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RE: General TG, TS, TV and sex change thread - Hazel - 02 Dec 2020 (02 Dec 2020, 22:40 )Like Ra Wrote:Yeah but the thing is that I and probably many trans women do not see ourselves as feminine men. So its not an issue of inferiority or not being able to wear a style of clothing or even being useful to society; its a problem with my body and its fundamental biology.(02 Dec 2020, 00:51 )Hazel Wrote: Gender is not a lifestyle.Of course not. "gender" to "lifestyle" is like a "red" to "apple". Completely different things, however, there are red apples 😊 RE: General TG, TS, TV and sex change thread - Hazel - 02 Dec 2020 (02 Dec 2020, 22:31 )Like Ra Wrote:(02 Dec 2020, 01:27 )Hazel Wrote: You're 175? Lucky you!I always wanted to be taller 😁 On heels I'm 185 and it feels sooooo high!!! 😁 Trust me, up here in the stratosphere I can touch the clouds 😁 RE: General TG, TS, TV and sex change thread - Hazel - 02 Dec 2020 (02 Dec 2020, 22:48 )no smile Wrote:(02 Dec 2020, 16:52 )Hazel Wrote: You see, I know that I am fundamentally female and feminine but the problem is that i am also attracted (sometimes sexually) to external femininity and women. So my issue is that for some reason I cannot reconcile those two in my mind; that is identifying as female and also being attracted to females. I've read that cis lesbians have the same problem sometimes minus the gender feelings because for them they sometimes say that they don't know whether they envy her, want to be her, want to be friends with her or want to be with her. I feel the same way but since I am not a cis female, my sexual feelings towards femininity sometimes cause me to go into denial of who I feel inside as a woman (a non-sexual feeling) and then I start purging my identity and attribute it to some feminization fetish only to regret it a short time later. Yes it does help no smile! Thank you for your advice. I also think that I should just focus on my gender identity right now and the rest will follow. Actually today I read a comment elsewhere where someone wrote that sometimes people only discover their true sexual orientation after resolving their gender identities first. RE: General TG, TS, TV and sex change thread - Like Ra - 02 Dec 2020 (02 Dec 2020, 00:22 )Hazel Wrote: there's no point in me offering you a definition since you described yourself as trans-skeptical anyways.I can be sarcastic or play a troll in saying that you are CIS-phobic, or that I feel discriminated and denigrated by my beliefs, etc. But this thread proved, that in politically-sensitive discussions sarcasm, "British humour", irony are either misinterpreted or misunderstood, or used word by word to "label" the opponent according to what is needed to achieve 😁 So... Back to trans-sceptics. Let's recall the original context. At first trans-scepticism was mentioned by @wolford57 : (27 Nov 2020, 03:02 )wolford57 Wrote: I am skeptical of the "trans ideology" in many waysThen I replied with: (29 Nov 2020, 23:41 )Like Ra Wrote: During the time this thread exists I went from "trans-sceptical" to "trans-enthusiastic" and back to "trans-sceptical".Apparently the words "trans-enthusiastic" were lost somehow during the "selective reading"? Ooops... sorry ... it was an irony... Anyway, to avoid possible ambiguity, this is what *I* mean under "trans-scepticism". At first I thought, that HRT is a magic pill, that would transfer a male into a passable female. Yes, I found multiple transition lines, that clearly show a boy on the first photo and a girl on the last one. Cool! It works, I thought. Then I started digging. And it turned out, that most "successful transitionings" were either because of plastic surgery or "the art of photography". Nothing wrong with that, but it just proved, that there is no magic pill. We had a very lengthy and hot discussion in this thread, so I will not repeat all this stuff again. So, my "new state of mind" is "unless you are very young, or old, or too fat, or aeady can be confused with either a boy or a girl, HRT will not make you a pretty passable girl. And if you can't "pass", there is no reason to transition. This is what I call "trans-sceptic". RE: General TG, TS, TV and sex change thread - Like Ra - 02 Dec 2020 (02 Dec 2020, 22:48 )Hazel Wrote: that the first part did sound like a guided meditationYes, it is a guided meditation. RE: sex change - Hazel - 02 Dec 2020 (21 May 2014, 14:26 )vanessa_fetish Wrote:(21 May 2014, 00:13 )Tinker D Wrote: Yes and no. It depends on the doctor and the amount you have. Can you still have orgasm after SRS? RE: General TG, TS, TV and sex change thread - Like Ra - 02 Dec 2020 (02 Dec 2020, 22:51 )Hazel Wrote: Yeah but the thing is that I and probably many trans women do not see ourselves as feminine men.I think it's a question of "labeling", "stigmatizing" and painful associations. I bet Indians did not care about the nuances. Yes, the body can not be altered, unless you reached the correct level of energo-transfrmation, but as @vanessa_fetish said - it's the understanding within, and even passing does not matter), so what Indian did is the ultimate and very positive solution. RE: General TG, TS, TV and sex change thread - Hazel - 02 Dec 2020 (02 Dec 2020, 23:12 )Like Ra Wrote:(02 Dec 2020, 00:22 )Hazel Wrote: there's no point in me offering you a definition since you described yourself as trans-skeptical anyways.I can be sarcastic or play a troll in saying that you are CIS-phobic, or that I feel discriminated and denigrated by my beliefs, etc. But this thread proved, that in politically-sensitive discussions sarcasm, "British humour", irony are either misinterpreted or misunderstood, or used word by word to "label" the opponent according to what is needed to achieve 😁 Ok thanks for being clear. Semantics can be difficult at times! 😁 I hover on the border of what can be called passing. I know that by 25 your hips fuse, so if I wait several more years I have no chance in changing bone structure. I honestly think HRT would work well except I would just have larger than normal hands, feet, height head? as well as a guy's voice. Its really unfortunate I could not start before puberty set in because there are some trans individuals out there with very supporting parents and their results are indistinguishable from biological females. RE: General TG, TS, TV and sex change thread - Like Ra - 02 Dec 2020 (02 Dec 2020, 22:48 )Hazel Wrote: Anyways, I don't like how you consider trans identities as energetic parasites.WHERE THE F#$%^& YOU SAW ME MENTIONING THAT???????????????? You can be, feel, think whatever you want, but your thinking must not be altered or affected by anything!!!!! See what I meant? You did this again! Pfffff....... RE: General TG, TS, TV and sex change thread - Hazel - 02 Dec 2020 (02 Dec 2020, 23:20 )Like Ra Wrote: Yes, the body can not be altered, unless you reached the correct level of energo-transfrmation More on this please! 😊 ...I find it strange how the fundamental nature of the universe of matter, atoms themselves, is empty space, yet our physical bodies and biology are so stubborn! Why can't the energy we call mind simply morph the empty energetic space we call matter to it's liking? |