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MJB - 2025/01 - when you're remotely controlled - madjack - 10 Jul 2025
MJB - 2025/01 - when you're remotely controlled
This is a very different self-bondage tale, one I never imagined, dreamt or even fantasised I would undertake. It doesn't involve ropes or straps or cuffs or any of the usual elements that feature in my adventures. To be honest it doesn't really involve bondage, at least not in the classic sense. It isn't even finished yet, nor will be for many days.
Let me explain....
Equipment:
Cobra style chastity cage
Single use coded security tags
Various tights
Skirts
Heels
Panties
The session:
Have you ever had an idea suddenly pop into your head as you chat with a friend? Something totally out of the blue and quite startling compared to your usual thoughts? Well, I did, only a few days ago, and on impulse I acted upon it.
The friend is a person I've never met, but have chatted with through the wonders of the internet and the delights of FetLife. We'd chewed the fat on all kinds of things kinky or fetish related and enjoyed some very exciting exchanges of ideas and fantasies.
I was at the start of my home-alone week and had locked myself in a chastity cage, intending to see how long I could resist the urges that always come over me when I'm physically unable to play with myself. As I sat at my home office desk, trying to do my best at clearing my inbox, whilst caged and wearing a pair of lovely sheer tights I amused myself with a bit of chit-chat with my online friend.
Normally this is as far as it would have gone, but I was clearing away my chastity cage bag (with many cages in it - I know, shocking!) I spilt a packet of plastic security tags and a strange plastic peg that nearly always come along with the chastity cage and it's barrel lock. As I was on a boring conference call, I found myself fiddling with the tags and a spare chastity cage, trying to work out how the set-up worked. It was obvious the plastic peg replaced the brass barrel lock, but it took be a few attempts to poke the security tag through the slot in the peg and out so it could be fastened - locking the cage closed, without needing the key and barrel. I'd understood the concept of course, but never bothered to try it.
And that's when the idea struck me - with a key I would always be able to open the cage (emergencies only - honest!) and I'd genuinely managed over 4 days continuous chastity before succumbing to temptation. If I used the security tag, there was no key to release me, so I couldn't so easily submit to temptation. Better still, if someone could check that the cage remained sealed and the tag unbroken, with some kind of forfeit if it wasn't, then I'd have more incentive to resist any urge to simply break the tag and release myself (though the option was always there in case of emergency).
I tentatively floated the idea with my online friend who asked a few questions before agreeing to indulge my little fantasy.
I showed them my cage, barrel locked in place, and asked them to pick a tag number from the selection I'd got.
"How long can you keep it one?"
"Until next Monday if I can. Forfeit if not?"
"963578"
"Done...ulp!"
"Shit! Shouldn't I have asked what the forfeit was first?"
"Bit late now 😁 "
And that 'shit' was for real, as I suddenly realised I'd got carried away in the moment and not thought things completely through first....sound familiar??
Well at least I knew I had to stay caged now for longer than I'd ever managed before.... or else...????
The messages kept flowing back and forth until we got onto the experience of orgasm when caged
".....that doesn't mean you can between now and unlocking though.."
"oh....so no orgasm even caged then..."
"Nope, zero orgasms unless its achieved through anal stimulation"
" Feminine clothing daily, at least from the waist down. Tights under male clothes should you have to venture out too."
".... I should tell you to remain plugged except when toilet breaks are required but actually I think you should NOT have any plugs or toys in use for the duration..."
" Ohhhhh...... But why????"
" Maybe I'll relent on the no ass play by the weekend..."
All of the above is genuinely from our message chat, edited down to make for easier reading.
And the strange thing? I suddenly really wanted to see this through, to fully commit to the game we were playing. Just like a serious self-bondage session I wanted it to work.
And so far, with a few minor twists and turns it is working and I am remaining committed.
Last night was tough, but night always are when you're locked away, especially if like me you'd spent many sexually frustrating hours watching prostate orgasm videos and trying to work out how to achieve one! The heat didn't make things much fun either.
I barely slept and kept waking to my cock pulsing for few seconds, almost as if I was about to orgasm, but never quite. I did find my panties were quite damp by the morning...
And I'm still caged, still submitting to a remote controller, going to the shops with tights under my trousers, still femme from the waist down inside the house (tights and panties right now)
And I'm still hoping that, before the weekend, I might beg the use of a magic wand, or plug, or dildo, or something....anything!
This morning's check-in has passed muster:
I couldn't help myself at one point and had to quickly bind my legs
And I'm getting so bold in my garden, openly wearing tights under my shorts, in full view of any nosy neighbours.
What went... is going well?
I'm finding it hard to explain how much pleasure and enjoyment I'm getting from this (at least so far!). I would never, ever, have imaging doing this until 2 days ago and yet here I am.
Selecting a slightly bigger cage, but with a small ring had really worked for me. Whenever I find myself becoming aroused my cock begins to grown but is brought up short before even half erect. For some reason this, in my current circumstances, perfectly erotic. I grow, I pump a tiny amount every now and then, before relaxing and then starting the cycle over again. With a tiny cage there is simply no hint or chance of erection at all (which is fun too, but not right now). I'm starting to think the cycle of growing, not quite enough, shrinking, then growing again is most erotic and terribly frustrating.
The nervous anticipation with each message I receive, not quite knowing what new instruction I might be facing. or even if there will be any change, which is equally and strangely exciting.
What could be improved?
It would be so easy to say 'agree the rules before you start, name the forfeits and limits, get it all sorted out before committing'. But I think that might not be quite right. Setting certain limits, yes. I did set the duration limit after all. And having a mutual understanding, respect and trust is also key - but I wouldn't ever have begun this adventure without those in place.
I think it might be best for me to return to this post next Tuesday and submit my feelings then.
Watch this space..... to be continued 😁
Play safe
MJ
RE: MJB - 2025/01 - when you're remotely controlled - Like Ra - 10 Jul 2025
Great story, as always!
I think you are very close to hypno-fetish, as it has all the hooks you mentioned. Including the great unknown.
RE: MJB - 2025/01 - when you're remotely controlled - madjack - 10 Jul 2025
(10 Jul 2025, 22:06 )Like Ra Wrote: Great story, as always!
I think you are very close to hypno-fetish, as it has all the hooks you mentioned. Including the great unknown.
Interesting, though I'm not quite so sure.
Maybe when the game completes, giving me greater knowledge of how it progressed and what my final feeling are, we could revisit your theory.
MJ
RE: MJB - 2025/01 - when you're remotely controlled - Anne - 11 Jul 2025
Great new experience! Hope you have a lot of fun or as close to fun as is allowed 😁 Keep us updated!
RE: MJB - 2025/01 - when you're remotely controlled - madjack - 11 Jul 2025
(11 Jul 2025, 13:12 )Anne Wrote: Great new experience! Hope you have a lot of fun or as close to fun as is allowed 😁 Keep us updated!
Of course I will 😁
FYI I did my morning 'check-in' twice today
- the first when I woke too early due to a very strong attempted erection. Perversely, this is both the best and worst part about sleeping in chastity. It can be most uncomfortable, but at the same time incredibly (to me) erotic as I realise there is no easy solution to the situation and I'm going to have to try and calm myself without being able to deal with it in a more 'hands-on' manner!
- second check in much less fraught, but also to prove I was wearing tights and panties But there was a tiny bit of drama, when I realised the continued wearing of the plastic tab, probably combined with my shower, had started to wear the numbers off!
I sought confirmation from my controller that I could attempt to seal the number under a layer of nail varnish, as I was worried the numbers would rub off completely or be dissolved by the varnish.
Fortunately all ok again, and the varnish should protect what remains (optimistically I've pre-treated a number of my other tags).
Cheap Chinese plastic tat! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
MJ
RE: MJB - 2025/01 - when you're remotely controlled - Vixien - 11 Jul 2025
I've had same problem with numbers. Solved in a same way with nail varnish 😜
Once, I've bought a lot containing 20 security locks. There was a 4 group of 5 locks with the same number. Of course that was not mentioned in a description 😤.
RE: MJB - 2025/01 - when you're remotely controlled - madjack - 11 Jul 2025
(11 Jul 2025, 15:04 )Vixien Wrote: Once, I've bought a lot containing 20 security locks. There was a 4 group of 5 locks with the same number. Of course that was not mentioned in a description 😤.
That's shocking, if not particularly surprising!
And the ones on eBay are surprisingly expensive at over £1 each!
I shall keep my eyes open.
MJ
RE: MJB - 2025/01 - when you're remotely controlled - madjack - 13 Jul 2025
Still going strong.
Saturday:
And Sunday:
MJ
RE: MJB - 2025/01 - when you're remotely controlled - Like Ra - 13 Jul 2025
(13 Jul 2025, 19:29 )madjack Wrote: Still going strong.... Ah, I would use glue ...
RE: MJB - 2025/01 - when you're remotely controlled - Tinker D - 14 Jul 2025
When I heard remote control, I was expecting a radio controlle or a Wi-Fi control chastity or anal device that would be controlled by someone or an AI bot. An example would be, you’re walking through a store or taking in a show, and you hear three little beeps.
You clinch, knowing going to happen but you have no idea what.
Electric shock…. Maybe. Some vibrations somewhere maybe ? Women get a kick wearing remote vibrating dildo panties. Maybe the collar your will contract a bit… who knows. The list could be rather long. Mussel wires around your cock that tighten and loosen.
You’ll never know.