings section.]]> https://www.likera.com/forum/mybb/Thread-Sissy-Eve-checking-in Wed, 16 Jul 2025 13:44:56 +0000 SissyEve69]]> https://www.likera.com/forum/mybb/Thread-Sissy-Eve-checking-in

1. Hey all, closeted sissy here, I got by Evelynn or Eve. I have a love for the goth aesthetic, and desire to be a sexy goth woman at somepoint haha. Mostly looking for friends and hypno files. I’ve dabbled in them for years. Sez is one of my favorite creators but some of the files can give me anxiety. Been a sissy off and on for probably 16 years. Love to dress when I can, love to play with makeup and get dolled up, and love hypno and what it can be used for. I’m nerdy flirty and kinky. Feel free to message me if you want to know more
   

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1. Hey all, closeted sissy here, I got by Evelynn or Eve. I have a love for the goth aesthetic, and desire to be a sexy goth woman at somepoint haha. Mostly looking for friends and hypno files. I’ve dabbled in them for years. Sez is one of my favorite creators but some of the files can give me anxiety. Been a sissy off and on for probably 16 years. Love to dress when I can, love to play with makeup and get dolled up, and love hypno and what it can be used for. I’m nerdy flirty and kinky. Feel free to message me if you want to know more
   

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Background: If you ask me how I got into BDSM, the answer is simple: I knew very early that domination is in my blood. I grew up in a family where my father is dominant and my mother is submissive. However, I never lose confidence and dominance even though I was awashing in daily belittlement from my misogynist and beta loser father. He tried to shame me into conforming to his narrow views of femininity. I am sorry for him because his brainwashing on me never works! Instead, I embraced my strength and my power. I became a dominant girl, unafraid to take charge and assert myself in any situation. I refused to let anyone else define or limit me based on my gender. You may wonder why I did not become a submissive like my mother. It is possible to question self-value when you spent your childhood with such a misogynist and dictator father. I think partly because dominance is in my blood and partly because I had the right judgment when I was 7 or 8 years old which was I realized he is a total loser.

Introduction: In the amazing city of shanghai, I blend in seamlessly as an average office lady by day. However, beneath the guise of normalcy lies a secret identity that few are privy to - I am the female dominant, a BDSM educator-dominatrix who dominated and practised BDSM on over 600 submissive western men behind closed doors. For me, being a BDSM educator-dominatrix is not just a role to play, but a part of who I truly am. And as I continue to walk the fine line between light and darkness, I know that my journey is far from over - for the world is full of submissive men just waiting to fall under my spell.
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Background: If you ask me how I got into BDSM, the answer is simple: I knew very early that domination is in my blood. I grew up in a family where my father is dominant and my mother is submissive. However, I never lose confidence and dominance even though I was awashing in daily belittlement from my misogynist and beta loser father. He tried to shame me into conforming to his narrow views of femininity. I am sorry for him because his brainwashing on me never works! Instead, I embraced my strength and my power. I became a dominant girl, unafraid to take charge and assert myself in any situation. I refused to let anyone else define or limit me based on my gender. You may wonder why I did not become a submissive like my mother. It is possible to question self-value when you spent your childhood with such a misogynist and dictator father. I think partly because dominance is in my blood and partly because I had the right judgment when I was 7 or 8 years old which was I realized he is a total loser.

Introduction: In the amazing city of shanghai, I blend in seamlessly as an average office lady by day. However, beneath the guise of normalcy lies a secret identity that few are privy to - I am the female dominant, a BDSM educator-dominatrix who dominated and practised BDSM on over 600 submissive western men behind closed doors. For me, being a BDSM educator-dominatrix is not just a role to play, but a part of who I truly am. And as I continue to walk the fine line between light and darkness, I know that my journey is far from over - for the world is full of submissive men just waiting to fall under my spell.
]]> https://www.likera.com/forum/mybb/Thread-Sensual-Tiffany-says-Hi Wed, 18 Jun 2025 22:08:43 +0000 SensualTiffany]]> https://www.likera.com/forum/mybb/Thread-Sensual-Tiffany-says-Hi
This fun journey started when a girlfriend asked if she "could fuck me."

I thought she meant get on top and have sex.  I smiled and said sure.  She smiled huge and jumped up, giddy, running to her closet and returned with two dildos.

Gulp.

Ok, so I enjoyed it.  She enjoyed it.  Before you know it we were picking out a strapon together in a sex shop and starting to play with some gender bending.

Other women in my life enjoyed it too-  One really enjoyed the who feminine shampoo, lotions, nail polish, etc.  My inner girl emerged and I have learned to embrace her.  That's Tiffany.

Another fun aspect was hypnosis and I have really enjoyed some, but never all the way.  So now I make my own and am on the quest for the ultimate feminization hypno files for my own use.  There are some that are video, but the audio ones are true hypnosis and the ones I enjoy most.

If you want to know what my INNER girl looks like, here I am:
(Full disclosure - Yes, these are augmented by AI)
Another tool with which you can use to explore your femininity. 

Tiffany

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This fun journey started when a girlfriend asked if she "could fuck me."

I thought she meant get on top and have sex.  I smiled and said sure.  She smiled huge and jumped up, giddy, running to her closet and returned with two dildos.

Gulp.

Ok, so I enjoyed it.  She enjoyed it.  Before you know it we were picking out a strapon together in a sex shop and starting to play with some gender bending.

Other women in my life enjoyed it too-  One really enjoyed the who feminine shampoo, lotions, nail polish, etc.  My inner girl emerged and I have learned to embrace her.  That's Tiffany.

Another fun aspect was hypnosis and I have really enjoyed some, but never all the way.  So now I make my own and am on the quest for the ultimate feminization hypno files for my own use.  There are some that are video, but the audio ones are true hypnosis and the ones I enjoy most.

If you want to know what my INNER girl looks like, here I am:
(Full disclosure - Yes, these are augmented by AI)
Another tool with which you can use to explore your femininity. 

Tiffany

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I am 38 male trying to discover and understand my dark, sub side.
I've been following the forum for over a year. There is a lot of valuable content so I have decided to register.
I am into rubber (boots😉, latex, pantyhose, femdom, bondage, cbt, crossdressing and much more.

I recently discovered erotic hypnosis, this opened up new possibilities for me.
Thank you for the content  😋]]>
I am 38 male trying to discover and understand my dark, sub side.
I've been following the forum for over a year. There is a lot of valuable content so I have decided to register.
I am into rubber (boots😉, latex, pantyhose, femdom, bondage, cbt, crossdressing and much more.

I recently discovered erotic hypnosis, this opened up new possibilities for me.
Thank you for the content  😋]]> https://www.likera.com/forum/mybb/Thread-Hi--4351 Mon, 31 Mar 2025 19:14:10 +0000 sextoydbdotcom]]> https://www.likera.com/forum/mybb/Thread-Hi--4351 sextoydb.com. I'm a wordpress developer by day, and an enormous kinky fucker by night. I discovered this forum years ago while exploring self-bondage, though nowadays, my wife primarily handles the tying me up side of things. I spent silly amounts of money buying kinky crap from AliExpress, so I'd love to report back on those finds. My gag collection is obscene; my dildo collection requires an entire spare room. I have about .. five.. fucking machines? Plus a few strokers. Tons of vibrators. I lose count. 

I've dablled a bit in programming fuck toys (I made this cabinet that lights up to choose toys you have to play with that session), but it's only with the rise of AI-assisted code editors that I've got back into it lately. I made a cock trumps game where you compare dick stats. Love dice for some quick foreplay. Right now I'm working on a fucking machine controller/storyteller. It's not released yet, but it can already connect to a Hismith Premium, playback random speeds for a set interval, ramp up/down, or do a "story mode", which is a pre-scripted mix of modes/speeds with voice guidance. Basically, I'm working toward the ultimate fantasy of AI-controlled multiple fuck machines and strokes that I can be tied into and let it take over a session. 

Anyway, hope to contribute here in any way I can and get feedback on software when it's ready for release!]]> sextoydb.com. I'm a wordpress developer by day, and an enormous kinky fucker by night. I discovered this forum years ago while exploring self-bondage, though nowadays, my wife primarily handles the tying me up side of things. I spent silly amounts of money buying kinky crap from AliExpress, so I'd love to report back on those finds. My gag collection is obscene; my dildo collection requires an entire spare room. I have about .. five.. fucking machines? Plus a few strokers. Tons of vibrators. I lose count. 

I've dablled a bit in programming fuck toys (I made this cabinet that lights up to choose toys you have to play with that session), but it's only with the rise of AI-assisted code editors that I've got back into it lately. I made a cock trumps game where you compare dick stats. Love dice for some quick foreplay. Right now I'm working on a fucking machine controller/storyteller. It's not released yet, but it can already connect to a Hismith Premium, playback random speeds for a set interval, ramp up/down, or do a "story mode", which is a pre-scripted mix of modes/speeds with voice guidance. Basically, I'm working toward the ultimate fantasy of AI-controlled multiple fuck machines and strokes that I can be tied into and let it take over a session. 

Anyway, hope to contribute here in any way I can and get feedback on software when it's ready for release!]]> https://www.likera.com/forum/mybb/Thread-Australia Thu, 20 Mar 2025 12:15:31 +0000 XXY]]> https://www.likera.com/forum/mybb/Thread-Australia
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From the age of 5, I was more interested in girly stuff. I felt more comfortable in pink than blue sort of thing. BUT I’m in no way the nature of my identity. I’m male. But I’m a male that is more female… if that makes sense. 

I’ve hidden that part of me from everyone out of fear of ridicule or rejection. I definitely would never tell my girlfriend about my dirty little secret.

What’s my secret?

I am obsessed with swimwear and dancewear. I cannot get enough. When I wear it, I feel two things. I feel like I’m being hugged and I feel pretty. I will wear push up or t-shirt bra, bikini, one piece, leotards, leggings, panties… anything that makes me feel pretty and held. 

Here’s the twist in my life that I did not see coming!

I met the person I want to share my life with and I was more than ready to leave that part of me behind to share my future with her. 
One day, out of nowhere I decided I would gently tell her about my thing. After spending enough time with her, I was able to see just how accepting she is of anyone. She doesn’t care, she just wants people to be happy!  So after freaking out and then eventually working up the courage to tell her, I finally did. Her response… oh I thought you were gonna tell me something bad! 

You cannot begin to imaging just how excited and relieved I felt. I hid that secret for 34 years and the first person I tell, turns out to be the right person. That night, she ordered me a one piece swimsuit and was excited for me to get it. That was about 6 months ago. Since then, she has been working hard to encourage me to love who I am and the extra chromosome. She tells me I look beautiful or pretty when I put them on. When we shop she picks things out for me or even just comes home with a new bra or swimsuit for me. She’s inspired me so much that I will go swimming with her and wear my swimsuit in public. I don’t fear anything. I’m not cross dressing, I’m not experimenting, I’m just me. And thanks to her, I know that. 
She says I’m the perfect man, because I give her the best of both worlds. I’m very attentive in bed (reckons I eat pussy like a lesbian), I’m more relaxed and in touch and I’m not one of those men! 


What I would like to know, is there anyone else out there the same as me?]]>
From the age of 5, I was more interested in girly stuff. I felt more comfortable in pink than blue sort of thing. BUT I’m in no way the nature of my identity. I’m male. But I’m a male that is more female… if that makes sense. 

I’ve hidden that part of me from everyone out of fear of ridicule or rejection. I definitely would never tell my girlfriend about my dirty little secret.

What’s my secret?

I am obsessed with swimwear and dancewear. I cannot get enough. When I wear it, I feel two things. I feel like I’m being hugged and I feel pretty. I will wear push up or t-shirt bra, bikini, one piece, leotards, leggings, panties… anything that makes me feel pretty and held. 

Here’s the twist in my life that I did not see coming!

I met the person I want to share my life with and I was more than ready to leave that part of me behind to share my future with her. 
One day, out of nowhere I decided I would gently tell her about my thing. After spending enough time with her, I was able to see just how accepting she is of anyone. She doesn’t care, she just wants people to be happy!  So after freaking out and then eventually working up the courage to tell her, I finally did. Her response… oh I thought you were gonna tell me something bad! 

You cannot begin to imaging just how excited and relieved I felt. I hid that secret for 34 years and the first person I tell, turns out to be the right person. That night, she ordered me a one piece swimsuit and was excited for me to get it. That was about 6 months ago. Since then, she has been working hard to encourage me to love who I am and the extra chromosome. She tells me I look beautiful or pretty when I put them on. When we shop she picks things out for me or even just comes home with a new bra or swimsuit for me. She’s inspired me so much that I will go swimming with her and wear my swimsuit in public. I don’t fear anything. I’m not cross dressing, I’m not experimenting, I’m just me. And thanks to her, I know that. 
She says I’m the perfect man, because I give her the best of both worlds. I’m very attentive in bed (reckons I eat pussy like a lesbian), I’m more relaxed and in touch and I’m not one of those men! 


What I would like to know, is there anyone else out there the same as me?]]> https://www.likera.com/forum/mybb/Thread-Hello-kinksters Tue, 01 Oct 2024 19:38:23 +0000 Nylonika]]> https://www.likera.com/forum/mybb/Thread-Hello-kinksters Just wanted to introduce myself. UK based kinkster here. After years as a dom/daddy, I have swung absolutely the other way and am now totally into bondage, submission, and humiliation now. It’s been quite a journey! Recently stumbled across this forum. Looks like fun!
Love: bondage, pantyhose
Hate: poetry
Curious about: hypnosis, feminisation 
On Fetlife (pm for details)]]> Just wanted to introduce myself. UK based kinkster here. After years as a dom/daddy, I have swung absolutely the other way and am now totally into bondage, submission, and humiliation now. It’s been quite a journey! Recently stumbled across this forum. Looks like fun!
Love: bondage, pantyhose
Hate: poetry
Curious about: hypnosis, feminisation 
On Fetlife (pm for details)]]> https://www.likera.com/forum/mybb/Thread-Life-story Thu, 05 Sep 2024 19:22:30 +0000 fiftysometing]]> https://www.likera.com/forum/mybb/Thread-Life-story
Longtime lycra enthusiast here... my earliest memories in the 60's had me daydreaming about wearing tights that I saw little girls wore. I was always jealous of them. I remember being given a coloring book at a young age with kids in them, and I would ALWAYS color the legs of the girls in tights. I got a crush on a girl in 6th grade primarily because she started wearing pantyhose under her skirts and dresses at school.

As I got older, one of my older brothers was involved in drama when he was in high school, and he was in some production where he had to wear thick black tights with trunks underneath them. When he moved out, he (inexplicably?) left them in his dresser drawer, so of course I took them. They were heavenly and I wore them often to bed. When I finally reached high school, I got involved in drama myself and we put on a production of A Midsummer Night's Dream where many cast members wore tights and leotards as part of their costumes, including guys. Sadly, I didn't get selected for a part and ended up working on the tech side, so of course I was insanely jealous of the guys (but couldn't let anyone know). After the production was done, I did manage to "procure" a set of leotards and tights from the drama dept. storage and take them home. It was my first leotard and I was definitely hooked.

Over the years, I went through the same binge/purge cycle that many of us have. In my 20's, I met a young lady who loved wearing shiny black spandex leggings (this was in the 80's) and of course she caught my eye. As we dated, I decided to purge again because I didn't want her finding my stuff at my apartment. Later, though, we started working out together at my apartment to Jane Fonda videos and the like, and to my delight, she suggested I start wearing a unitard. I acted casual about it, but of course deep inside I was thrilled. I waited awhile and then finally bought one and she loved it on me. We worked out that way for a long time and I slowly added to my collection, but nothing crazy. 

After we married, we continued to work out together and she seemed open to me expanding my collection, but it was still just unitards. One day, we stumbled upon a dancewear shop that was going out of business and they had TONS of dance tights (mostly shiny) on clearance at ridiculously low prices. We bought a huge collection of them, and we agreed to get about half of them in my size, in every color you can think of. It was amazing. When we got home that night, we both wanted to work out in our new tights. I was dressing in the bedroom while she was in the bathroom. I already knew that just sheer tights weren't going to be enough and that I was going to need a leotard... so I called out to her through the bathroom door, asking if I could wear one of her leotards over the tights. She said, "sure, whatever you want" and I just about passed out with excitement. I opened her drawer and pulled on a yellow tank-top number. The fit was a bit tight (she's smaller than me) but exquisite. I got hard immediately. She walked out of the bathroom moments later in her leotard and new tights, took one look at me and grinned. She came up to hug and kiss me and told me how she could see I was turned on. She seemed surprisingly happy about it! We did our workout together and made love afterwards. I was then certain I had hit the jackpot with this woman.

Over the course of the next couple years, I bought my own leotards to work out in, and sometimes we'd work out together and sometimes I'd work out alone when she got home from work late. Roller-blading was big back then and we both bought blades and would go skating on nearby hiking/biking trails, and I would typically wear a t-shirt over a unitard. It was about this time that I could tell she was starting to get less enthusiastic about my dressing, but she never complained. Occasionally I would wear them to bed, and I think it was at this point that she knew it was becoming an obsession. Little did she know that it had been an obsession for my entire life and I was just repressing it.

After a few years of marriage, she agreed to sign up for a jazz dance class with me. She knew I wanted to do it specifically because I wanted an excuse to wear lycra in public, but she was willing to do it for me and was supportive. Less than a month later, before the class had started, she got pregnant. She didn't want to take any chances with the baby, so she decided to back out of the class, but was still willing to let me go alone. So I did, typically wearing a t-shirt over a long-sleeved unitard, and that over a thong leotard and tights. Occasionally I would wear a pair of patterned leggings over the solid-colored unitard, back in the day when leggings were not really the "thing" they are today. I think most of the handful of women in the class, including the instructor, suspected something was "up" with me, but they never said anything. One time on a warmer day, I didn't wear a unitard but just a t-shirt over patterned leggings, which were over a thong leotard and tights. Thong leotards were just hitting the scene at this time and few women were wearing them, and none in this class. The one I was wearing was a little small for me, and as we were moving about in class I could tell feel it riding up my sides and crack while my bottom layer of leggings had come down a bit. Of course, this is the one day that the instructor was having trouble seeing if I was moving my torso properly, so she asked me if I was wearing a unitard and could take off my shirt. I just shook my head no. I couldn't do it. She would know I was wearing a thong leotard if I did and even though I knew she suspected something was up with me, that was a bridge too far. Lucky for me, she didn't insist even though I'm sure she could see the outline of the tank leotard straps under my shirt. She had to know I had a unitard or leotard on underneath, even though I shook my head.

Beyond that, I enjoyed the class each week and my wife asked me about what I learned when I came home each week as well... but interestingly didn't ask me about the reactions of any others in the class, even though she knew I was testing boundaries. It whetted my appetite for more, but that wasn't meant to be.

As our kids started popping out, by necessity my passion went into the closet for many years. I still had a "stash" in a secret location that I would take with me on business trips, and this kept me going during the years when our kids were at home. I developed a habit of working out in hotel gyms in lycra, initially starting very gingerly by wearing sweat pants and t-shirts over a unitard on the way to/from the gym, always with a thong leotard/tights underneath for support of my package. When I got there and was alone, I'd take off the sweat pants and just work out with a t-shirt over the unitard. Over time, I'd get more and more daring and I eventually graduated to the point where I would wear thong leotards over unitards -- with nothing else on -- all the way from the hotel room to the gym and back again, knowing that I was on the hotel cameras while doing so and risking crossing with people on the way to/from, which happened a couple times over the years, but of course was part of the allure of it all. With the full-wall mirrors most hotel gyms have, I would work out and enjoy the sights of myself while doing it. It was amazing. I took many hundreds (thousands?) of photos over the years and will need to post some of them here.

I kept wearing more and more daring and colorful outfits, switching them up every time, and I would time my gym visits to be late at night so that I could typically have the gym to myself. On some rare occasions, someone else would come in and I would just keep working out as if nothing was out of the ordinary. Or course, I could see my heart rate spike if I was on a machine monitoring that. What a thrill!!! No one would ever say anything, though I'm sure they were a bit shocked. Since my travels usually took me to the same city over and over, I found a particular hotel that had an ideal setup for me in terms of gym location and hours. The staff there knew what I was doing for sure because the gym had a security camera in it and I had seen the security camera monitor behind the desk. One time, OF COURSE on the day where I decided to wear a hot-pink thong leotard over a pink long-sleeved unitard, the manager walks in to the gym with an employee while talking about this-and-that and goes over to do something with the water dispenser. They said nothing to me, nor I to them, and were only in there for a minute or two, but it seemed pretty clear to me that they just wanted to see this sight in person that they had been seeing on the cameras and perhaps send a message to me that they knew what I was doing, even though I had to already know that from the security cameras seeing me. But they never tried to stop me because I never did anything improper -- I just came in for my workout, did it, and went back to my room. I was just clothed VERY unconventionally.

As our kids grew and started moving out, I would wear lycra to bed most evenings. Our kids were trained from a young age not to come into our bedroom when the doors were closed, so it was always safe to do so. AFAIK, they never discovered my fetish. There were certainly never any hints that they had, anyway. 

Eventually, though, it got to where my wife really didn't want me to do it anymore. Even though our love life was still solid, she ultimately told me it was a turn-off for her, even though earlier on she was very supportive. Although she never gave me an ultimatum, she did want me to stop buying and wearing. But I simply could not do that. By that point, it was a very ingrained part of my being. She let me persist, and we are still married, but our love life has died off -- though I think the lycra part of it is not really the reason.

Anyway, I've stayed fit all these years and even though I don't travel on business anymore like I once did, I "discovered" leggings a few years ago, and as someone who hikes as part of his fitness regimen, and still having a pretty fit body at my age, I now wear leggings whenever I hike, almost always in the evenings when the trails are quieter. I happen to think my legs look pretty good in tights, even today. I have a routine of taking pictures of myself in every single outfit I wear while hiking and since my collection is VAST (I have over 2,000 pair of leggings... yes two THOUSAND, not mention hundreds and hundreds of tights, leos, unitards, and zentai), I have accumulated quite an album over the years. I'll show you just one as an intro here. I've posted some more on a different thread, where I made my first post.

So that's my life story, in brief -- lol. I hope you enjoyed it. Nice to meet you all!


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Longtime lycra enthusiast here... my earliest memories in the 60's had me daydreaming about wearing tights that I saw little girls wore. I was always jealous of them. I remember being given a coloring book at a young age with kids in them, and I would ALWAYS color the legs of the girls in tights. I got a crush on a girl in 6th grade primarily because she started wearing pantyhose under her skirts and dresses at school.

As I got older, one of my older brothers was involved in drama when he was in high school, and he was in some production where he had to wear thick black tights with trunks underneath them. When he moved out, he (inexplicably?) left them in his dresser drawer, so of course I took them. They were heavenly and I wore them often to bed. When I finally reached high school, I got involved in drama myself and we put on a production of A Midsummer Night's Dream where many cast members wore tights and leotards as part of their costumes, including guys. Sadly, I didn't get selected for a part and ended up working on the tech side, so of course I was insanely jealous of the guys (but couldn't let anyone know). After the production was done, I did manage to "procure" a set of leotards and tights from the drama dept. storage and take them home. It was my first leotard and I was definitely hooked.

Over the years, I went through the same binge/purge cycle that many of us have. In my 20's, I met a young lady who loved wearing shiny black spandex leggings (this was in the 80's) and of course she caught my eye. As we dated, I decided to purge again because I didn't want her finding my stuff at my apartment. Later, though, we started working out together at my apartment to Jane Fonda videos and the like, and to my delight, she suggested I start wearing a unitard. I acted casual about it, but of course deep inside I was thrilled. I waited awhile and then finally bought one and she loved it on me. We worked out that way for a long time and I slowly added to my collection, but nothing crazy. 

After we married, we continued to work out together and she seemed open to me expanding my collection, but it was still just unitards. One day, we stumbled upon a dancewear shop that was going out of business and they had TONS of dance tights (mostly shiny) on clearance at ridiculously low prices. We bought a huge collection of them, and we agreed to get about half of them in my size, in every color you can think of. It was amazing. When we got home that night, we both wanted to work out in our new tights. I was dressing in the bedroom while she was in the bathroom. I already knew that just sheer tights weren't going to be enough and that I was going to need a leotard... so I called out to her through the bathroom door, asking if I could wear one of her leotards over the tights. She said, "sure, whatever you want" and I just about passed out with excitement. I opened her drawer and pulled on a yellow tank-top number. The fit was a bit tight (she's smaller than me) but exquisite. I got hard immediately. She walked out of the bathroom moments later in her leotard and new tights, took one look at me and grinned. She came up to hug and kiss me and told me how she could see I was turned on. She seemed surprisingly happy about it! We did our workout together and made love afterwards. I was then certain I had hit the jackpot with this woman.

Over the course of the next couple years, I bought my own leotards to work out in, and sometimes we'd work out together and sometimes I'd work out alone when she got home from work late. Roller-blading was big back then and we both bought blades and would go skating on nearby hiking/biking trails, and I would typically wear a t-shirt over a unitard. It was about this time that I could tell she was starting to get less enthusiastic about my dressing, but she never complained. Occasionally I would wear them to bed, and I think it was at this point that she knew it was becoming an obsession. Little did she know that it had been an obsession for my entire life and I was just repressing it.

After a few years of marriage, she agreed to sign up for a jazz dance class with me. She knew I wanted to do it specifically because I wanted an excuse to wear lycra in public, but she was willing to do it for me and was supportive. Less than a month later, before the class had started, she got pregnant. She didn't want to take any chances with the baby, so she decided to back out of the class, but was still willing to let me go alone. So I did, typically wearing a t-shirt over a long-sleeved unitard, and that over a thong leotard and tights. Occasionally I would wear a pair of patterned leggings over the solid-colored unitard, back in the day when leggings were not really the "thing" they are today. I think most of the handful of women in the class, including the instructor, suspected something was "up" with me, but they never said anything. One time on a warmer day, I didn't wear a unitard but just a t-shirt over patterned leggings, which were over a thong leotard and tights. Thong leotards were just hitting the scene at this time and few women were wearing them, and none in this class. The one I was wearing was a little small for me, and as we were moving about in class I could tell feel it riding up my sides and crack while my bottom layer of leggings had come down a bit. Of course, this is the one day that the instructor was having trouble seeing if I was moving my torso properly, so she asked me if I was wearing a unitard and could take off my shirt. I just shook my head no. I couldn't do it. She would know I was wearing a thong leotard if I did and even though I knew she suspected something was up with me, that was a bridge too far. Lucky for me, she didn't insist even though I'm sure she could see the outline of the tank leotard straps under my shirt. She had to know I had a unitard or leotard on underneath, even though I shook my head.

Beyond that, I enjoyed the class each week and my wife asked me about what I learned when I came home each week as well... but interestingly didn't ask me about the reactions of any others in the class, even though she knew I was testing boundaries. It whetted my appetite for more, but that wasn't meant to be.

As our kids started popping out, by necessity my passion went into the closet for many years. I still had a "stash" in a secret location that I would take with me on business trips, and this kept me going during the years when our kids were at home. I developed a habit of working out in hotel gyms in lycra, initially starting very gingerly by wearing sweat pants and t-shirts over a unitard on the way to/from the gym, always with a thong leotard/tights underneath for support of my package. When I got there and was alone, I'd take off the sweat pants and just work out with a t-shirt over the unitard. Over time, I'd get more and more daring and I eventually graduated to the point where I would wear thong leotards over unitards -- with nothing else on -- all the way from the hotel room to the gym and back again, knowing that I was on the hotel cameras while doing so and risking crossing with people on the way to/from, which happened a couple times over the years, but of course was part of the allure of it all. With the full-wall mirrors most hotel gyms have, I would work out and enjoy the sights of myself while doing it. It was amazing. I took many hundreds (thousands?) of photos over the years and will need to post some of them here.

I kept wearing more and more daring and colorful outfits, switching them up every time, and I would time my gym visits to be late at night so that I could typically have the gym to myself. On some rare occasions, someone else would come in and I would just keep working out as if nothing was out of the ordinary. Or course, I could see my heart rate spike if I was on a machine monitoring that. What a thrill!!! No one would ever say anything, though I'm sure they were a bit shocked. Since my travels usually took me to the same city over and over, I found a particular hotel that had an ideal setup for me in terms of gym location and hours. The staff there knew what I was doing for sure because the gym had a security camera in it and I had seen the security camera monitor behind the desk. One time, OF COURSE on the day where I decided to wear a hot-pink thong leotard over a pink long-sleeved unitard, the manager walks in to the gym with an employee while talking about this-and-that and goes over to do something with the water dispenser. They said nothing to me, nor I to them, and were only in there for a minute or two, but it seemed pretty clear to me that they just wanted to see this sight in person that they had been seeing on the cameras and perhaps send a message to me that they knew what I was doing, even though I had to already know that from the security cameras seeing me. But they never tried to stop me because I never did anything improper -- I just came in for my workout, did it, and went back to my room. I was just clothed VERY unconventionally.

As our kids grew and started moving out, I would wear lycra to bed most evenings. Our kids were trained from a young age not to come into our bedroom when the doors were closed, so it was always safe to do so. AFAIK, they never discovered my fetish. There were certainly never any hints that they had, anyway. 

Eventually, though, it got to where my wife really didn't want me to do it anymore. Even though our love life was still solid, she ultimately told me it was a turn-off for her, even though earlier on she was very supportive. Although she never gave me an ultimatum, she did want me to stop buying and wearing. But I simply could not do that. By that point, it was a very ingrained part of my being. She let me persist, and we are still married, but our love life has died off -- though I think the lycra part of it is not really the reason.

Anyway, I've stayed fit all these years and even though I don't travel on business anymore like I once did, I "discovered" leggings a few years ago, and as someone who hikes as part of his fitness regimen, and still having a pretty fit body at my age, I now wear leggings whenever I hike, almost always in the evenings when the trails are quieter. I happen to think my legs look pretty good in tights, even today. I have a routine of taking pictures of myself in every single outfit I wear while hiking and since my collection is VAST (I have over 2,000 pair of leggings... yes two THOUSAND, not mention hundreds and hundreds of tights, leos, unitards, and zentai), I have accumulated quite an album over the years. I'll show you just one as an intro here. I've posted some more on a different thread, where I made my first post.

So that's my life story, in brief -- lol. I hope you enjoyed it. Nice to meet you all!


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Married man, we started dabbling in chastity a year or so ago, and are now a dom/sub couple (and I am the feminised submissive)

From one NYT article about chastity, everything has changed. 

From the clothes I wear (almost all girly in the house now)

to the holidays we take (have a feminisation afternoon and a few hours in a bondage dungeon booked)

to the work i d (opening up a sex toy website - don't worry, I am not trying to shill it here)

happy to chat to anyone about anything really

or, just as it seems to be a standard question, no she isn't looking for a "bull" 😊]]>
Married man, we started dabbling in chastity a year or so ago, and are now a dom/sub couple (and I am the feminised submissive)

From one NYT article about chastity, everything has changed. 

From the clothes I wear (almost all girly in the house now)

to the holidays we take (have a feminisation afternoon and a few hours in a bondage dungeon booked)

to the work i d (opening up a sex toy website - don't worry, I am not trying to shill it here)

happy to chat to anyone about anything really

or, just as it seems to be a standard question, no she isn't looking for a "bull" 😊]]> https://www.likera.com/forum/mybb/Thread-Lovely-evening-planned Sun, 07 Jul 2024 17:29:54 +0000 femexplorer]]> https://www.likera.com/forum/mybb/Thread-Lovely-evening-planned
It's my first post, been a lurker for many years! I just wanted to share my plans for this evening...

I am going to take a nice hot bath, lighting a few candles, and take time shaving my legs. Later I plan to wear some lovey 30 den black pantyhose, some fem clothing, maybe a skirt, and my lovely high-heeled boots that zip up to just below the knee. (Fuck me boots?).

During this preparation, I'm going to open a bottle of Frixnet Rose Prosecco, pouring it into a tall flute glass, taking my time to sip it and enjoy the bubbles. Maybe a little cheese and crackers to enhance the experience.

Then to something new for me... Acrylic nails. I purchased some French Nail style acrylic nails a few weeks back, but have not had the courage to apply them, and I feel tonight is the night. I look forward to seeing how they feel, and how they make many things, like typing, much harder to do.

So a little background to me: I've always loved bondage, pantyhose etc from a young age. In the last few years, I came across erotic hypnosis, and even dabbled with some of the dangerous stuff, like Bambi. I have not listened to anything like that in a while, but I do think it has changed me to make me more open, interested in my feminine side, and enjoying evenings such as that planned for tonight.

Just wanted to share, please be nice, it's my first post!

Nikki. xx]]>
It's my first post, been a lurker for many years! I just wanted to share my plans for this evening...

I am going to take a nice hot bath, lighting a few candles, and take time shaving my legs. Later I plan to wear some lovey 30 den black pantyhose, some fem clothing, maybe a skirt, and my lovely high-heeled boots that zip up to just below the knee. (Fuck me boots?).

During this preparation, I'm going to open a bottle of Frixnet Rose Prosecco, pouring it into a tall flute glass, taking my time to sip it and enjoy the bubbles. Maybe a little cheese and crackers to enhance the experience.

Then to something new for me... Acrylic nails. I purchased some French Nail style acrylic nails a few weeks back, but have not had the courage to apply them, and I feel tonight is the night. I look forward to seeing how they feel, and how they make many things, like typing, much harder to do.

So a little background to me: I've always loved bondage, pantyhose etc from a young age. In the last few years, I came across erotic hypnosis, and even dabbled with some of the dangerous stuff, like Bambi. I have not listened to anything like that in a while, but I do think it has changed me to make me more open, interested in my feminine side, and enjoying evenings such as that planned for tonight.

Just wanted to share, please be nice, it's my first post!

Nikki. xx]]>