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RE: Hi - not just me then..... - Tinker D - 18 Feb 2018 Sure, like me. I drive almost every day, from theaters to bars to resteraunts. I wear my work clothing. But at nite or my day off, I get to wear anything I want. Sure, you can call it anything you want, crossdressing, free style or whatever. I like clothing. I like pantyhoes, bras and soft panties. And for the most part, I can wear them at home and at work. Well, the bra is somewhat hard to wear on the warmer days, but I do like the way they feel on my skin. But, if I wore my jeans skirt, to a resterant or bar, then that could cause a problem. So I wear my skirts and tees at home when I can and that's it. Do I look like a woman? Sometimes. Do I try to look like a female? Not really, but at times I do look good. In short, I like to dress. I like clothing. Add some self bondage and I'm good for the weekend. I love my kink. Sometimes I dress up every evening, sometimes I go for months doing nothing. But I love my kink. I think you should too. You know, you can keep your kink a Secret. There is no law that you have to make your kink public. RE: Hi - not just me then..... - Like Ra - 18 Feb 2018 (18 Feb 2018, 16:14 )Tinker D Wrote: You know, you can keep your kink a Secret.No-no-no.... Share with us, please! 😉 RE: Hi - not just me then..... - Tinker D - 18 Feb 2018 Well yea..... You can share and be open with us. After all, you just made 2 friends. RE: Hi - not just me then..... - Interestinglyunique - 18 Feb 2018 Ha ha yes this is true thanks - good to 'meet' you both. The actual female dressing up part (which is pretty new for me) strangely doesn't really trouble me (strange because I literally never had any desire to do this before a bout a year ago). It's the bondage/ S&M side of things that I struggle to get my head around. It seems a bit cruel/sadistic to be so aroused by the thought of females in such awful torturous predicaments - but if I'm truly honest with myself it has always really turned me on (ever since I was a young kid). WHY?? I don't think I'll ever know. I know too from girlfriends I've had etc that many women really get turned on by exactly the same things. Do you think it is just human nature? I think the dressing up has given me a way to be the dom and the sub at the same time (does this sound familiar?). It's a really powerful combination for me. Sorry I'm rambling, I tend to analyse! Good to meet you anyway..... I can be quite unsociable and over anxious sometimes so please excuse me if i come across a bit 'prickly'! As for going public, yes I agree and I'm realising that these things will probably always be in the private realm for me (and maybe anonymous people on online forums) and hopefully a private partner if I can find one.... 😊 😊 RE: Hi - not just me then..... - Tinker D - 19 Feb 2018 Ok, not be picky, but bondage can be fun as well as art. If you pick bondage as a form to hurt and kill, that's one thing. But if you bondage as part of love, that's a whole new game right there. Here are some examples. A simple pair of nylons wrapped around the wrists is a form of simple love bondage. It doesn't hurt, it's easy to get out of. But it does add a bit of excitement to one or both. For solo play, self bondage, the act or art of tieing yourself up can be a real powerfull turn on. Bd, sm, bdsm and everything in between can be for everyone and for no one. I do my SB/CD by myself. It's fun for me and is like to figure things out. Give me a problem and I'll figure out how to do or build it. That's me... Tinker D RE: Hi - not just me then..... - Interestinglyunique - 19 Feb 2018 Thankyou Tinker D - fun sounds like a good way of looking at things. Ok I'll sign off for now chat to you nice people soon! RE: Hi - not just me then..... - Tinker D - 19 Feb 2018 Ok, take care. And remember, you always welcome here. See you soon |