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MJSB-03/2024 In the forest - madjack - 05 Jun 2024
MJSB-03/2024 In the forest
Now, this isn't a report about a single session, it's a combination of several 'adventures' as I went about exploring (in every sense) the opportunities for my long-time fantasy of an outdoor self-bondage session.
Equipment:
Black and Tan oil shine tights
Leather cuffs
D-shackles
Rope
Silky knickers
Chastity cage
Tape (for tucking)
'Buff' style neck tubes
The Session:
Actually, I'd better start with my pre-session sessions!
I'd spent weeks, literally, scouting for potential locations where I could attempt some self-bondage. My criteria was strict: location had to be well away from any tracks, roads or trials so that the likelihood of anyone stumbling across me was as close to zero as I could make it. The location also had to be impossible to see by anyone using the aforementioned track, roads or trials, for hopefully obvious reasons! If that sounds simple, it isn't - at least not where I live. I have easy access to a forest, but it is a very popular destination for runners (that'd be me!), hikers, walkers, dog-walkers (never underestimate the curiosity of a dog roaming around in a forest, nor it's tendency to bark and alert it's owners!), mountain bikers, golfers looking for lost balls (see more below), etc. Throw into that mix the fact that the forest is commercially manged, so there are often contractors felling trees or creating new fire roads etc (one location I had planned to use was turned from a dense plantation of Larch to bare earth in less than a day!). Another factor was the distance I needed to walk to the location - ideally less than 2km.
And recently there has been a lot of ariel activity by both the police helicopter and enthusiastic drone flyers.... No one said it would be this hard!
I'd discarded many likely spots due to obvious signs of human presence (litter, camp fires, used condoms!) and two sites after I found golf balls, even though some distance from the fairways (images of golfer crashing through undergrowth looking for lost ball and finding me!)
Long story short - I'd identified four potential locations within my 2k radius and had tested them, and my nerve, by taking a few images of myself wearing a chastity cage/tucked and plugged in my chosen spots.
With no screams from passers by nor blue lights and sirens from the police I was reasonably confident I could take the next step.
My first adventure was to go out, wearing my 'oil shine' tan tights under my hiking trousers, find a quiet spot, tie my ankles together and take a few photos.
To say I was nervous was like suggesting the Titanic 'had a bit of a problem' on it's maiden voyage. I was literally shaking when I removed my trousers and knotted the short length of rope around my ankles!
My second attempt was a little more composed and used an alternative location, deep, deep into a copse of young fir trees.
This time although I followed the same approach of wearing tights under my trousers , when I removed them and bound my ankles, I also added a quick tie of my wrists to get a better 'feel' for the experience. This was the day I'd rather seriously 'tucked' myself, which combined with 30cm/12" of anal beads inside me added another level of excitement to the scene.
Finally, the last adventure my 'home-alone' time allowed involved me wearing my black tights, a cage and a nice butt plug. One other difference was that I also set out wearing ankle cuffs under my trousers, thinking that a D-shackle would make for quicker bondage (I wouldn't risk a padlock at this stage).
That day I was braver (bolder? more reckless?), though my nerves did get the better of me right at the end. The D-shackle was quick and I used a Buff (neck tube/whatever) as a hood over my head and another to quickly bind my wrists behind my back. It was whilst I was bound and blind that I my nerve cracked! I almost panicked, quickly undid my bondage and got dressed before making my escape!
What went well?
I finally lost my outdoors self-bondage virginity! 😁
I discovered I really do enjoy self-bondage outdoors - I can't really explain why, but the sensation was so very different to my indoor play. Maybe it's the 'risk' of discovery (slim to none, if my planning is right, but still a risk), although I felt it was the environment that stimulated me more.
Rope Vs Cuffs - wearing the cuffs as I walked through the forest (including pausing for a conversation with a rather lovely lady golfer - now she might have been an interesting 'lost balls' side-story, though I very much doubt it would have ended well for me!) was almost as big a thrill as having my cock caged/tucked and something up my ass. However, in my eyes, the aesthetics of rope was more appealing. I think more experimentation will be required.
Mindfulness - ok, this was very unexpected. As I sat amongst the trees calming myself, stretching my nylon clad legs out on the mossy forest floor, I did feel an incredible calmness settle over me, it was almost relaxing (shattered when I started binding myself, but that's another thing). The feel of the forest through my tights was quite remarkable, not at all what I expected, and I highly recommend giving it a go (with or without wearing fetish gear).
What could be improved?
Location, location, location - I'm still looking for the perfect spot, but now I have a much clearer idea of what that spot should be. I thought that deep cover in a thick copse of younger trees would be ok, and it is, but it feels dreadfully exposed when you're there. I could and did find deeper cover, but it's way too dark (literally hard to see and impossible to take photographs/video without lights - which is an obvious non-starter!). I've a couple of new locations, so hopefully more to come if I get the time and opportunity....and it doesn't rain!
Weather - sounds obvious, but the weather is a factor I had to contend with. The early 'test' sessions were blessed with dry conditions, but heavy rain quite literally put a damper on thigs for a few days. I don't know about others, but I'm not aroused by the idea of a session in cold rain... At least I don't think I am....
The flip-side of the weather is that when it gets warmer (if that ever happens in the UK!) it could result in me being soaked with sweat (due to wearing tights, etc under my 'normal' clothes) before I even get started.
Camera siting - at home I'm very confident with where to site my camera(s) but outdoors there are so many new factors to consider, not least carrying around tripods (or not), tree branches and ensuring the camera(s) are not obvious to anyone passing close by. I took all the images I've shared with my mobile phone, the quality is fine, but the angles when I set it up remotely are less than perfect.
Outdoor gear/equipment - you'll have noticed I wore camouflage and muted colours (well duh!), but didn't use a groundsheet or tent/shelter. I had considered the addition of something to lie down on, especially after the rain, but I found the feeling of being on the earth rather enjoyable, so kept things simple. Also using a tent/shelter felt like a 'cheat' and so, for now, I'll not try that, even though I have a pop-up shelter that could be used. Another practical consideration is the amount of gear I can carry to a distant spot - less is best, some items are ruled out, others best left for a time I'm more proficient and have found my perfect location.
Clothing - I only wore tights (apologies for the bare, hairy, arms in that one shot) and this is an area I want to expand on. I think the obvious choice would be some kind of 'encasement' which I could mostly 'hide' under the clothing I'd wear when walking to my site. I do have a fantasy of a 'damsel in distress' scene, which would involve more feminine clothing (and a tree or log...) so more improvements to seek in that area too.
Wildlife - In the UK we're lucky that there aren't any obvious 'dangerous' animals (i.e. Bears, wolves and the like), what I'm talking about here are the biting insects! Having endured 100's of bites whilst walking in the forest, I'm very wary of exposing myself to 100's more in a single session! As the season changes and the blighters proliferate I'm going to be heavily investing in insect repellent and timing any session so as to avoid the worst times of the day.
Nerve - Hmmm, yes... I'm not paranoid about being seen, but I'm still nervous. I really want to try some more intense self-bondage, but I'll have to find a 'safer' location first. I'll admit that I'm still some way from using a timed release (ice/timed padlock) or a 'treasure hunt' for release, but adding more ropes/cuffs, a gag, etc are on my 'to do' list.
Well, there you go, another addition to my self-bondage adventures
Enjoy
MJ
RE: MJSB-03/2024 In the forest - Like Ra - 05 Jun 2024
WHOA!!!!! MJ, you've always been my hero, but this is the next level!
RE: MJSB-03/2024 In the forest - Like Ra - 05 Jun 2024
(05 Jun 2024, 15:51 )madjack Wrote: but didn't use a groundsheetMy first thought!
(05 Jun 2024, 15:51 )madjack Wrote: the biting insects!Almost the first thought!
(05 Jun 2024, 15:51 )madjack Wrote: not least carrying around tripods (or not)3 years ago I posted this:
(31 Mar 2021, 15:47 )Like Ra Wrote: And this mini-tripod and mini-light (or a bigger tripod with a mini-light) or phone/tablet holder/arm will get you all set for ... a self-bondage selfie, for example 😋
RE: MJSB-03/2024 In the forest - Like Ra - 05 Jun 2024
And let's cross-link these threads: "Run, damsel, run" self-bondage in the forest
RE: MJSB-03/2024 In the forest - Anne - 06 Jun 2024
Wow, outdoor self bondage! I tied myself up a few times in my own back yard and even that was scary as hell, hoping no neighbors could see me, but out in the open where anybody could spot you even if you did scout the perfect location... I can't even imagine.
Discarding a site because you found golf balls? That's the wrong way of thinking about it, you should discard sites without golf balls because that's where golfers actually went to retrieve their balls 😋
RE: MJSB-03/2024 In the forest - madjack - 06 Jun 2024
(06 Jun 2024, 07:37 )Anne Wrote: Discarding a site because you found golf balls? That's the wrong way of thinking about it, you should discard sites without golf balls because that's where golfers actually went to retrieve their balls 😋
I hadn't thought about it that way - you might have a point.
But.... maybe placing myself in range of those errant balls is still not a good idea, being hit by one would seriously dampen my spirits, aside from scaring the very life out of me!
MJ
RE: MJSB-03/2024 In the forest - madjack - 06 Jun 2024
It's worth me adding a few more 'discoveries' I made during these series of adventures.
I walked, in total, over 35km (7-8hrs) in chastity with no real issues - this indicates I should be ok for longer term chastity plans and know which of my cages are best for this.
I managed a 6km walk, with self-bondage, with a 15cm/6" plug in my ass and it didn't cause any problems - another indicator that I may have solved the alarming habit of my plugs suddenly trying to pop out 'in the middle of Lidl' (other brands are available!) 😁
I can comfortably wear my 30cm/12" anal beads for long walks - when not plugged I used the beads. They really are comfortable for long term wearing and can withstand the movement of quite vigorous walking (I do not stroll around, and can cover 5k in 40mins when I push on a bit)
The tape I used for my tuck withstood both my self-bondage and an energetic walk - maybe not the best tape to use in terms of skin care, but very effective against sweat. But...
Tucking needs to be carefully applied and monitored - after a many hours tucked, plus the walk and session, I was just starting to feel a little discomfort. Maybe it's my lack of experience/practice, but I need to be aware of this and try to solve it.
Quick change clothing is a must - probably this is down to my nervousness, but I became very good at selecting clothing (trousers mainly) that I could slip off and on very, very quickly. I've even sorted out a selection that, in my head, are labelled as 'for outdoor bondage' 😁
MJ
RE: MJSB-03/2024 In the forest - Anne - 06 Jun 2024
Your adventure arrives at the forum at a time where I'm anticipating an outdoor fantasy of mine: being tied up outdoors when it starts raining.
I'm not brave enough to venture into the forest, everywhere I can go around here there will be people but I'm trying to find a good spot in my backyard that is sheltered enough that I won't be accidentally spotted by my neighbors.
The first week of July I'll have the place for myself and I'm trying to work out a camera and bondage setup that I can get myself into very quickly. The plan is to have everything ready to go and wait for a decent amount of rain, keeping a rain monitor open and setting it to alert me with messages on my phone, so that I'm tied up outdoors when it starts raining.
I haven't decided yet on the outfit. I was thinking just a swimsuit for the full experience, one with a more durable fabric so I can be on the grass. Then the bondage, spread eagle on sticks I setup up front, hogtied or tied to the pole of a large sun umbrella, which of course will be closed. Hogtie will probably be the fastest and easiest.
RE: MJSB-03/2024 In the forest - madjack - 06 Jun 2024
(06 Jun 2024, 08:54 )Anne Wrote: The plan is to have everything ready to go and wait for a decent amount of rain, keeping a rain monitor open and setting it to alert me with messages on my phone, so that I'm tied up outdoors when it starts raining
An alternative that could guarantee 'rain' on demand might be to set up a lawn sprinkler on a timer?
MJ
RE: MJSB-03/2024 In the forest - Max515 - 07 Jun 2024
Watch out for wildlife motion activated cameras.