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RE: Actual *forced* feminization? - Like Ra - 07 Sep 2025
(06 Sep 2025, 14:36 )Iniga Wrote: Some very positive experiences can be found here which always inspire me:Sorry, but I see it as an ultimate demotivator... Thanks for reminding me to stop fooling myself 🤣
https://www.reddit.com/r/TransLater/
I will move these posts to the general TG/TS thread, as they are not quite related to the subject.
RE: Actual *forced* feminization? - Like Ra - 07 Sep 2025
(06 Sep 2025, 14:36 )Iniga Wrote: Just curious, why specifically Kai?Because of the age. AFAIR, "it all" started around 6-7yo if not earlier? And Kai always looked like a beautiful genderless angel to me.
RE: Actual *forced* feminization? - Like Ra - 07 Sep 2025
Another definition of "forced feminization" for "willing persons". When even during the "lost interest" periods (it might be "near purging" for some), you still dress up, listen to feminization/sissification hypno, rituals, etc.
RE: Actual *forced* feminization? - Like Ra - 07 Sep 2025
Oh, what @Culmor posted recently fits this thread perfectly!
https://www.likera.com/forum/mybb/Thread-All-things-Bunny-girls?pid=83018#pid83018
https://www.likera.com/forum/mybb/Thread-All-things-Bunny-girls?pid=83019#pid83019
https://www.likera.com/forum/mybb/Thread-Latex-mermaids?pid=83020#pid83020
RE: Actual *forced* feminization? - TamedOz - 08 Sep 2025
Interesting thread. Going back to the original topic and criteria, I think most would agree that forced in this context doesn't mean we don't want it to happen.
It simply means we want someone who tells/commands us to do it or puts us in a situation where we can't avoid it, whether they know it's something we secretly want or not. This is the same premise for a lot of those sort of sissy scenarios like the bunny girls or the mermaids.
Ultimately it's something we want, but due to social norms or embarrassment we want someone else to take ownership of "enforcing" it on us. That way we feel absolved of it.
RE: Actual *forced* feminization? - Like Ra - 08 Sep 2025
(07 Sep 2025, 02:04 )Like Ra Wrote: Another definition of "forced feminization" for "willing persons". When even during the "lost interest" periods (it might be "near purging" for some), you still dress up, listen to feminization/sissification hypno, rituals, etc.Some irreversible (or difficult/delayed to reverse) decisions made during the "highly aroused state" can force you to endure feminized state, even when "you are not in the mood". For example:
- permanent make-up
- "permanent" nail polish
- (lockable) piercing
- tattoo
- removed body hair (I think, it's pretty much normal, and even a must, regardless feminization)
- thrown away male clothes
Forced public exposure (think self-bondage time-lock techniques):
- you travel by public transport to a shopping centre in the middle of a big city
- you change your clothes in a toilet
- you lock your male clothes in a backpack or a bag with a time lock, or a lock with the key left at home
- enjoy your ride back home
Alternative 1:
- you dress up at home early in the morning, e.g. when it's still dark and empty
- you travel to the city centre
- as above
Alternative 2 (if your door can be locked without the key):
- You hide you home keys somewhere outside (make sure there is a spare key at your friends/parents/relatives!)
- You go out dressed-up
- You close the door
- Enjoy the trip to your keys and back dressed en femme.
RE: Actual *forced* feminization? - TamedOz - 09 Sep 2025
Those are all very interesting ideas and super sexy to think about... but I always wonder how anyone actually does these.
For example, most of my neighbours know me very well, so locking myself out of the house dressed up will likely have social repercussions.
Even going to a shopping centre or other remote place, there will likely be social repercussions or the risk of someone filming you for social media. Maybe I'm just too scared >.>
RE: Actual *forced* feminization? - Like Ra - 09 Sep 2025
(09 Sep 2025, 01:50 )TamedOz Wrote: but I always wonder how anyone actually does these.Hence, the name of the thread: forced 😉
RE: Actual *forced* feminization? - Iniga - 09 Sep 2025
(09 Sep 2025, 01:50 )TamedOz Wrote: Those are all very interesting ideas and super sexy to think about... but I always wonder how anyone actually does these.
For example, most of my neighbours know me very well, so locking myself out of the house dressed up will likely have social repercussions.
Even going to a shopping centre or other remote place, there will likely be social repercussions or the risk of someone filming you for social media. Maybe I'm just too scared >.>
Less for forced and not for humiliation reasons & a positive re-enforcement method .... so as an aside for you specifically....
One thing I sometimes suggest to people who are trying to become more comfy in public => go on a holiday & except for the traveling time, take the clothing and accessories which you enjoy & wish to become more comfy in.
A good friend of mine (pre HRT) did this recently - a week in Spain & she *really* enjoyed it. Choosing an accepting and open destination is also important, someplace like Saudi would be a very suboptimal choice, but there are many holiday destinations in Europe and their islands - some of which are specifically very LGBT+ welcoming - which would be good & safe and also pleasant & enjoyable to be. She is now much more comfy wearing what she wants in public at home where she lives. Had a huge positive effect for her.
PS: just saw your location, so the EU is a bit of a hike for you. I'm less familiar with the Pacific, but suspect there should be some possibilities there as well. Feeling safe is important & LGBT+ vacation destinations often provide that.